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writes:My boyfriend doesn't last very long when we have sex, a few minutes max! and it's over so quick i don't get anything from it. We are still in the early stages of the relationship and i was wondering if there was anything i could do to make him last longer?Any advice would be great!Thankyou, merry christmas! x
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reader, agtorange  +, writes (26 December 2008):
 Get him to go slower, he might be able to last longer. Get him to have a few drinks beforehand, that coud help too.
I'd also try some different positions, personally I know if I'm doing missionary I can last about twice as long as I can in most other positions. A thing I'll do sometimes too it to bite my lip or something if I feel I'm close to cumming and my girlfriend isn't, it usually helps me to last a couple extra minutes.
I know alot of guys find it harder to cum if they're standing, so table/counter sex could be what you're looking for.
If none of that works though just get him to go down on you for a while or something before he starts having sex.
On the up side, you should take it as a compliment that he cums so quickely for you.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (26 December 2008):
 You can order some cock rings and ask him if he's game to try it out. ( just remember don't let them stay on for longer then 30 minutes and don't get metal - they are not for beginners ).
Use 2 condoms ( one on top of the other).
Buy condoms with desensitizing lotion in them. He will still feel great but it might make him last longer.
Learn how to do a great handjob/blowjob.
Have HIM work you up first.
Read the book "Tickle his Pickle" by Dr. Sadie Allison - she has all sort of great advice on the "pickle" a MUST have book for any women.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 December 2008): Let him change position when he is close, till you give him the sign that he can cum. Or if it is a sensitive subject to discuss, tell him you want to stay in bed for day and do it much as possible, He will (and you) discover his sexual power because if he was knowing already, you would not have asked this question this way. Give him a blowjob to start. And 2 minutes is too short to please a woman, only a few % of the women can generate an orgasm in 2 minutes and the ones who can so quickly, generates often multiple orgasms...So, Suggest a marathon, a blowjob as starter and changing positions.Good luck
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reader, Griffo  +, writes (25 December 2008):
 If your into this go down on him untill he climaxes. Then have him go down on you untill you reach a high to maximum pleasure then after that get on top of him and, well, ride it out. Or; Have him be on top giving the love to you.
I know this is quite detailed but it works well, and is a very fun. Especially if you guys are not using condoms now.
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reader, Arianz  +, writes (25 December 2008):
 Dear,
I think if u start very slow then it will work more better.
Also intercorse time Penetrate should slow when he feels cum is on edge. And u can make busy with kissing, rubbing, and changing positions.
It will really work if u change ur positions quick.
U can use ON TOP position...that position can help u to last more long. Nevar giveup try best....
Take care
best of luck
arianz
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reader, a_decent_1  +, writes (25 December 2008):
 A few minutes is good enough.... !! Thats about the time a Normal man lasts... !!
You can increase your sex time and pleasure by having some orAL SEX...
G'day.. !!
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (25 December 2008):
Wear thicker condoms, get ones with numbing agents or use 2 at a time.
Other than that make sure you get foreplay that leaves you satisfied so sex is just a bonus.
I find that the first time you have sex with a guy is always pretty quick but the second time is better. So do it more than once in a session.
Good Luck!! xx
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