2 girls traveled to see me, who do I choose?
Q. I am 23 year old boy from Berlin. I dated this girl from United States when i was like 18, she was actually my first love. It went actually pretty well until the time came when she had to return back to her country and we got separated. I missed her ...
A. 22 November 2010: 1. move on different circles.
2. Never let them to see each other. (ShXX you did it)
Desition:
3. Choose the one with bigger boobs and better ass (joke)
3. Choose the one that makes you more happy.
3. Choose the one that stays there.
4. ... (read in full...)
My gorgeous, married neighbor is always home alone!
Q. hey i'm a 21 year old guy and i hav a very gorgeus looking married neighbour who lives alone at her home,as her husband is out of station most of the time.though both of us have never talked to each other but the way she looks at me,it seems that ...
A. 22 November 2010: Humm, clean your mind and intentions.
You are single and still lives with your parents, it is something usefull, it will brings you a safer approach and an excelent cover.
1. Play the good neightborg card. Wait for a chance, a day she comes ba... (read in full...)
What do men find sexy?
Q. What do men find sexy in a woman? Is it her smile, is it the way she carries herself, is it the way she looks, is it her attitude towards life, etc...? I really would like to men what men perceive as sexy in a woman. Thank you in advance. :)...
A. 22 November 2010: A sexy woman must be clean and smell great.
A sexy woman must have a beautiful smile.
A sexy woman must have a sexy attitude.
A sexy woman looks at you and you feel better that tarzan ot brad pitt.
A sexy woman makes you feel you have a change to... (read in full...)
My husband has a big crush on my best friend!
Q. My Husband and i have been married for 5 years now. For the most part it has been really good and very trust worthy. he is in the military and travels alot So trust is very important to both of us. He has never given me a reason to not to trust...
A. 22 November 2010: Yours is a very hard sittuation. You have opened a door that droves you to a weird land. I think there are at least two ways: 1) Ask him to fight agains that idea. 2) Play blind and let him to deal with it. 3) Allow him to fulfill his fantasy but ... (read in full...)
He puts on a condom when we're only making out?
Q. as soon as we start making out my boyfriend puts on a condom. i meen like straight straight away.can it be that he doesnt like blow jobs and just doesnt want to say so thats why? he likes it when i rub him he told me. or is it just because hes ...
A. 12 November 2010: He is someone who cares a lot for you, keep loving him.... (read in full...)
After our 3some and 4some I am wondering if I should continue the relationship?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 6 months and recently had a foursome (MMFF) and a few weeks after that had threesome with the girl we had a foursome with. My boyfriend wanted to do it because he has never had a threesome or foursome ...
A. 29 September 2010: I think you do not have a boyfriend but a sex pet. You think that because you have purchased him by covering some of his lack of income, you are her owner and that he must always give you the sex performance you have payd for.
For him the thing ma... (read in full...)
I told my online boyfriend's wife about us but he came back to me anyways!
Q. I had an online affair for almost 5 yrs with a 69 yrs old married man. We did not meet personally but had a huge fight for he plays with women in net and flirt and he had a gf where he met personally here in the Philippines. A year ago we had ...
A. 29 September 2010: Easy, you fill a need he has. You are someone he can abuse freely.... (read in full...)
What do men hate?
Q. What is the main thing that makes a man hate or dislike a woman? Men only please!...
A. 29 September 2010: Drama queen.
Jelocy.
A girl who wants to take controll over your life.
A girl who wants to tame and change you.
A girl who acts like a hore, sex in exchange of things.
A dumb girl, yes, we also like to talk.
A girl who hates our world -include... (read in full...)
We made up, but my new bloke is back to his old behaviour!
Q. I've been seeing a new guy for about 1.5 months. He is 21 and I'm 23. Like him a lot. But he forgot that we had plans. This is like the second time. And the other week we were supposed to go out on a date. But he showed up drunk, with his friend. ...
A. 29 September 2010: He do not care about you, get the message dear. Dump that guy and start having more selfrespect.... (read in full...)
Does the pain ever go away?
Q. Hi, This may not be the right place for my Q but I thought I'd ask it anyway. My father very suddenly collapsed and died in my arms over 20 yrs ago although it feels like yesterday. Each year on the anniversary of his death (today) I a...
A. 29 September 2010: The pain will strat fading as soon as you stop grabbing it. Get over it, stop feeling guilty for being alive, forgive yourself, writte a letter to your loved one who died and send it in your mind, let him go to rest with god.... (read in full...)
How can I convince my wife that an occasional non emotional sex night is not cheating or a threat to her?
