I'm 15 and in love with my 33 year old teacher
Q. Well I am 15 years old and am madly in love with my 33 year old teacher, and i know most of you will probably say it’s just a stupid crush, to stop being so stupid and move on, but honestly i know for sure it isn’t a stupid crush, and believe me i ...
A. 20 September 2009: As this has just come up in the news, I thought is was relevant.
THIS is what happens with teacher/pupil relationships.
http://www.da... (read in full...)
This will be the first time I have sex, and I'm worried he'll compare me to other girls!
Q. ok before i ask this i want to make it clear tht i dont want ppl to tell me not to do this coz i already made up my mind, id just realy appreciate the advice :) basically me and my best guy friend have agreed to have sex, hes had sex befre but i ...
A. 2 September 2009: Dear Poster I am so glad that we helped...even if it has only made you think a bit, that is still something. I apologise for assuming that you offered, but that is what your question inferred. "Messing about" can mean anything, especially if it... (read in full...)
This will be the first time I have sex, and I'm worried he'll compare me to other girls!
Q. ok before i ask this i want to make it clear tht i dont want ppl to tell me not to do this coz i already made up my mind, id just realy appreciate the advice :) basically me and my best guy friend have agreed to have sex, hes had sex befre but i ...
A. 31 August 2009: I just want to re-make my point from my previous answer. We are only looking out for your best interests. You "both just want a bit of fun at the moment". Well that is all fine and dandy for him - he has already lost his virginity, and ... (read in full...)
This will be the first time I have sex, and I'm worried he'll compare me to other girls!
Q. ok before i ask this i want to make it clear tht i dont want ppl to tell me not to do this coz i already made up my mind, id just realy appreciate the advice :) basically me and my best guy friend have agreed to have sex, hes had sex befre but i ...
A. 31 August 2009: I know you do not want to hear this, but are you absolutely 100% sure this is they guy you want to lose your virginity to? All you are doing, to put it crudly, is using his penis to get rid of your virginity. Is that really how you want your first ... (read in full...)
I've been talking to him on-line for almost a year -- should I go to meet him?
Q. im 15 years old and i have being going out with this 17 yr old boy that i met on the internet we have been going out for almost a yr and he says he has fallen in love with me and and i do love him honestly but we havent met each other in person :S ...
A. 31 August 2009: I know you will not want to hear this, but you have NEVER met this guy. How can you love him? At 15, we all think we are in love. We all think that the boy we are going out with/fantasising about will be "the one" "prince charming" and that we will ... (read in full...)
He's nearly 14, I'm nearly 16, should I to wait until he's 16 too before we have sex?
Q. My boyfriend is two years younger than me at 13 years old. In a few months I will be 16 and he will be 14 and a bit. He knows that I think it's important to be the legal age before you have sex and him being so much younger means that we've ne...
A. 31 August 2009: Just because YOU will be 16 doesnt mean that you can have, or are even READY to have sex. He is 14. That means he is still considered to be a child. IF you have sex with him, as you would be 16, (and over the legal age of consent) you could ... (read in full...)
In love with my teacher. He is single and I want to get more involved
Q. I've had feelings for my teacher for a while now and I;m pretty sure he feels the same way by the way he talks to me, approaches me, and we even hug and slightly touch sometimes. Anyway, he's single and I want to get more involved but im not sure ...
A. 31 August 2009: I strongly urge you not to get involved with this man. It doesnt matter if he is single, married or gay, he is your teacher and YOU CANNOT have a relationship with him.
There are many laws about student-teacher relationships. No matter how stro... (read in full...)
Do you think my colleague is using me for sex?
Q. Im just very confused about this guy from work. I cant say I know him that well, we used to just have small talk whenever we bumped into each other and one day he asked me if I wanted to meet up for a drink, so we did and we had such a fun time that ...
A. 30 August 2009: I think you have to ask yourself what YOU want out of this. Do you want a relationship? Or do you just want sex? Because I think if you want the first then you may have to bide your time. He has told you he is not looking for a relationship at ... (read in full...)
Is there any way of making a threesome comfortable for all involved?
Q. About a year ago I was with a girl, and one night we almost had a threesome with one of my best friends (male), that I wasn't particularly comfortable with. Just after we'd got things started off we were interrupted by a couple of friends having a ...
