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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hi, I don't know what to do. I was going out with a man for 1 year...it wasn't easy....we fought a lot....so from time to time we decided to take a break....but everytime we went back together because our love is too strong. Recently, we decided to stay friends, because we tought we could feel better that way for a while...but we were still in love...Last week he told me how much he loved me and wanted to make it a try...it touches me so much....of course i said yes...i love him so much...but i want both of us to feel happy together...the same day we went back together, we fought....because he told me that i was suppose to call him...it was a misunderstood...so finally, we decided to wait a bit before going back together. In that period a friend of him...that he didn't see since 10 years, decided to come visit for 1 month and a haft....she is very beautiful and she wanted to have adventure during her vacacion....she told him that he was attracting her.....she was sleeping in the same bed..he told me he was lazy to make a bed in the living room....i trusted him...because he said it was just a friend and he was in love with me.....2 days after we decided to wait because of our fight...i felt that this girl was dangerously flirting....so i called him...and tell him all the love i had for him...i told him to forget about the fight and give it a try seriously like we wanted to do 2 days before.....he told me that he didn't want to go back with me now....and few days after i learn that he is having sex with her....many times....i told him the pain he was giving me....he came to apolygize...but i was too hurt....he told me he stopped with her...and did an error...that he loves me...and that he would be there if i change my mind....when i called him 1 or 2 days later...just to have some news...because although i was suffering i was missing him soo much....he told me that he was having sex with her again...and didn't want to think about anything right now...and maybe we could talk later...because he loved me for real...i feel stupid, i love him...but i think that he is very selfish....this is not the kind of life that i want....but i love him...it is hurting me soo much....that day, when he told me that he was having sex again with her.....i said to myself...ok...thats enough...i told him i won't call him or look for him anymore....but if he wanted to see me...he could call..its been one week....i don't know anything about him...i feel so stupid...i feel he never loved me....but i cannot accept the situation...and still love him....can you help me....should i forget about him....or should i do something now...not to lose him....i feel lost, thanks
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (24 January 2009):
Forget about him.
Words are easy to say. Judge him on his actions.
He lied to you and slept with another girl.
Move on.
Good Luck!! xx
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