Q. I am happily married. I love my wife very much, and would never contemplate having an affair. No interest. However, I really miss seeing and touching other womens naked bodies. The newness the excitement. It's just more exciting than the same old ...
A. 20 September 2010: Give her the same freedom you are asking for yourself.
Dude, marriage is about commitment and monogamy. If you breake the rules it is cheating and you will find a divorce demand very soon.... (read in full...)
I have small breasts--should I get surgery?
Q. I have small breasts, and I feel very insecure. Should I get surgery? Men have teased me about it, even an ex said big breasts were better. Even hear on DC I've read guys post that guys do tend to prefer big breasts (even though they don't hate ...
A. 20 September 2010: Look for a guy with small hands jeje.
Outside attributtes can be easily obtained for any man(rubber dolls, hookers, internet pictures...).
The beauty is inside you, a real and valuable woman is beautiful for the ligth of her soul that shines... (read in full...)
Should I trust that he won't cheat if I'm lying in his bed?
Q. I have been in a relationship for 8 years. 5 of those years have been long distance (seeing each other 5 times a year for a week at a time). recently I found out that he has been cheating for 3 years mainly with one girl, he says he doesnt/didnt ...
A. 20 September 2010: He will doit again, any time he has the change to doit. If he doesn't respects you now, why will he doit knowing that you are a fool that believes anything he says??... (read in full...)
She has a boyfriend, what are the possible courses of action?
Q. Some 7 months ago I was having serious problems with my girlfriend and met this gorgeus super sweet girl. Our connection was instant, and we started hanging out a lot. All of a sudden she tried to kiss me, opening a Pandora box. It was difficult to ...
A. 20 September 2010: You are a fool, you had problems with your ex, so it was a matter of making the breaking legal. You found the perfect girl for you and you let another guy to take her, just because you wasn't sure. Dear friend happiness do not give second chances so ... (read in full...)
How do I deal with what I heard through the grapevine?
Q. My husband and I were separated but now we are trying to get back together. We have children together and we have been together more than 10 years. I found out that while we were separated that my husband told a woman he slept with that she was ...
A. 20 September 2010: Well, if someone tells a guy that he is nice or good at something, a gentleman will compliment back. Pure courtesy.
I think that you shouldn't be thinking about a sex contest. ther will always be people who are better lover than you or him. But... (read in full...)
Sharing my wife... playing with fire?
Q. I want to know if anyone has ever played around with this – I am a 41 year old man… recently married a beautiful 27 year old woman. We are very much in love…trying to have a child together. We have a great sex life…but we are both on the adven...
A. 20 September 2010: You are playing with fire, you should ask for proffesional help because of your lust for seeing her giving a blowjob to another man. I think she doesn't want to do that but she can't find a way to tell you directly so she ask for something she ... (read in full...)
Once a Mummys' Boy, Always a Mummys' Boy?
Q. Hey, I've been with my boyfriend almost 2 years, we're both serious about each other, and we've talked about having a serious future together. However, in a recent argument he text me saying "well guess what my mother is far more important than ...
A. 25 August 2010: Well the natural order of importance for a man:
1. Momy
2. Friends and sports.
3. personal world.
4. Girlfriend.
About a marriage, you should understand 2 things: mon will always win on a battle for the soul of the guy. She can be your bes... (read in full...)
No One Likes My Husband
Q. Help! My husband and I have separated after 10 years of marriage due to the way he treated/rejected my adult child. We are working on our relationship, however, I have just been made aware that no one in my family likes him at all and has only ...
A. 25 August 2010: No, you should take this chance to be free and happy. When you love a woman, you take her and all of her world with you. A mother wont abandom her child in order to be with some guy.
Family always goes first.... (read in full...)
Why do guys want threesomes? and whats the chances of a break up afterwards?
Q. Why do guys like three somes so much? Cant one girl make them happy, all girls have the same parts so theres really no difference. My bf told me he wanted one and i was upset that he would even want to sleep with another girl besides me cause i only ...
A. 25 August 2010: Well a threesome is the most common fantasy among men. I think that is because all the porn we has seen during our young years (it is a shame but most our sexual education is given by some perverts who makes porn movies).
For a guy love and sex ... (read in full...)
Its only been 4 months since I found out he cheated and I am having a hard time trusting him, but now he is blaming me and says if I carry on he will cheat again!
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 5years and recently i found out he had cheated on me twice. I love him so much and i stayed with him as he promised to never do it again. But i find it so hard to trust him now and i think i am pushing him away as i ...
