Confused about ex girlfriend want her back
Q. me and my girlfriend were in a long distance relationship..she had an abusive ex that she would always bring up as well and being beaten as a child by her father. she also has skin cancer. so it was very rocky at times and her mood swings were the ...
A. 26 December 2011: she has a lot of emotional baggage and i imagine that right now from what you have said she is feeling somewhat self destructive, you have to let her get it our of her system. people we care about do rash things, they appear destructive and ... (read in full...)
Verbally abusive boyfriend keeps saying that I'm dumb and good for nothing
Q. Dear Cupid My bf used to abuse me verbally once in a while before and now he started doing it almost every day. He says its getting difficult to even hold a conversation without getting angry with me, nowadays. He often says i dont know anythi...
A. 26 December 2011: your boyfriend is verbally abusive, emotionally abusive. hear that word abusive. no one who loves you should ever feel the need to put your down. they should want to make you feel better than who you are, inspire you, encourage your dreams. this ... (read in full...)
I fell in love with my best friend, but he is after another girl. What else to do?
Q. My best friend (male) was dumped almost a year ago by his GF. He was and I believe still is crushed about it and I been with him over all of it. Unfortunately, for me I fell in love with him and now I feel devastated that he is telling me he is ...
A. 26 December 2011: he likes you hun but only as a friend, it is hard but sadly it is how it is. another thing is he has said he doesn't want a real relationship why would you want to put yourself through that? you would get together perhaps but not for long. if you w... (read in full...)
What can I do to help save the relationship?
Q. So let me start out saying I am 17 years old. I've been with my boyfriend for over a year. I love him and he's honestly the best guy in the world. But lately we've fought a lot, we've just had a lot of little problems that we argue about and ...
A. 25 January 2011: relationships are never easy the good ones too. you have to work at it. first few months of a relationship is a honeymoon period everything is peachy nice but then you stay together longer and you pick up on faults, habits, that annoy one another.... (read in full...)
Fiancé wishes my penis was bigger, do you think I'm big enough?
Q. I need help. Me and my fiancé been together for over a year and I have to admit...we are both sexually active. She says she loves my penis size but constantly reminds me that she wish I was bigger. My penis is 6" long with 3.5" girth but she says ...
A. 18 November 2010: your fiance is being unfair i agree with danielepew give her a taste of what it feels like. next time she says something like that say to her i wish your boobs were a little bigger/smaller.
see how she reacts and remind her that she says it to yo... (read in full...)
He's not who I want him to be.
Q. My boyfriend is not the boyfriend I want him to be. He has very different opinions on everything to me. I know they say opposites attracts but this is extreme. It's mainly about how we see the future [when we'd move in together, what the most ...
A. 15 November 2010: how much do you love him? would you take a bullet?
if you love him this much then what does it matter what your life plans are right now? because are you getting married tomorrow? are you pregnant? live together?
things dont always finish the w... (read in full...)
All I have learned is that life is a bitch and that no matter what my family is there for me!
Q. well my life has just gotten a lot worse, My mom was just diagnosed with Colon Cancer. I don't really show emotion I haven't cried in a long time and Im cold. my family has gone through some tuff shit in the last little while and I don't know how ...
A. 15 November 2010: there is nothing you can do about crap like this,
the rubbish stick does not just hit you. it hits everybody.
so get that perspective right now.
supporting your mum by yourself is a major deal , and your a kid so it is an impossible missi... (read in full...)
It seems like everywhere we go we run into someone he's slept with
Q. I have always known that my partner has had many partners and has much much more experience than me. He lost his virginity at 11 and has had several partners and has slept with teachers and professors. it is starting to get to me because ev...
A. 15 November 2010: noone can change their past it is unfair to even expect it. what are you going to do shout at him for having a good time? for finding out what he liked? there is nothing wrong with it.
but protection (condoms) or if you want to be unprotec... (read in full...)
I don't like the type of communication between my boyfriend and this girl...what should I do?
Q. me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 and a half years and we both love each other but recently hes been getting very ratty with me n taking me for granted when he asks me to do stuff for him n if i say no he goes off on one. recently as he ...
A. 17 August 2009: i wouldn't go off on one, just point out that you feel he is taking you for granted. relationships are two way he needs to be reminded of that. Tell him how it is making you feel but not in a shouty way. ... (read in full...)
If I fail my next exam mom says I have to finish with my boyfriend!
Q. I dont know what to do. At school I have alwaiis been good at maths and now am failing it as i failed my first exam. I have another one coming up in a weeks time and my mum said that if I do not pass it I have to break up with my boyfriend cause ...
A. 31 May 2009: then work for your exam if you were good at it and your bf really isn't a distraction then prove your mum wrong and pass it.
it is plain laziness if you are not bothering to revise and your problem. so get busy and work.
as for your bf get ... (read in full...)
I am short of breath, have a sharp pain, doctor has found nothing, any suggestions?
Q. Hi. I'm really worried about my health. There are times when I feel a little short of breath, and every now and again, I experience a short but sharp pain in my chest. It only lasts for a second or two and then it stops. I've been to a docto...
A. 29 May 2009: don't overreact lets get some perspective here.
it could be digestion problems, heartburn in which case get some gaviscon in stock.
if your really worried then get a second opinion, if you have seen antoher doctor and they say its fine your no... (read in full...)
Have had unprotected sex for 7 years, not pregnant yet, could infertility be the problem?
Q. i'm 19 years old and my boyfriends 28 years old. we've not been trying for a baby but have been having unprotected sex for the past 7 weeks and im not pregnant. of course i am over the moon about it but at the same time im quite worried i could be ...
