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writes:ok so it is not that we are embarrassed to buy condoms it is that every were we go our parents are there so we don't get the time to buy them and when we are alone we are not in a store to buy them.what should i do because if i tell my dad that i want to sleep with my boyfreiend he will flip because i am white and he is part black and i can't really tell my mom because she is a bitch to me and i can't trust her. What should i do?any advise will help
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reader, missnatd03  +, writes (28 January 2008):
 Im from the UK so it may be different for you but in most pubs toilets over here there is a condom machine my advise is if there are condom despensers in your local pubs say you need the toilet to your parents take your purse and quickly buy some then
(,") hope it helps (",)
xox natalie xox
P.S Never let your parents decide who you go out with because this amy lead in future arguments and maybe you resenting your parents and im sure they dont want that to happen.
P.S (p.s) your parents should actually be pleased that you are practising safe sex
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reader, Crisy +, writes (12 January 2008):
 You could just tell your mum your going out for tampons or something, and i think its discriminative that your dad wouldnt like you being with a coloured lad. You should tell him you dont believe in racism
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2008): ... order off the internet?
...go to a store on your way home from school?
get a trusted friend to buy them for you
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2008): Ask them to drop you off to go shopping with some friends. Ask a trusted friend to pick them up for you, or to let you guys borrow one. Also, a lot of school nurses have them for free just so everyone will be safe. I'm in college, but I know that there is a whole basket of condoms right in the lobby of the nurses office. All they want to do is prevent teen pregnancies.
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reader, stawberry01 +, writes (6 January 2008):
 Its seems that you a tring to do thinks right by having safe sex. I think the best thing that you can do its tell your parents. Even if they do not amrove you are only being honest, they will thank you later and you wouldn't have to keep looking iver your shoulder.
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reader, Oblivia  +, writes (6 January 2008):
 I don't know how the medical care system works where you are, but if they have a special unit for teenagers, go there. They are under secrecy and will not tell your parents, and they can provide you with condoms as well as good advice on sex and relationships. They have lots of experience on these topics and you can talk to them about how to handle being in love with a guy your parents will have problems accepting for having another colour. You can also talk to them with issues you're having with your mum.
It is good you are serious about wanting to use condoms and if you don't find them for a while it is worth waiting until you do. Even if you won't catch an std or get pregnant, you will still have several weeks of huge worrying afterwards, and this worry only might destroy your relationship with this guy. So, worth waiting until you know you are perfectly ready and safe!
Good luck!
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reader, AJ jess ^..^ +, writes (6 January 2008):
 I understand why your being secretive with your parents about this and all i suggest is that you do what you feel is right. If you really want to have 'safe' sex with this guy, then i suggest you tell your parents that you have a 'girl' problem (maybe something to do with periods) and ask them to book you in for an appointment with the nurse, nurses are always helpfull and there is no need to feel embarassed as they would have delt with this a lot of the time, the nurse will give you free condoms thus preventing you from any STI's/STD's and pregnancy. good luck x
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