A. 20 August 2010: Dear, leave that boy. If you are not goint to thrust him, there is no need to suffer, just break with him and save a nice friendship.... (read in full...)
Sex, red bumps and thrush
Q. me and my boyfreind have been going out for 7months and before we met i was going out with this guy for a year and we had sex a couple of times sometimes without a condom but he had never had sex with anyone else and neither had i, but now my 7 ...
A. 20 August 2010: Dear, go to your doctor. He will help you.... (read in full...)
Husband's co worker is obsessed with him, is he cheating with her?
Q. My husbands co worker (girl) has been telling me things such as they are planning a weekend together and sexually explicit details between him and her. But he denies that he has ever touched her and we have been dealing with face book remarks and ...
A. 20 August 2010: I think she might be trying to hurt the two of you. It is highly possible that all of it is just a lie she has made.
The big question is if you thrust him or not.
the second is if you will leave your well gained throphe to a person who uses suc... (read in full...)
Should I have sex with him even though he wont wear condoms and I'm not on birth control?
Q. i've been with my bf for 1year. hes my first love and im his he's two years older than me.. we are both vigins.. and homecoming night b4 his big game.. i well lets just say i wanna have sex with him.. he gave me i ring and we are getting married ...
A. 5 August 2010: Dear you are atill a Kid, the time to be a teenager is too short. You will only have five to seven years to be inocent, fool, punk, childish. That time of live is the only one where your only concern is to enjoy and to learn. You are atill unmatture ... (read in full...)
Are my breasts too big?
Q. hi everyone! I'm a 15 year old girl and I have a small problem with my breasts A LOT of guys my age think they are too big, while other guys that are a bit older think they are fine... why's that? I don't want to go out with an old perv just ca...
A. 5 August 2010: Date a guy who likes you just the way you are, some dude who respect and values you. Unless you have medical problem with the size, just accept yourself in the sexi and lovely way god made you. [mod note: removed unhelpful portion of pos... (read in full...)
Does sex for the first time hurt for a male?
Q. dear cupid as i am a male virgin does sex hurt for the first time. and what is like as i would like to know...
A. 5 August 2010: No, it is great for us. forget about the porn you have seen trought your life, just trust your instinct and make sure the woman you are making love to, really loves you and guides you trought that special moment.... (read in full...)
20 And never had a boyfriend
Q. Okay so i'm 20 and i've never had a boyfriend. By this i mean i've never gone on a date,no guys have ever asked me out, and i've never even held hands with a guy before. Personally i think i'm not too bad looking. I'm tall and skinny and i have a ...
A. 5 August 2010: Read some of isabella santodomingo Books.
Try web relations, but do not enter with the hunting kit, just friendship.
You sound like a strong and imponent woman, maybe it can scare some guys. Study your style as you were someone else you are adv... (read in full...)
Was she really a virgin?
Q. Hey, i have been with my girlfriend for a little over 2 years now and when we started dating she was a virgin and i wasnt and eventually we ended up having sex and obviously i was the one to take her virginity. My question is and something that has ...
A. 4 August 2010: Who cares about a simple piece of membrane. Do you love each other?, do you like each other? There is the big deal.
Anyway, believe her. ... (read in full...)
Confusion lead me to look at her phone while she was sleeping.....
Q. My girlfriend and I have been together for a few years. About a year ago we started fighting a lot. Since then we have had sex only six times and we havn't had sex at all in months. She doesn't even want to kiss me or cuddle with me when we ...
A. 4 August 2010: She may be cheating on you. Anyway if she isn't playing her role on the relationship maybe the love is gone.... (read in full...)
Wife wants an open relationship so that I will stray and she can walk away
Q. My wife proposed that we have an open marriage because she refuses to meet my sexual needs and expectations. She wants me to find a "whore" who is willing to attach herself to my crotch and she can find someone who will meet her emotional needs. ...
A. 4 August 2010: Well I think you should try to be more human, much more romantic and to show her you really loves her. I think she is trying to say that she feels like a sexual toy you use and drop when you want, that she doesn't feel that you respect her, so ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend has double standards about oral sex!
Q. Dear all my girlfriends says that me tasting her cum is ok and should be a pleasure but her tasting my is disgusting and degrading to women Help please...
A. 4 August 2010: Tell her that swalling it helps to prevent breast cancer.
Get another GF, someone more compatibble with your desires.... (read in full...)
My family doesn't approve of my boyfriend because he's of a different race!
Q. i have met and fallen in love with a guy, we dream of a future together, but inside my heart is breaking. I am caucasion, he is black. The problem seems to be with my father and brothers. They are all racist, so i am to scared to introduce m...
