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writes:I'm 18 so its not like I'm new to the dating pool or even a virgin so most of what happened is strange. I had a dream I had sex with my English teacher, it was amazing but I've never thought about his like for a moment in the past three years that he has taught me. our real life relationship basically consists of the rest of my class hating him and me the only one respecting him and even liking him, he is a really great teacher. He isn't really hot either, but not ugly or fat or anything. He has an amazing mind (works a lot like mine) but that's where my admiration stops. He's got a wife and two kids who I have seen at least 100 pictures of and I've never been interested in men in relationships. So why would I have the most interment sex dream I've ever had about him? basically the dream starts out with a passionate kiss in my room and works it's way into one of those love movie sex scenes all sweet and gentle and kind. Reply to this Question
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (30 May 2014):
 Sex in dreams doesn't symbolize real life sex. Sex in dreams can mean several things, but the most common way to interpret them is this: sex with a person you know, in a dream, means that you are interested or drawn to some ability they have, or something they resemble to you. You might be looking for this ability in a partner, or your mind is simply exploring if this is the type of quality you want in a partner.
A person in a dream is NEVER the actual person you know in real life. The person is always a symbol of something, most often they symbolize a part of yourself. In this case, you say you respect him, and you're the only one who respect him in the class. So maybe the quality you're intimate with is your own ability to go against the current, and make up your own mind about someone, rather than just copy what everyone else thinks.
Alternatively, the way his mind works is similar to yours (as you said), so you are attracted to similar minds, and your subconsciousness is testing out if this is a quality you want in a future partner.
I've had sex with everyone in my dreams. So to say every male in my family (the subconsciousness is looking for what qualities I want in a partner based on the male role models I have in my family). I've also had sex dreams about teachers, I've had sex dreams about myself, my friends, me changing gender and having sex.. But like I said, sex in dreams doesn't symbolize sex in real life.
You can go to dreammoods.com for more interesting interpretations. There's a long section there about what sex can mean in a dream.
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reader, franny1297  +, writes (30 May 2014):
 You might have a crush on this teacher. Relax, I'm only 14 and I've had loads of crushes (and similar dreams like yours) so your not alone :)Dreams don't mean anything, trust me, there is no special meaning behind this dream, your subconscious mind expresses it's self through dreams, again this means nothing. It could mean that you like this teacher and that you might subconsciously thought about what I might be like to have great sex - seeing as you're a virgin, perhaps you wonder what sex might be like. Do you have other male teachers? maybe you don't seem to mentally connect yourselves with them, or even other guys your age, but you see a connection with this teacher. Teachers can be hot when they are smart or have similar interests to you.You might not think anything of this teacher but your subconscious mind is like "Hey, this guy is awesome, he thinks like me, he is decent, doesn't try to be like anyone else - he's perfect, lets get him!" just joking, Lol. But my point is, because he's smart, a teacher, you see him good at everything, even sex, totally normal. Give yourself a break and don't look to much into this, your a teenager just like me, and that's just us. The first guy that happens to catch out eye in a minimal way is the one.You evidently are at an age where there's a lot of hormonal activity going on and it appears you have a bit of a crush on one particular teacher. Sometimes we do have crazy dreams that make no sense to us. The fact that he's married with kids makes him mature and experienced in sex, that appealing! And the fact that he's married means nothing, if you have a crush, that all it is.To sum it up, you might want to have sex or know what passionate sex feels like, your hormones hunny, their not done tormenting you yet. Sometimes we like to find a meaning in everything, especially weird dreams, who doesn't? But really, this dream means nothing in the real world, it's just what you think. Just stay safe, don't interfere with your teacher's life, talk to him, be cool, mature, don't be awkward - You'll be fine. BYE xxx~14 year old girl with many crushes~
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