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How do I pull myself together so that I even want my heart mended?

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Question - (15 October 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 17 October 2010)
A male United Kingdom age 41-50, *jjjjjjjj writes:

My heart is breaking and I feel like the rest of me is following. I don't know what to do or who to turn to. I don't know whether to hold myself together or let myself fall apart.

How do you mend a broken heart? How do I pull myself together so that I even want it mended? Everything is losing meaning for me. I now understand the true meaning of a broken heart.

My candle has burnt out.

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A male reader, jjjjjjjjj United Kingdom +, writes (17 October 2010):

jjjjjjjjj is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Thanks muchly all three of you for your responses.

I was so sure I'd found my perfect match and he was so sure he'd found his in me. I'm not sure I have learnt anything as I made no mistakes except to be open to love and that's never a mistake.

Bring on the time!

Prayers for you too cheannryl.

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A male reader, BrownWolf Canada +, writes (15 October 2010):

BrownWolf agony aunt

Then get another candle. Because there is more to life than a broken heart.

What have learnt from that relationship? What mistakes did YOU make that you would not do again?

These things happen, not to make your weak or to have a broken heart, but to learn from your mistakes. If you learned anything...then you are already a better man. The more you learn, without blaming her or yourself, the better you will be.

Life is always teaching us lessons, and sometimes we need a good spanking...so to speak... for us to learn.

I have been down that road...but never again...because I learned...One woman in a few billion is pretty good odds.

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A female reader, cheannryl Philippines +, writes (15 October 2010):

cheannryl agony auntI was planning to ask that kind of question,how to heal a broken heart,see i can't sleep,and i'm hurting.But there's a part of me saying you'll be alright.

Dear,God is with you.He knows how you feel,if you just let him you know help you.

Everyone has a perfect match so don't be sad.

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