A. 30 August 2009: Is it that important that you experience a threesome? I would think the majority of people go through life without doing this, and more crucially without ever WANTING to do this. I know, from a personal point of view that I would/could never want to ... (read in full...)
Is it possible to be in love with someone even though you're not in a relationship with them?
Q. is it possible to be in love with someone even though you"re not in a relationship with them?! ...
A. 29 August 2009: Yes it is very very possible. I am in love with someone and I am not in a relationship with him. We have always been drawn to each other, but sometimes circumstances get in the way - right man, wrong time. When you love someone, you just know. I... (read in full...)
Help! I kissed my sister's boyfriend, and I think I'm falling in love with him!
Q. hey im 13 and my sister is 18 she is also pregnant to this guy whos 22 well there was this one night when there was the three of us and my mum downstairs watchin a film and my sisters boyfriend let me lie on him for the film well the film finished ...
A. 29 August 2009: Dear Poster, I know you think you are falling in love with this guy, but at 13 you really have no idea what love and relationships are all about. Was this your first proper kiss? Did you kiss him, or was he the driving force in this? Because t... (read in full...)
I am 18, she is 13, can we get engaged?
Q. i like a girl in Mansfield but she love me will it be ok to get engaged to her, they are 13 years and i am 18 years old ? ...
A. 27 August 2009: I agree with you Fatherly advice.
Apart from the legal aspects of this there are many other issues you need to consider.
At 13 she is still a child. She has only just hit puberty. Think back - what were you doing when you were 13? Did you even... (read in full...)
When I turn 18 and I'm going to risk losing my family by leaving with my step-brother, who I'm in love in. What do you think?
Q. Ok I'm 15 years old. I'll be 16 in a few weeks. I have this step brother who i'm madly in love with. And he feels the same way about me. We've both been liking eachother since we were 13 and we can't seem to stop. In the summer of 2007 my mother and ...
A. 25 August 2009: You are probably very sure of what you want and how you feel at this moment in time, but I urge to you think this through very carefully. You are talking about ripping your family apart over this.
I know you will not want to hear it, but very few... (read in full...)
Just had back surgery but want to have sex & try anal
Q. okay me and my boyfriend want to try anal sex and we will use lube and a condom. he is very trusting and i know he loves me and he said he will take it slow. anyways like a month ago i had back surgery, i had scoliosis and they put rods on my spine ...
A. 22 August 2009: NO! Dont do it!
Any operation on your back is SERIOUS, and if it has only been one month, then you should not be putting it under ANY extreme pressure. Having had a friend who went through a similar operation, it took her months to fully regain h... (read in full...)
If we got together, would he expect me to have sex straight away and think I'm frigid if I don't? He's had 8 people and I'm a virgin!
Q. Well theres this guy and he has just turned 20 wheras im 16. Anyway I've known him for ages through family but we didnt really talk much, I usually hung out with his younger brothers. Anyway it was exams this year and he tutored me and hes a great ...
A. 21 August 2009: I think if he has any respect for you, then it wont matter in the slightest if you take your time and wait a while. You are much younger than he is, and to force you into sex straight away would make him a player and not worth your time anyway. I ... (read in full...)
I'm 15 and in love with my 33 year old teacher
Q. Well I am 15 years old and am madly in love with my 33 year old teacher, and i know most of you will probably say it’s just a stupid crush, to stop being so stupid and move on, but honestly i know for sure it isn’t a stupid crush, and believe me i ...
A. 21 August 2009: Well said person12345. Teacher/Pupil relationships are completely wrong in any situation. Apart from the obvious age difference, there are many other factors involved, such as duty of care, and the legal responsibility that all teachers carry w... (read in full...)
I'm 22 and don't know if I am a virgin yet I've had sex
Q. I'm 22, and I had sex alot with my boyfriend and i never had blood coming out of me and i'm supposed to be virgin! and sometimes in certain positions there's pain inside me ! i wanna know how to know if am virgin or not ! and is it possible to have ...
A. 20 August 2009: If what you say is correct, and you have had sex 30 times, then you are most definitely no longer a virgin.
I hope that doesnt upset you too much, but if your partner managed to get his penis inside you are no longer a virgin. Not all girls bl... (read in full...)
When is the best time to take a pregnancy test?
Q. hey i am 14, i had sex on friday night when me and a few others stoped at my lads mates house and we were not drunk we were sober and i was messing around with this lad and then we went upstairs because this lad had a bad sholder and i said i w...
