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writes:Hi, I feel really self concious about my boobs, I'm 15 and I'm size 34DD.Is this too big??Iv tried eating less and exercising more to loose some weight off them and haven't really lost anything only 6 pounds...Should I get a Breast reduction? Is it free on the NHS? Or is there anything else that can reduce them?, I've heard theres some tablets you can take that reduce them naturally without surgery.I feel really insecure and feel like I can't wear clothes like all my friends wear, I don't go out much or socialise because I feel people will judge, I also hear my friends comment about them or I see them staring (and I seriously doubt they're jealous)and sometimes I cry because I just want to be normal like everyone else in my year :(; I hate being different, It makes me feel uncomfortable with who I am...I have also been bullied about it when I was in primary school(I developed early) then in early years at secondary school.I might be loosing my virginity next week to my boyfriend(before you all start saying I'm too young etc etc I feel as if I'm ready and I love him loads) and I'm going to feel embarressed...and he'll think its disgusting...:(So any advise you could give would be much appriciated :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2009): No they're definitely not too big. Your boyfriend will be overjoyed when he sees them! It's very normal to feel self-conscious about havimg big boobs. My wife and her sister both have very big boobs (G or GG cup) and they hate them and think they're too big and ugly. They shouldn't feel like that though because they both have gorgeous boobs and you should feel the same way too.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2008): He is not going to hate them. He probably thinks about them when he wakes up, throughout the day, and when he falls asleep.
I understand wanting to get them reduced for health problems but trust me NO guy is going to dislike them. EVERY guy will LOVE them.
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reader, Crisy +, writes (12 January 2008):
 Ok, listen, guys love big boobs. You should feel lucky to have them, im a 34B and i wish i was bigger. Dont stress im sure all of your friends are jelous. I am xx
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reader, Jenny Wren +, writes (24 December 2007):
 Yes, I agree with "Smeedle", but just wanted to add a couple of extra points...At 15 you may not have stopped growing yet, and even if you don't get any taller, your body proportions may well change as you get older. When I was 14-15, my bust was larger in proportion to the rest of my body than it is now, even though I have gained weight since then.Partly for this reason, NHS doctors would be very reluctant to do a breast reduction operation until a few years down the line, especially since it is a much more tricky procedure than breast enlargement, and also because teenagers often feel unsure or bad about their bodies, but usually gain more self-confidence as they get older.I would recommend taking up some activity which boosts your confidence (e.g. martial arts, drama, singing...) and, as mentioned before, investing in some really good bras - at least nowadays it is acceptable to show your bra straps, and there are attractive larger bras around.You may envy your small-breasted friends, but many flat-chested girls will envy you as well.It wouldn't do any harm to mention your concerns to your doctor (G.P.), so that they are aware of the situation, and it will prepare them if you do decide to ask about surgery later on.
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reader, smeedle +, writes (24 December 2007):
 Hi Sweetheart,
Good god, you are perfect, you have what lots of women pay good money for and i bet you are beautiful, i bet your bloke thinks you are the sexiest girl he has ever met.
Loosing weight is not good as it may make your breasts smaller but you will be top heavy still as breasts are not the first thing that goes thinner in most cases, and believe me having big boobs is good!!! I know as im big boobed and believe me its GREAT!!
learn to love your self and others will love you, learn to not care about what you think others think of you as you are an individual and so are unique.
As an aside to all this, make sure you have a good fitting and supportive bra so you dont have back ache etc in years to come and stand tall with back straight and thrust that chest out, you were given one and show it off, be proud!!
Right lets look at the virginity thing, well im not going to tell you its wrong or too soon, lost mine at 15 and well thats that, he lasted 5 years and it was good, who knows what is around the corner, just make sure you are careful and that you are completely (or as completely as you can be) sure that for you it is what you want and not what you feel is right or what he says you should be doing.
Ok lecture over, be proud of what you have and who you are and remember women pay good money for bra`s, boob jobs and other such things to have what nature gave you.
Good luck and stand tall!!
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