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writes: I am a 21 year old female, and I have a thing for guys who are virgins. I really don't know why, I am not attracted to young boys, it is certianly not to do with age... so I am not a female pedophile at all, I just find myself wanted to sleep with men between 17 onwards who have not had sex...does anyone have an inclincing as to why I feel this way? Is there something wrong with me? Reply to this Question
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reader, Crisy  +, writes (8 January 2008):
 No, theres absoloutly nothing wrong with it, you probably feel that theyre more respectable x
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 January 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI don't want to just sleep with them and never see them again...I suppose I think men who sleep around are gross, and wanna go out with a nice guy who doesn't screw anything that walks!
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2007): What if a male was asking this question instead of a female? Acceptance and approval for it? I think not. The word "predator" would probably have been used.
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reader, foxtrot +, writes (8 December 2007):
I agree with India, you get off on taking guys that are pure and clean and nice and dirtying 'em up!
Actually I think you're doing a wonderful job. I bet they're grateful.
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reader, girlwhoneedshelp +, writes (19 November 2007):
 I think you are completely normal. You are basically just feeling what most men like to feel during sex. You are in control. You are the only one out of the two of you that has a clue on how it should be and you have the ability to really impress this guy. Basically you are enjoying being dominant. There's nothing wrong with that. Just make sure you don't catch those boys at too young of an age! Also, maybe its about time you started having sex with a guy you really like who is at least a little experienced so that you can enjoy having sex more than you already are with someone elses knowledge in the mix.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2007): this is not normal. you are taking advantage of people. im sure you arent dating them, you just like knowing you were their first.
you should find a boy that makes you happy, and that has had sex before, and not search for answers , esteem, or power through others but within yourself
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reader, Dustin587  +, writes (19 November 2007):
 Some women tend to like innocent-natured guys. You are completely normal. I have to admit I sometimes find innocent-natured girls attractive, so I guess women have similar ideas in that area.
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reader, flawedguy127 +, writes (19 November 2007):
Firstly, where can we meet?
Secondly, I think that you simply like nice guys... Typically nice guys are going to be virgins at the age of 17ish; there is Nothing wrong with you liking nice guys. Actually, I highly encourage this type of behavior. :)
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (19 November 2007):
 Hi there,
I actually have a few friends like you, who have a soft spot for virgins. They like the innocence of it all, they love "dirtying" up (seemingly) good boys. I don't think there's anything wrong with you, or the tendency to go for virgins... just make sure you're being nice, and you're not breaking hearts.
If you are sleeping with guys JUST to pop their proverbial cherry, that's no good. Don't take advantage of guys! They deserve a special first time as well.
I think you're totally normal and totally cool...
Enjoy, sweetness!
xxIndia
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