A. 20 August 2009: Sorry to bring everyone back to reality, but surely you should take this as a warning for next time? You are underage and should not be having sex, unprotected or otherwise. ANY FORM OF SEXUAL CONTACT UNDER THE AGE OF 16 IS ILLEGAL - or did... (read in full...)
I want a baby at 13
Q. the thing is i am 13 (14 on october the 26th) and i want a baby so much i cannot explain my feelings i know i am ready i have tryed to put it off by babysitting but that makes my feelings stronger i have looked it up on the internet and told my mum ...
A. 20 August 2009: I know you are not 10 - I was just showing that you were 10 when you supposedly started "dating" your boyfriend. That is an impossibly young age to have a meaningful relationship.
I would say NO ten year old is capable of having a relation... (read in full...)
I've dated him for 3 days and I think I'm in love!
Q. i think i am in love... i've dated him for 3 days, and known him for 3 days. so i dont think i am. but i CANNOT stop thinking about him!! when i am with him its like nobody else is there. and i just feel really happy. i want to talk about him ...
A. 20 August 2009: Im sorry... you have known this guy for 3 DAYS and you have already given him a blowjob??????????? How old are you?! Because if you are 13-15 years old, then I am seriously worried for your well being and sexual health. Being easy is not th... (read in full...)
Is it possible to tell someone you love them through Telepathy?
Q. Can you let someone know you love them by Telepathy?If two people love each other but dont know about each others feelings can you send these feelings through some form of telepathy? I have experienced it with someone and I don't really know how...
A. 19 August 2009: I do know what you mean.... altho I dont agree with the "telepathy" part. You cant know what someone else is thinking, or make them know what you are thinking, you can guess, or assume (altho this is always risky). BUT, saying that, I know exa... (read in full...)
Is underage sex something you agree with?! I want opinions please!
Q. Ive decided to put myself out here after been severely infuriated by some 'adults' on this site who deem it appropriate for CHILDREN to be having sex from as young as 13! do you think its appropriate for a child of this age to be having sex?? they ...
A. 19 August 2009: Firestorm, you seem to be very uninterested in the welfare of the young people you are talking about. So the sexual consent is lowered to 14 - what then? Kids become sexualised even earlier? 9, 10, 11? That will just encourage them into this much ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is going off to uni soon. I don't know how to cope.
Q. my boyfriend and i have been together for 8 months and im totally in love with him. we spend every day together and we know each other inside out. however hes going off to uni in september and its hitting me hard. i spend every day crying when hes ...
A. 19 August 2009: Im sorry to say, but its just something you have to grow up and get on with. I know it sounds harsh, but he is only going away to university. It isnt the end of the world.
Just count your lucky stars he isnt in the army and going away for a lo... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is going off to uni soon. I don't know how to cope.
Q. my boyfriend and i have been together for 8 months and im totally in love with him. we spend every day together and we know each other inside out. however hes going off to uni in september and its hitting me hard. i spend every day crying when hes ...
A. 19 August 2009: I know its a tough thing when your childhood sweetheart suddenly goes off into the big wide world and leaves you behind. Im guessing you are younger than him and still at school? This is a big time of change for both you and him. He has to grow u... (read in full...)
My girlfriend wants anul sex, but I dont, what should I do?
Q. Me and my girlfriend have seen each other for a year now, and we have been sleeping with each other for half of that. The thing is, she asked me about anul sex, because she wants to try it, but im not sure, i dont really want to try it. i know it ...
A. 19 August 2009: Dont do it. At 13-15 yrs old, you are already breaking the law by having underage sex as it is, so dont make the matter any worse. It will be you (as the man) who gets the blame if it all goes wrong and she gets pregnant/ gets infected with ... (read in full...)
I want a baby at 13
Q. the thing is i am 13 (14 on october the 26th) and i want a baby so much i cannot explain my feelings i know i am ready i have tryed to put it off by babysitting but that makes my feelings stronger i have looked it up on the internet and told my mum ...
A. 18 August 2009: You are 13 Years old, and have been dating the same guy for 3 years?
Hmm... so you were 10 YEARS OLD, when you first started "dating"????? I dont know about anyone else, but I find that heartbreaking. Whatever happened to childhood.
This is... (read in full...)
