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female
age
51-59,
*hy219
writes:Recently my boyfriend is acting so strange. He did not asking to meet me for more than months. We see each other at school everyday; we work together in same school. When I asked him what’s wrong first time he said I am the type of man who runs away when I see someone addicted to me, he said I know its not your fault. I know very well that I am not addicted person at all . I am just a normal woman who was looking to start a meaningful and serious relationship and when I met him first he showed me that he is interesting to be in relationship with me. after I heard that he is thinking that I am addicted person I tried to go away but he start to sending me a normal message again to shows that we are still in relationship but again not asking to meet me ,and always saying don’t get too emotional , Take it easy. I am asking him is that normal to stay all this time apart? He is telling no it is not normal however I need you as much as you need me and more but when time allows and mind is peaceful we will meet I was telling myself let bear and see, once again I asked if we ever will meet again or no? He said yes soon, But again nothing I was thinking is that because he is a teacher and has lots of load, doesn’t have time or what????Even I asked him if we are still in relationship, or if he intends to carry on with me. I told him I need to know that so I either can wait or lose the hope. He answered me that i do not have an answer for you unfortunately.I really getting confused, I would like the other opinion please Reply to this Question
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (25 January 2009):
Some men will want a woman who is loving and wonderful to them, and others will want a little sheep to do what they say and act how they want.
I think you should find a man who will love a real loving woman such as yourself.
I am sorry that this man has hurt you but you should move on and not let him hurt you again.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, why219 +, writes (24 January 2009):
why219 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks a lot dear Emilysanswers and all other friends who answered me I really appreciate all for giving me that much of yours valuable time
your words really helped me somehow to feel good ,you know
i really feel a down person because its hard for a woman feel that she is unwanted .I was soooooo nice with him,
He was the one who always prepared and decided the time and day of our meeting, I was always agreed with what ever he siad .
I never bothered him with my calls or requests , all I asked for was meeting each other in regular basis,that why i became Addicted person in his thought.
do you think what really men need more than that. by the way I am very good looking and Charmer woman ,but i fall in his love Because of my intimate relationship that I had with him ,with all that he is acting so strange .does really men like a playing around person .?
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (24 January 2009):
So he won't see you until he decides you are "calm" but he won't explain what he means or give any examples.
How dare he expect you to change your personality and the way you act around your boyfriends just to fit in with what he expects.
You act like you are in love and if he doesn't like that then that is his problem.
I would not want to be with a man who expected me to hide my feelings and pretend to be with someone else.
Good Luck!! xx
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