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I just want to find a girl for myself. Is this not possible?

Q.   I have been trying to find someone to be with for the last six years and sadly it has never worked out. I have tried dating several females during this time but it never seems to go right,I caught the first girl cheating on me with four other ...

A.   12 March 2013: Hey man, I was in your position for many years. I didn't really have a girlfriend, and it took me far too long to even get laid (with a stripper, nonetheless, but for free). Anyway, I finally met the girl I have been with for 3 years, but what I ... (read in full...)

Do you think unwanted sexual fantasy can be caused by distress?

Q.   Hey guys, Here's the deal. I'm 27, have always loved, adored, and fantasized about women. I've also been incredibly insecure, especially around women, and since I moved in with my woman about 1 1/2 years ago, I've been increasingly hav...

A.   10 March 2013: Hey Mandy, I don't think I'm too ashamed to admit it. I've "come out" of the closet as gay or bi a million times now to my family and some people to ease my distress, but I can't accept it because of my strong heterosexual nature my whole life. ... (read in full...)

Do you think unwanted sexual fantasy can be caused by distress?

Q.   Hey guys, Here's the deal. I'm 27, have always loved, adored, and fantasized about women. I've also been incredibly insecure, especially around women, and since I moved in with my woman about 1 1/2 years ago, I've been increasingly hav...

A.   9 March 2013: Hi Chigirl, Truly beautiful answer. Hugs. Other answers are also appreciated.... (read in full...)

I'm inexperienced. How can I know if she reaches orgasm or not? What are the signs that will tell me if she has orgasmed?

Q.   Hi I’m inexperienced guy when it comes to sex, so can you help me please, with some tips of female orgasms? How do I know if she reaches it or not? What are some signs of female orgasms? What are the best ways to ask a girl? Chances are she wi...

A.   9 March 2013: Haha, if her body freezes all over, you'll know. My girl climaxes like every time, and I don't think she fakes it at all. I've asked her, and she tells me pretty confidently. It's a thing we have - get to orgasm. Might not be the healthiest ... (read in full...)

It's added to my anxiety. My favourite teacher has changed. He's ignoring me. What should I do?

Q.   My favourite teacher is not himself anymore, he used to favour me but now it's getting weird, he used to let me off with things; he still lets me off some things about no as much anymore. But it's weird how one week he's nice to me then the next...

A.   9 March 2013: As a male teacher, I sometimes feel awkward around students your age. It's an issue I've always had with women, and seeing a girl your age can trigger those feelings. I have a long-term girlfriend whom I live with, but it's weird - some weeks I'... (read in full...)

Looking for a simple solution to my complex problem - life advice please

Q.   Dear Cupid, I have a complex situation that’s ruining my life and I need some advice or answers to get me out of the hard situation I’m in. I’m depressed, stressed and so confused, and it all boils down to my past experiences growing up and t...

A.   9 March 2013: I'm in therapy - also sliding scale - with different issues. It's a lot to sort out. Best of luck. I think in a few weeks, I'm a little better, but it will be an ongoing process.... (read in full...)

I am at a complete loss about my sexuality. Please help!

Q.   I'm a male just under 25 and I am completely at a loss to who I am as for the past couple of years I have been confused about my sexuality. I don't know if I am Straight, Gay, Bi or simply going through a phase or perhaps suffering from hocd. I mu...

A.   9 March 2013: Hey dude, I know it's 4 months later, but I'll chime in. I'm going through the same thing. I started therapy, and my sneaking suspicion is that there is some distress going on in my life that is causing these gay fantasies. I'm 27, and th... (read in full...)

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