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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hi, my boyfriend and I've been together for almost two years and we actually broke up for a few months earlier this year and I ended up dating someone else (which naturally creates tension when you go back to the original person). Now my boyfriend's constantly talking about other girls, treating me like crap, and now he's interested in another girl. A girl who is taken.I really really really don't want to let him go because I love him just way too much for that. How do I get through to him?By the way, he is one of the most stubborn young men you will have ever met.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (27 September 2008):
Unfortunately you are going to have to call his bluff on this.In his head he's got you back and yet he's still punishing you for hurting him. He's forgiven you on paper but he hasn't really and you need to get through to him that he needs to make his mind up what he wants.He can either be angry with you, or he can forgive you and take you back. He can't do both, it's not going to make either of you happy.Tell him that he can't keep treating you like this. He can either forgive you or not be with you. Tell him to take a few days to think about it and then to give you a call with his decision.Then go away and don't have any contact with him for a week.He has to know that he can't treat you this way and expect you to stick around. Be strong or it will stay this way for good.Good Luck!! xx
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