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writes: Well I Have A Boyfriend And Were Bout to Be A Year That We Been Dating..Well @ 3 months going out he ran away and his parents blamed me 4 it..well just 3 days ago we had a big argument and he called his parents and now hes @ home? well see while he was a runaway we would see each other it was all so good for a very long while but then he got annoying and stuff to me but i love him alot..like i always didnt want him around me and stuff and that made him think that i didnt love him but now that hes gone..i cant stop crying and i miss him so much i just wish he could come bak..i mean he comes to visit but i cant be without him it kills me inside when hes not with me!Now That hes Bak @ home with his parents he wants to stay with them now..but he wants to be with me @ the same time!...one problem his parents hate me!..Please Help Me I Really Need Some Advice On Wat 2 Do?HELP Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (24 January 2009):
So you can't cope with the fact that he's not living with you?
Well that has nothing to do with the running away or his parents or anything. That is just called life.
You are with him. The fact that he no longer spends 24 hours a day with you shouldn't matter.
If you can't function like a normal human being just because he lives down the road then you may be more in love with the drama of being together with a run away, than you are in love with him.
Get your life back, go out with your friends, go to school or work, and see him when you see him.
If you act like responsible adults and can keep a relationship going without living together then his parents may see that you care about him and will come around to you. If they see that you are being over dramatic and acting like a child without her teddy bear then they will never take you seriously.
Good Luck!! xx
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