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writes:ok.. so here's the problem..my boyfriend and I fight all the time! one of things that we are constantly arguing about is the fact that i like chat rooms and all that stuff..he wants me to give up msn and my chat room and leave all the friends that i like.. just cos he's convinced im gonna run off with one of em or something.. cos he says we have to concentrate on our relationship rather than talking to my online friends.. like whats an hour every evening gonna do?how do i get him to see sense? any advice?.. all opinions welcome! :P
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (29 September 2008):
What does he do in the evening to relax? Does he have an xbox?
Well if he wants you to give up something you do for an hour to relax then make him give up he does.
Fair's Fair!
Either that or tell him to organise something for you to do instead and then you'll come offline.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (29 September 2008):
 Is it only an hour an evening? Only i used to love going in an msn chat room yrs ago and the guy i was dating at the time wasn't keen on it either. He never used pc's at all then. It wasn't the chat room he had the biggest problem with, it was msn messenger, because its easy to get into convos on there and be there tapping away for ages! And if your in company at the time, thats just rude.
Although i dont see the problem if its when he's not around. But it sounds like he has some insecurities going on here, which he needs to tackle. As long as your not on there chatting up random strangers and flashing your bits on web cam, he should be trusting you. Internet chat is just that, chat.
C xxxxx
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