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*hannon194
writes:ok...so im 17 about to turn 18 and i have been seeing this same guy on and off for two years. the thing is we have never met. i met him in a chat room and we instantly hit it off. we haven't broken up in over a year so im thinking things are going fine, but just within this past week and a half i havent heard a thing from him. he told me he was going on a baseball trip and he would talk to me when he got back. he was supposed to come back this past monday but i havent heard a thing from him. i sent him a couple of emails asking if everything is ok, but he hasnt responded. im not sure if he wants to break up with me and doesnt know how. if anyone has any answers or advice please let me know.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (5 April 2009):
But you still have no idea what's going on in 98% of his life.
This will happen again.
Are you sure you can cope with a relationship when you get so worried you come on problem page sites just because he hasn't called you for a week?
I still think you should be going out and learning about real guys and real dating. You don't want to end up stuck in some awful relationship later in life because of inexperience.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, shannon194 +, writes (5 April 2009):
shannon194 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you everyone who gave advice, but like 5 minutes after i posted this he called me. he was having issues with his family and guaranteed me he didnt want to break up. thank u for responding to my question
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2009): Well to be honest with yah you should give it another few days maybe a week and if u still havent heard from him send him an email saying its over. I hate guys that ignore the women.
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reader, ArmyMedic +, writes (4 April 2009):
 Maybe his computer has died? Do you ever call or text each other? or is it a purely online relationship?
Most guys don't see "online relationships" as serious, he has probably found a real girl, that he can hold and kiss, who likes him for him and not his photoshopped pictures and overly dark web cam immages.
Maybe you should do the same, find a nice "REAL" guy.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (4 April 2009):
Sorry hun, but if you have never met then there is a good chance that he could be up to anything.
He could be in Disneyland with his wife and 3 kids.
I think you need to ask yourself if a guy on the internet is all you really want in a boyfriend.
You have absolutely no proof he is who he says he is and you have no idea what he's up to if he doesn't send you an email.
I think you need to get out and meet some real guys and tell this guy that although he's great to chat to on the computer, he can never hold you or be a real boyfriend.
Good Luck!! xx
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