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reader, Black diamond20 +, writes (30 September 2010):
Black diamond20 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionoh yes and liers and cheaters and bad hygiene thank you all. :)
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reader, Odds +, writes (30 September 2010):
 Top three, in no particular order:
1) Being boring. There are 3 billion women out there, and it seems that all but a handful don't want to talk about anything except TV, gossip, and telling me about that time they got drunk in Spain for the tenth time. If a girl can sustain (and enjoy) a conversation about anything more interesting to me, I'll enthusiastically listen to whatever she has to say. Sadly, though, it seems that while I have to pretend to be interested all the time, women rarely extend the same courtesy, much less actually enjoy it.
2) Promiscuity. If she has an extensive list of "mistakes" and one-night stands, or a history of infidelity, I'm turned off. Sure, she can have boyfriends in her past, even a fling or two, but too many is a bad sign to me, espcially if she feels the need to tell me all about it. If that means I have to date her for four months to get into bed, so be it; it'll be more special that way, unless ten other guys only had to wait four hours.
3) Disrespect. When I'm dating a girl, I don't insult her, talk down about her to other people, talk about our sex life, flake on dates, or discount her opinions offhand; I expect the same in return.
I guess it boils down to reciprocity. Whoever I'm with, I treat them as if they were special, and I expect the same in return. Too many girls don't do that.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (30 September 2010):
 If that's what you took away from this, then you learned nothing.
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reader, dmartin89  +, writes (29 September 2010):
 Anonymous..
You cant call farting or burping a vulgar habit..
They are natural bodily functions!!
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reader, Black diamond20 +, writes (29 September 2010):
Black diamond20 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionlol that was great and funny thank u all and no i dont have any male problems.the two things that men dislike are women who talks to much and jealousy. :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 September 2010): I think that you are hurt and somehow looking for an answer so that you can change and make a man like you. If I am wrong, please disregard all of my answer.1) The remarks in the other answers here are actually easy to fix so fix if you think that will help you. 2) Your question maybe should be - what makes a man like a woman?--- and standby for a ton of answers.3) My advice is be yourself. Live by the golden rule of treating others as you would like to be treated. Be kind to every one you meet. Every morning and before you go to sleep or when you might be meeting someone interesting, find a mirror and give yourself a big smile. This works for everything. Finally, do not settle for someone who will not accept you for who you are. Good luck from a mean old man!
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 September 2010): There are different things about different women that are turnoffs. But lately, I seem totally turned off by women who complain all the time. "Oh, I have so much to do, I'm not sure I can talk..." Then they tell me their whole schedule (which of course, excludes me), then some more complaining about their schedule. So, overly busy women...or ones who think they are. It reeks of "I have no time for you". Total turn off. That and vapid women who have nothing to talk about other than sex.
Smart, confident women are the biggest turn on for me. Looks are honestly second. I'll pick a smart, average, plump girl over a dumb, skinny supermodel any day.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (29 September 2010):
Ha, more proof that there is no one answer.
Also proof that everyone is different because I actually like some of the stuff that these other guys hate. For example, I could care less if a woman shaves her legs. Then again, I used to be a bit of a hippie.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 September 2010): Women who have vulgar personal habits is an absolute deal breaker (burping, farting, eating with your mouth open, talking with food in your mouth, gross bathroom habits, not shaving your legs or underarms, - and keep your happy area trimmed/shaven). We really want to think of you as beautiful. I know we are all human, but please, let us live the illusion of your incredible beauty. We will worship your body like a temple if you just meet us half way.
Personal hygiene and habits are the deal breaker for me.
The only other thing that comes to mind is when women make fun of their husbands/boyfriends in front of others (disrespectful)
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 September 2010): Women that talk too much drive me insane
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (29 September 2010):
What Dirtball says. There's no 'main thing'. Most guys aren't too keen on neediness and jealousy though. I'd consider both those deal breakers. I don't like to have wild accusations thrown at me or be clung to.
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reader, escribanus  +, writes (29 September 2010):
 Drama queen.
Jelocy.
A girl who wants to take controll over your life.
A girl who wants to tame and change you.
A girl who acts like a hore, sex in exchange of things.
A dumb girl, yes, we also like to talk.
A girl who hates our world -includes mom, friends, hobbies-
A girl who is not femminine.
A girl who doesn t show him thar she cares about him.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (29 September 2010):
There is no "Main thing." Each person and situation is different. What one person hates about you, another may embrace.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 September 2010): the ones with whining high pitched voices
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