Is underage sex something you agree with?! I want opinions please!
Q. Ive decided to put myself out here after been severely infuriated by some 'adults' on this site who deem it appropriate for CHILDREN to be having sex from as young as 13! do you think its appropriate for a child of this age to be having sex?? they ...
A. 17 August 2009: Something else I think that should be discouraged is the trend for having relationships with teachers. I always discourage and say that this is both wrong and illegal on many levels, but there are Aunts and Uncles who condone this, basically telling ... (read in full...)
Is underage sex something you agree with?! I want opinions please!
Q. Ive decided to put myself out here after been severely infuriated by some 'adults' on this site who deem it appropriate for CHILDREN to be having sex from as young as 13! do you think its appropriate for a child of this age to be having sex?? they ...
A. 17 August 2009: I have to say I totally agree with you. I am horrified that certain adults do condone underage sex. But I am equally horrified at the number of underage children who seem to be doing things that would make even experienced adults blush.
I had quit... (read in full...)
I'm 14, he's almost 18, and I'm nervous about his 'needs'
Q. I am 14 years old and I fell in love with a 17 year old boy. We met at school and we even kissed once. We are considering being together. I know my friend's views but I'd like to hear from people who aren't biased. He is about to turn 18, which ...
A. 22 July 2009: Hello Poster
I think you should listen to your family and friends. You are way to young for an 18 yr old boy. Regardless of if you love him or not. If he is a known ladies man, he will either want to have sex with you, or will go elsewher... (read in full...)
Where can I get the Pill from?
Q. ive been with my boyfriend for 7 months n we've decided we want to take things further the only problem is he alergic to latex so ive decided to go on the pill.. but im not sure were to get it from.. and how id go about it .. if any one could ...
A. 28 June 2009: Dear Poster
If you are the age that your post states 13-15 yrs old, may I remind you that the LEGAL age of consent in the UK is 16.
This means that you are a minor, and even if you say yes to having sex with your boyfriend, he CAN be charged w... (read in full...)
24 year old teacher touches me and wants to hang out. I love him!
Q. I am in love with my 24 year old teacher. I am 15 so there is only 9 years apart, and if i wasnt a student it wouldnt be a big deal. This is his first year teaching at the high school and he is a amazing man. When he isnt teaching, he is just ...
A. 17 June 2009: Well said SteveS!
Dear Poster, we see so many questions about children who have fallen in love with their teacher and have sexual relationships with them.
I am a teacher. When we sign up to this job, we take on something called "duty of ... (read in full...)
What do I do if they go out?
Q. the one i love, the one i would die for is now in love with my best friend, and my best friend is in love with him. iam so upset she says to me on msn that iam selfish and a sl_t. shes the one selfish i am so in love with him and after every thing ...
A. 11 June 2009: Honey, I am sorry, but if HE likes her, and she likes him, you are just going to have to deal with it. The world is not going to end, life will carry on, and YES you will get over it. You may be sad, and you may feel angry. But you are just going to ... (read in full...)
My best friend's brother took my virginity AGAINST my will and now I feel so alone and don't know how to handle this...
Q. I really dont know what to do. in march, i went to a party.. everyone got drunk but it was a great night! my best friend's brother is 22 and he is about 6 foot 2 weighs about 18 stone and has muscles bigger than my head. he told me a while ago that ...
A. 5 June 2009: You have been through a terrible experience, and all you are feeling is perfectly normal.
You have been raped. This man took your virginity against your will. First thing you need to do is talk to your mum. I know this is going to be difficul... (read in full...)
Periods and sexual activity....
Q. Well im a 14 year old girl and i havent started my period yet. but i like this guy and we have been going out for sometime but he wants to finger me and i want him to but can i be fingered without starting? x...
A. 30 May 2009: Dear Poster
I am sorry to throw a spanner in the works here, but you are 14 YEARS OLD. It is ILLEGAL for you to have consensual sexual relations under the age of 16. You dont say how old he is, but if he is over 16 this means, if your boyfrien... (read in full...)
15 & 23, too big an age gap or too big a risk?
Q. I'm 23 and have feelings for a girl I meet at a wedding 2 weeks ago. She is beautiful. I couldn't keep my eyes off her all night. Then the bomb dropped, I found out she is only 15! I felt so ashamed even though I didn't act on my feelings, there was ...
