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writes:Dear Cupid, I Have Been In This Relationship for almost 5 years, We Have A Little Girl That Is 3 Me And Her mother Have Split several times Like 5 In The Last 4 years, i Will admit i am very insecure person because of past relationships(being cheated on).This Has Had a very bad effect on many of my relationships... Anyway me and My girlfriend have had our ups and downs especially becuase of her two boys not listning to me because i am not their real dad.that has caused some real issues between meand their mom, but i tried to explain to her and she just wouldnt make them mind for me.Just here lately we were i thought getting along fine till i seen a comment on one of her homepages that she is registered wit about her having a relationship with one of her friends husbands. i proceeded to ask the wife of the man mentioned about it she said, she (my girlfriend off and on) that she was a Devious selfserving person when it came to her husband, I asked her about what her friend said about her and she said,that fat B**** who would want that anyway...and said she was grabbing at straws...i see on the womans site that accused her of being with her husband that her husband went to s.carolina, didnt think much about it till i went down to see my daughter and was curious when the last time i called her and looked at her caller id and i seen several calls from s. carolina on it... Is this just a coincodence or what? (sorry for bad spelling).Now i Have tried to contact her for over a week and she has only accepted 1 of my calls and seemed to be upset when i called. now she will not even respond to any of my emails,calls,emails to herson or anything...I am so stressed over this,she will not give me a straight answer, she like goes around the question...what do you think??/ Honestly???She will not even let me talk to my little girl...HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (24 January 2009):
I don't this relationship sounds like a good one. There is a chance she is cheating on you and since you've split up a lot in the past there is a good chance it will happen again.
Tell her that you need to get visitation / custody sorted for your little girl.
Assume that it's over and prepare for the worst.
Good Luck!! xx
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