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writes:Hi, I know Ive talked about this guy before but lets just say since I got ack to school the other day he's acting in a way that I cant figure him out. We flirt all the time and today he slapped my ass and he keeps making gestures with his tongue (I guess you can figure out what sort of gestures) its just sometimes he acts mardy or like he doesnt want me there, its in a joke way but I really want to know if this sounds like he likes me or if he's just toying with mew and waht can I do to get him to make a move (Im too scared to mzke the first move)??? Thanks!!
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reader, Crisy +, writes (9 January 2008):
Crisy is verified as being by the original poster of the question Hi again, well some of you wanted information on the situation, lets just say last summer me and him got very close once or twice, and hes flirting with me the way he did then. It didnt work out, and we went our own separate ways for the rest of the holidays. I saw him at school after that and we just talked as normal (most of the time he took the mick out of me bacause thats what he normally does). Hes not very mature and he never really seems mardy. Today when I was walking home he said I was fit, so thats a good sign. But I think he was too embarressed to say anything else to me because his little brother wasa there. Theres one more thing, he always calls me a certain name which is sort of mean and really embarressing because it relates back to what we did, so today I told him if it bothered him that much he should keep his hands to himself. I know hes not trying to be mean he just jokes about it, Im not sure but I think its just so hes got an excuse to talk to me sometimes. I know this soulds like a high school crush but I really like him and I really really need a way to get him to make the first move or what can I do to get his attention or talking to him without acting obvoius. Thanks I really appreceate the answers.
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reader, xapathyxrebornx +, writes (9 January 2008):
 I like Kenny's Idea, flirt back at him and see what he does. =] Can't hurt x
and yes i know your afraid to make the first move but just try adn relax and im sure everything will be fine =] x
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reader, kenny + ♥, writes (8 January 2008):
 Call his bluff, when he flirts with you, flirt with him back. Give him the longest stare that you have ever given anyone, then smile and look away. Find excuses to touch him, like on the arm or the leg, or even slap his arse like he did yours. See what his reaction is to all this, its a good way of finding out if he likes you without actually asking him.
Good luck x
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reader, wildcherry73  +, writes (8 January 2008):
It's so hard to judge, just because of your age. Boys tend to mature (or not) much more slowly than we females.
When he acts as though he doesn't want you around, is it when his friends are present? He might be afraid of getting teased if his buddies find out he's crushing on you. On the other hand, if he does the tongue-thing IN FRONT of his friends, he may simply be showing off, trying to look manly in front of his friends by showing them he can get a cute girl to blush.
You said you wrote about this guy before, but I didn't see those posts. It might be helpful if I had a little more background and knew how he acted the majority of the time.
When you say he sometime acts as though he doesn't want you around, have you considered the possibility that he only wants to be friends? He may also have a lot going on his life right now; at home, at school.... who knows? I certainly don't think it has anything to do with you personally.
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