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writes:Okay so i'm 20 and i've never had a boyfriend. By this i mean i've never gone on a date,no guys have ever asked me out, and i've never even held hands with a guy before. Personally i think i'm not too bad looking. I'm tall and skinny and i have a bubbly personality and try to be positive most of the time. My friends all have boyfriends and most of their boyfriends think ( by looking at me) that i've had past relationships. I have to admit that i do look mature. I'm now at univeristy and when i talk to guys ( especially the one's that i'm interested in), i find that they all seem quite shy, and reluctant to keep the conversation going, and it's me who try and keep the conversation flowing most of the time. I find this frustrating and I don't understand why guys are replusive towards me, since i am quite a friendly person. 20 and never had a boyfriend is there something wrong with with?
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2010): You are a wonderful person. Just concentrate on your studies. The right guy will come around when the time is right.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2010): Just get yourself out there, talk to guys, and when you do get to know a guy that your interested in if he dont make first move make hints, or ask him if he would like a drink one night. :)Theres some one out there for every one, theres no time to rush into a relationship just enjoy the fact that your single and free. Good luck :)
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reader, misspurple  +, writes (5 August 2010):
I had my first boyfriend at 18 so nothing to worry. I thought no boy would be interested in me then suddenly he came along. If there is that certain person that takes your fancy just keep walking past and saying 'hello' then after so long 'hello how are you, sorry i didn't catch your name' If they seem keen then ask them if they have seen the latest movie that is out or heard about this cool new place that has opened up for examples. If they say no then invite them along with you. Just something that has worked for me haha, hope it helps :)
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reader, escribanus  +, writes (5 August 2010):
 Read some of isabella santodomingo Books.
Try web relations, but do not enter with the hunting kit, just friendship.
You sound like a strong and imponent woman, maybe it can scare some guys. Study your style as you were someone else you are advicing. Smile more, allow yourself to flirt...
I think it would be a great deal to help you, something like Hitch.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2010): Don't sweat it. I had my first kiss at 25, lost my virginity that year too and got into my first relationship with a girl. So you still have 5 years on me!
I'm a guy, not bad to look at, very outgoing and social. You are too according to yourself. In fact, next guy you fancy, text him and ask him out. No harm in giving that a shot. Sounds like you have a lot to offer, so no shame!!
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (5 August 2010):
First of all, stop putting yourself down. If a guy doesn't ask you out, it doesn't mean you're repulsive. Quit that negative thinking, or you'll drive men away with it.
You may well find that you're so outgoing, that you're so bubbly, that you're so pretty that guys are a little threatened, or feel they're not good enough. Also, it may well be that you're looking at the wrong guys. You will find a guy, but I think if you speak to guys and let them do a little chasing, and you slow down a bit with guys and focus on what you want from life, a guy will come when you least expect it.
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