Acne is getting me down..does anyone have any advice?
Q. Hi. I'm an 18 year old girl who has suffered with quite severe acne since I was 11. I have dry skin, scars on my cheeks from previous acne and the majority of my acne is on my cheeks, chin and jawline. I know that wearing make-up doesn't help ata...
A. 2 March 2013: Have you had your hormones checked? Sometimes when acne doesn't respond to prescription medications, it's due to a hormonal imbalance. I would suggest making an appointment with a reproductive endocrinologist, who should test your testosterone, ... (read in full...)
My father in law creeps me out. I spoke to him, but what more can I do?
Q. My father in law is always staring at me and gives me long hugs where I feel he tries to get a grab. I've told my fiancé I don't feel comfortable being alone with his dad so he really tries to stick around. Yesterday though they were both outside ...
A. 20 February 2013: OMG - that is completely inappropriate. Your fiancé needs to protect you and keep you away from him. I would have your fiancé sit down and talk with your FIL about his inappropriate behaviors and let him know that if he doesn't stop, the both of you ... (read in full...)
My shyness is taking over my life! What can I do? Where to turn for advise?
Q. I'm sorry this is long but please read it, please! I feel like my shyness is taking over my life really rapidly, I don't know what to do. I am scared of: .Meeting new people .Being the center of attention .Being watched while doing something ...
A. 20 February 2013: It sounds like the basis of your issues stems from family problems, which you didn't really share (nor do you have to). However, unless those issues are dealt with, I don't know how you can tackle the shyness, which seems to be an effect of abuse, ... (read in full...)
I hurt my ex girlfriend when I finished the relationship. I know she's hurting. How can I help her?
Q. I had a 3 month relationship with this girl and we fell in love really quickly. We had some trust issues and I ended up breaking her heart. Since then she has been avoiding and ignoring me. The thing is, she is still emotionally dependent on me ...
A. 20 February 2013: Please just leave her alone. She will survive. You're prolonging her agony by drawing out the situation. It's very immature of her friends to divulge her fragile state to you, anyway. Don't use guilt as the reason for contact. She isn't able to ... (read in full...)
Was I wrong to finally snap and publicly humiliate and insult someone who had been talking trash about me for over a year?
Q. Hi. I am looking for advice on whether I did the right thing or not. My boyfriend has this girl friend, who I have only met a handful of times, who has a lot of animosity toward me. I had always been really nice to her the times I ran into her. When ...
A. 19 February 2013: I don't know. I think you should have taken the high road, but I can appreciate your perspective and circumstance.
What I find REALLY odd, though, is that you had to defend yourself against a hostile attack while your BF sat idly by, knowing she ... (read in full...)
Where is the line between deceit and harmless white lies?
Q. I would appreciate some opinions please, and thank you. There are TWO parts to my problem. I believe I have met my soulmate. I have only felt this way once before, so I know the feeling. I knew it immediately. We have been together nearly a y...
A. 18 February 2013: Your boyfriend spewed out a 100% lie. You asked him - point blank if he has talked to this girl and he said, "NO". It's not a white lie or fabrication, it's a bold faced LIE! This is sooo shady! Preserve some dignity and hold yourself to... (read in full...)
Completely confused with exes behaviour!?
Q. Hi I am totally confused with my exes behaviour! We broke up at Christmas after an argument. He barely spoke to me over Christmas then told me the day after boxing day that he wanted to break up and he'd arranged somewhere else to live! ...
A. 15 February 2013: You need to let him go. Men are simple, and sometimes women try to complicate something that is otherwise, blatantly obvious to the bystander. If he truly wanted to be with you, he would be with you. If he's not with you, he doesn't want to be with ... (read in full...)
Should I go back to the social club where I met my ex?
Q. Hope you guys can help. I recently moved to a new city and joined a social club to meet and make new friends. Within weeks I started dating a guy who was a regular at the club. We were together for 6 weeks when I broke it off. I then took a b...
A. 15 February 2013: You need to stop worrying about other people (ex or no ex) and do what YOU want to do.
If you enjoy the social club, then go to the social club, so long as its not for the reason of rocking the boat with the ex.
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How do I let my wife know its ok for her to have a vibrator?
Q. I am a construction worker in Australia, which at the moment means working away from home. A lot. Recently i came home while my wife was out, and my curiosity got the better of me, and i looked in my wifes' bedside table top drawer where i found a ...
A. 15 February 2013: When you are home, suggest that you use it together while you are being intimate, as you find it to be highly arousing. The may release some of her inhibitions or stigmas. ... (read in full...)
Should I tell her he's been cheating on her with me???
Q. I've been messing around w/old fling who has a girlfriend. Come to find out, she is a really good woman. I feel horrible, should I tell her? I am 27 and we've have had little flings since my senior year in high school. He has always been a do...
A. 15 February 2013: If you were able to uncover his 'dogginess," then surely this good woman will eventually come to the same realizations. Dodgy men eventually get caught, let her figure it out for herself. If I were the 'good woman', you, as the mistress, would hold ... (read in full...)
We've been married 5 years and my husband sends his ex wife a Valentine's Day greeting?
Q. My husband has been loving and generous towards both me and his daughters this Valentine's Day. However, he sent an e-mail greeting 'Happy Valentine's Day' to his ex wife. We have been married nearly five years. How should I feel? React? ...
A. 15 February 2013: I don't think this is complicated, but there are some missing details. Was this email sent for the sole purpose of wishing her a Happy Valentine's Day, or was it secondary to, "Hey, I'm still in need of x,y,z...btw, Happy V-Day".
If its the form... (read in full...)
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