A. 26 May 2009: I think you need to consider ALL the possible outcomes of this. Regardless of the age gap, teenage girls are notoriously fickle. Their affections get dumped on lots of unsuitable men, until they suddenly come across another one who takes their ... (read in full...)
Dating more than one person at a time? Bad?
Q. I would like some opinions from you guys on how you feel about dating more than one person at the same time... I know there may be cultural differences here - I think in the US it is pretty normal for people to date a few people until one become...
A. 26 May 2009: I have been on the other end of this - my ex was dating multiple women, when I was dating only him. For me, we were a serious item. When I found out, it nearly finished me emotionally. I was so hurt. He didnt see any problem with it - as he said, in ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend's PMT Stresses Me Out, Help!
Q. Ok i've just met a wonderful girl, and i'm madly in love with her, i know this because it's diffrent than the feelings i've had with ex gf's, i am 17 and she is 16, shes slept over a few times now, but recently she has come on the PMT it really ...
A. 23 May 2009: Dear Poster
PMT. I am sure this is something that every man hates, and never knows quite how to deal with. All women are different, some of us get a little moody, some grumpy, others get a bit sensitive and generally all of us get very very emo... (read in full...)
He's slept with nearly 100 women... opinions please!
Q. Hi would just like to ask what people make of a 30 year old man who has slept with nearly 100 women?...
A. 22 May 2009: Personally I would be horrified, but that is just my own personal opinion. To me it shows lack of commitment to a single partner, or someone who is prepared to sleep with any woman who entered his life. There would be no emotional connection with ... (read in full...)
I'm seeing my teacher secretly...
Q. I'm 16 and I've left school. I'm currently on study leave and are going back for exams on certain days this week and the next few weeks. me and a male teacher (24 years old) were always reallly really close, it might sound wrong but we kinda st...
A. 22 May 2009: You asked for our advice, and we have given you an honest response. The fact that you do not like the answers, and are not willing to appreciate what you are doing IS wrong and the seriousness of the situation shows that you have got a lot of ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is practically being held hostage in his own home! help.
Q. Hey everyone! Well i have posted questions on here before and youve always been really great help. This isnt really a huge problem, not compared to others and i guess this is kind of silly. Well im sitting my A levels and so ive now off...
A. 21 May 2009: Hi there!
Right, I am going to sit on the fence a bit with this one. I know how tough it must be for you, having been together every day, and now being kept apart. I have been there, and yes it is difficult, but you get on with it. BUT....I... (read in full...)
I'm an author looking for your stories about teacher/pupil relationships...
Q. Hi all Have a bit of an unusual question but here goes - I am a published fiction writer in the UK, and am in the early stages of writing a book about a teacher/pupil relationship. I have been reading through stories on this site and others ...
A. 20 May 2009: to the anonymous poster - thank you for the compliment! ... (read in full...)
I'm an author looking for your stories about teacher/pupil relationships...
Q. Hi all Have a bit of an unusual question but here goes - I am a published fiction writer in the UK, and am in the early stages of writing a book about a teacher/pupil relationship. I have been reading through stories on this site and others ...
A. 20 May 2009: I agree with the anonymous poster below.
I am a teacher, but I think I can safely say, that everyone, whatever their age, sex or race has had a crush on a teacher at some point in their school career. Be it, in primary school, secondary school w... (read in full...)
I'm seeing my teacher secretly...
Q. I'm 16 and I've left school. I'm currently on study leave and are going back for exams on certain days this week and the next few weeks. me and a male teacher (24 years old) were always reallly really close, it might sound wrong but we kinda st...
A. 20 May 2009: FYI - You are not the only one to be blinded by young love and emotion.
This is a recent case
http://www.eastbourneherald.co.uk/news/Teacher-jailed-for-sex-with.4941639.jp
Dont become another statistic of young girls abused by teachers... (read in full...)
I'm seeing my teacher secretly...
Q. I'm 16 and I've left school. I'm currently on study leave and are going back for exams on certain days this week and the next few weeks. me and a male teacher (24 years old) were always reallly really close, it might sound wrong but we kinda st...
A. 20 May 2009: This is totally wrong on many levels.
I am 25, and a teacher myself. I personally could not ever have a relationship with one of my students. It is just wrong on so many levels. Both professionally and morally.
HE needs to get his head looked ... (read in full...)
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