A. 30 July 2010: The only important thing is that you love yourselves. It doesn't matter if you are a collie and him a bulldog, or if you are a bird and him a dragon.
You are still underage, so it won't be so easy to tell you parents to respect your decition... (read in full...)
Guilt about cheating...
Q. Can a relationship survive one partner's guilt over being unfaithful, and keeping it a secret? Will our relationship be able to grow and survive if I don't tell my partner that I cheated on her and vow to myself to keep it a secret forever and never ...
A. 30 July 2010: First cardinal rule for men: Deny it, deny it and deny it.
If your socks are ragged, and no one has notice it. ¿Why tell it to the people?.
If you tell her, She will leave you because she will feel you do not love her and you want to hurt her... (read in full...)
He says he can't love before sex!
Q. My boyfriend has this thing, where he feels like he can not love me until we have had sex. He says, that it's not like he doesn't want to he just can't, and he thinks it's the only thing holding him back. I want to know if any one else feels this ...
A. 30 July 2010: Tell hum that her hand would be a better sex toy than you. Even better tell him not to be so cheap, that there are a lot of proffesional on that area that will hel him in exchange of some money.
Dear do nor beg for love, a guy who deserves... (read in full...)
Her fantasies turn me off!
Q. My wife and I have had some very serious problems for the past couple of years and have been going to a therapist. I want to be cooperative, but I admit also to wanting to learn more about my wife's clandestine behavior that led I believed to our ...
A. 30 July 2010: What do you think about your own performance as lover?. Not everyone is meant to be a sexathlette or something like that.
But I think you should try to get wild and free on it. As long the fantasy doesn't harm anybody and both of you agree, i... (read in full...)
Are soulmates always destined to be together?
Q. *OP's Original Title* Hi, I'm a 17 year old girl, and about 4 months ago I've met a guy one year younger than I am. Initially it started as friendship, but soon enough we developed a very strong bond, and we started hanging out more and more unt...
A. 30 July 2010: Dear child, you are very young. Live, have adventures, travel and learn as much as you can. The destiny likes to put a lot of tryals on our way, if you are really meant to be together you will be reunited again, if not, both of you will find new ... (read in full...)
My brother's ex wife moved in with me and is expecting my baby, am I a bad person?
Q. My brother and his wife split up last october as he was being unfaithfull and they are currently going through a divorce. His wife didnt mind as they both decided that the relationship didnt work. However we all stayed friends and carried on seeing ...
A. 15 June 2010: Firts I think you will have to accept your brother's punch on the face. He might think betrayed by you. You should tell him that you have never screw his wife, that at that moment she was his ex and you migth have thougt she was a single woman.
... (read in full...)
If I was open about liking girls and boys with my classmates, will I be a target?
Q. If i tell everyone at school i like girls aswell as boys would i be brave or stupid? i cant decide all these questions are in my head and its confusing me i just want to be myself for once i have too pretend to be someone am not and i hate it i have ...
A. 15 June 2010: I think it would be stupid. You are too young to label yourself as al lesbian in front of all your classmates. So Keep being happy and explore who you really are, you might be confused and to show that secret migth turns you into an easy prey for ... (read in full...)
Looking for sex tips to impress new boyfriend!
Q. Hi cupids ;) well tonight I'm going to have sex with my new boyfriend and I realy want to impress him, problem is he is alot more experienced than I am?! Can I have some tips?? Much apreciated we use protection etc so pregnancy and sti's aren't a...
A. 15 June 2010: Sex is like dancing, it is not about techniques it is about rithm and undertanding. Don`t try to play the experience women role, it can be frightening. Have you ever danced together before?, it will shows you a lot of tips about how to be: Be sw... (read in full...)
Do you think more people get away with cheating than get caught?
Q. Do you think more people get away with cheating than get caught? What criteria do you think makes for a more likliehood of being caught or not? I've read some statistics sites that state that people who have cheated their partners didn't find out 70 ...
A. 28 May 2010: The only statistics you must care about is yours.... (read in full...)
Punishing myself for the sake of my daughter
Q. should i give it a try? i am a divorcee mother w one kid. marriage failure was due to family violence and unreasonable behaviour. as i was e one who initiated the divorce, i feel sorry for my kid extremely. i jus wanna shower her w lots of l...
A. 28 May 2010: OK, who use violence and unreasonable behabior?, you or your ex.
If it was you, you need proffesional help.
If it was your ex, yo have nothing to feel guilty for. Anyway you better go to a psycology.... (read in full...)
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