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writes:hi everyone! I'm a 15 year old girl and I have a small problem with my breastsA LOT of guys my age think they are too big, while other guys that are a bit older think they are fine... why's that?I don't want to go out with an old perv just cause he likes my boobs :p I wouldn't want to go out with a guy my age that thinks they're too big either :|what do I dooooo?! is 32J too big??
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reader, geekyone  +, writes (23 May 2011):
Girl,
Your breasts are just a part of all of you. My wife is a 40P, and yes, she was teased mercilessly at times, but the fact is, she realized that if a guy only saw her for her boobs, he was pretty shallow. As you grow up, understand that you are uniquely you -- yes, your breasts may be larger than many women's, but the fact is, you should not define yourself by what others think of you. Men AND women stare at my wife... it is what it is.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 August 2010): The boys look after the proportions. By slim persons can the
breasts so look bigger. The most boys in your age are only perverted. In this things, try to ignore, maybe a good boy comes to you. Trust me in this things, I'm 17.
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reader, CandyCurves +, writes (6 August 2010):
 Heey, I'm 15 too and I am a 28FF. I know where you're coming from, I always get the wrong attention! Its so annoying so I always make sure I dress appropriately. NEVER do do Cleavage unless you want people talking to your chest and not you. I once made that mistake and wore a top that showed a bit of too much skin and the amounts of pervs I spotted that day. But I guess they cant help it, just dress appropriately and respect your body. You're beautiful just the way you are, just wait for that special person that will respect you. Good things come to those who wait.
May God Bless
-CC
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2010): I was always one of those girls who were TINY framed, small. with tiny boobs and I absolutely hated it. In my experience, despite the age, men AND boys my own age never seemed to find that sort of look attractive. I hung around with a girl who had huge boobs, and she got all the attention off all the boys, I was always jealous of this. As I got older, I learnt to just love the way I was. And I found a lot more people who preferred petite girls, as you'll find A LOT of men/boys as you get older will prefer bigger breasted/curvy girls.
I'm not sure if the bra sizes are different from where you live, but in the UK I can't even imagine how big a J cup is? My mom's a double G and hers are HUGE, so I'm a little confused by this and your age. Anyway, as you get older you will meet someone who loves you for who you are, and looks will not be much of an issue if they love you.
Even though in my experience boys when I were that age did seem to like bigger boobs than smaller ones, I think i'd put it down to that they're young and what they find attractive is different to a grown man. I guess they aren't exactly ready to feel attracted to a 'woman' yet, as bigger boobs obviously represents a more woman figure, which is what they're not use to at that age.
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reader, Phoebe Halliwell +, writes (5 August 2010):
 Hey :)
Don't listen to what the guys say. The right guy will like you for you, big breasts and all! I know it's not what you want to hear but hang in there! As you get older guy will mature a bit and start to see past looks to personality and you will find someone you can really connect with :)
The most important thing is to be comfortable in your own skin. Embrace your curves! There are girls your age who are longing for a fuller figure; a large percentage of teenage girls dislike their bodies. Most girls have something about themselves they don't like, and it can be really depressing. Love your body and you'll find someone who does too! :)
xxx
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reader, Seto  +, writes (5 August 2010):
Listen we are all made different ok don't let your boobs stop you form doing what you want to do
when the right guy come he would love you for you
not the face, the but,or the boobs ok :P
hope this help
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reader, escribanus  +, writes (5 August 2010):
 Date a guy who likes you just the way you are, some dude who respect and values you. Unless you have medical problem with the size, just accept yourself in the sexi and lovely way god made you.[mod note: removed unhelpful portion of post]
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (5 August 2010):
The ones who comment on it are the ones who don't understand women. The right guy will like you as you are.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2010): My wife was a dd in 5th grade and she hated the attention. Now at age 39 she's dealing with alot of back problems. She going in for a breast reduction in two weeks. With that said, in general, guys like all sizes. Sure, some guys like big ones some like small but overall it reall doesn't matter. In my opinion there's nothing sexier than a well manicured self confident woman. I don't care if she has aaa or j boobs. Doesn't matter if she weighs 105 of 305.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2010): THe right guy will appear who loves you for YOU and not your boobs. Till then, be prepared for many guys ogling them and focusing on your breasts.
Dont know why older men like them more. Maybe its the trend toward skinny these days, and large breasts CAn make a woman look fat or un-athletic. Note I said CAN.
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reader, clickhere +, writes (5 August 2010):
clickhere is verified as being by the original poster of the question sounds fair enough, strongfp ^^ thanks:D
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reader, clickhere +, writes (5 August 2010):
clickhere is verified as being by the original poster of the questionIt's not that I dislike my breasts or feel insecure or anything, I'm just curious how guys work...
I think Strongfp gave a pretty logicall answer, thanks! ^^
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reader, k_c100 +, writes (5 August 2010):
 I have been in a very similar situation to you - when I was 12/13 my boobs were 32DD, not as big as yours but still pretty big for a young teenager! I hated all the attention they got as I didnt suit big boobs at that age, it was like they were stuck on my body rather than being part of it!
But now I am 23 and still the same bra size, and they look much better now! I now have hips to balance them out and I have learnt how to dress properly for my shape to enhance my figure rather than trying to hide my boobs or wearing unflattering shapes.
There is not a lot you can do about your bra size, so just accept that these are your boobs and they will be with you forever! Once you have accepted them it wont matter so much what other people think.
As for the situation with boys your age/older men - basically older men love a feminine, classic body shape like the 1950's, hourglass sort of shape with big boobs and hips, and a narrow waist. Whereas a lot of younger guys are brought up thinking that skinny is sexy, with teeny girls like Megan Fox being the ideal girl. So big boobs are not attractive to younger guys (most of them anyway) because they would rather have skinny girl than a real woman.
But you will find as you get older that more and more men will appreciate your shape, and a lot of them will be closer to your age. Even at 23 I still get a lot of 50/60 year old men perving on me and trying to chat me up but eventually you learn to deal with it, take it as flattering and dont let them come too close! But I still have men in their 20's and 30's who are attracted to me too, so you dont just have to settle for an old perv!
So try not to worry about boys too much right now, the young ones are not old enough to appreciate your shape, and the old ones are pervs and you should steer clear. Just wait until you are older when you are wise enough to be able to suss out a guys intentions straight away, so no-one will ever use you.
You will meet the right guy in time who is close to your own age and who loves your boobs, just be patient and he will come along. But always remember - you have to love your own body before you can expect anyone to come along and love you. Confidence is key, so just love what body shape you have and learn to make the most of it. Boys will come in time, dont you worry! I'm sure in a year or 2 you will be fighting them off with a stick!
I hope this helps and good luck!
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reader, cocoqueen88 +, writes (5 August 2010):
 As a young woman with large breast you have to carry yourself a little differently. more men will be after you because of them and you can't afford to be naive. just be more selective about boy. and if something feels wrong then it probably is. time to develope your woman's intuition.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2010): to be honest - who cares what guys think ... its your opinion that counts. If you are happy then your boobs are fine. Plus if you are worried, remember you are still only 15 and most likely you'll grow into them - kind of like a big nose, your face adjusts to put you back into balance. I think your body with your boobs will do the same thing as you get older too. Also, talk to some women in your life ...get their opinions, they'll be able to give you a better perseoctive e.g. sisters, aunts, mum, female friends.
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