A. 29 May 2009: for sods sake go to a sex clinic.
you do not know who he has slept with, or what they have or what his partners partners have had and so on.
you could have anything, theres big chance you could already be infertile the longer you live it the ... (read in full...)
If you are drunk, will your first sexual experience hurt less?
Q. Just a Quicke Question. Does The First Time hurt Less If Drunk? x...
A. 29 May 2009: i don't think so if sex is going to hurt its going to hurt.
try lubricants, different condoms, having a bath before so your relaxed.
ultimately sex hurts for everygirl the first time you just have to grin and bare it.
sex for girls on average... (read in full...)
Like me? View me as a good friend?
Q. Hullo... I'm single and im just curious if this girl likes me... I only recently (3-4 months ago) broke up with my first girlfriend of a year and have no idea who i like yet. A very nice friend of mine gave me her number at a BBQ because alth...
A. 30 April 2009: that guy that she likes but is trying to get over because she thinks hes not into her yeah thats you!
send her some good signals let her know that lyou like her. thre is nothing wrong with dating someone! its good experience whether it works ou... (read in full...)
Could I be pregnant
Q. I am a 19 year old female.I jus want to kno if my boyfriend cum on my belly...and i use the same cloth that he uses and wipe the cum,and i accidently wipe my vagina with the same cloth right after,would i get pregnant? ...
A. 30 April 2009: get a pregnancy test and make sure?
or if its recent take a day after pill if your worried
getting pregnant is fairly easy it only takes one sperm to get the deed done.
don't wait to miss a period get it checked now, if you are and you don'... (read in full...)
My best friend likes me..I feel weird
Q. I feel weird around my best friend because he likes me he was my BFF since kindergarden but now where not best friends cause he is jealous of every boy I like a boy whose girlfriend is her cousin so what should I do?...
A. 30 April 2009: your best friend is behaving imaturely. It's natural to feel jealous we are only human it happens.
but you accept you are jalous and deal with it it dos not need to affect anyone else but you.
so confront him assue him you don't feel the s... (read in full...)
She wont let go of her past, should I let her go?
Q. Hi I'm in this relationship with this girl she's 26, extremely pretty and sweet. I believe her main problem is that I've noticed she can't let go of her past, an ex-boyfriend to be specific. She says she is not in love with him, but she's constantly ...
A. 30 April 2009: mate why should you play 2nd?
your not the jerk she is noone deserves to be compared to an ex it's not on.
if shes not listening and you still want to keep her. then be more drastic.
1. give her an ultimatum (like you have done)tell her y... (read in full...)
I told my crush how I felt but I still don't know how he feels!
Q. So I finally decided to tell my crush how I feel. Didn't work out well. I tried speaking in our native tongue, but I ended up stuttering so I decided to speak in English. I actually planned everything I was going to say, but they all slipp...
A. 30 April 2009: hes with someone? your treading dangerous ground get him to leave her first. then it might be easier for both of you.
he probably likes you but is shy, try and catch him on his own and whisper in his ear if he likes you beause you like him. if ... (read in full...)
I am unsure of how to come to terms with my good friend being gay
Q. I have just met up with a very close friend who I havent seen in many years. I found out the reason we fell out is because she is gay and she could not tell me as we were so close she didnt want me to feel like she fancied me. We had seen each other ...
A. 30 April 2009: you sound homophobic. do you know that? how do you think she feels, it's a big thing for her to tell you and your not sure how to handle it?
it does not change anything she is still your mate, are you worried she might hit on you? or somethin... (read in full...)
I think I am a little slow on the up-take...does this guy like me?
Q. Hi. I am 24 and have only had two boyfriends and those i met through school and college. Now i have gone one step further and met a guy at work. Now i am feeling a little rusty, since it has been 2 years since my last relationship broke up and i ...
A. 30 April 2009: your definately a bit 'friendly'
if it was me things like i'd let you make my bed and if i was with you i would take them as invitations , hints if you like.
hes paying interest make an effort and ask him out somewhere, if your worried abo... (read in full...)
Starting to wonder if I fancy women, not men...
Q. I'm starting to wonder if I might be gay. I've never fancied women, or wanted relationships with them. But I've always found them more of a turn on than men - ie if I was watching porn with a boyfriend, it would be lesbian porn that I would cho...
A. 30 April 2009: then maybe your a lesi?
its not a shameful thing! just what you prefer and everyone is different rememeber that.
experiement i am gatherng you haven't had sex with women. fantasizing and actually doing it are totally different.
so go to a ... (read in full...)
Going to a wedding, his bitchy ex will be there, how do I get through it?
Q. My boyfriend of 4 months has asked me to go to his friends wedding in May. Not a problem really, until you take into accoiunt that his very maliscious, nasty and bitchy ex will be there - who has a real thing against me (she had my boyfriend wra...
A. 30 April 2009: if she gets nasty say something like 'i left that in the playground'
it should put her in her place without being too mean.
there are always going to be people who don't like us and it is something you have to deal with. we can't be loved by eve... (read in full...)
Can someone please PLEASE help me with my ex?
Q. I was with my ex boyfriend for 6 months on and off and lost my virginity to him. He had commitment issues and couldn't handle our relationship and ended up breaking up with me. He insisted that we still be friends as he didn't want to lose me. We've ...
A. 12 January 2009: he messed with your emotions a little bit babe, i know how it hurts but then every person in the world does. Regardless of whether you think about it guys get hurt to , in very similar if not the same, circumstances.
He kept you waiting on his call... (read in full...)
How can I convince her to start a relationship with me?
Q. I have been talking to this girl for a while now and we have talked about dating a bit. She has reservations because she hurt one of her friends before this because she was hurt from another previous relationship. She had decided not to have any ...
A. 12 January 2009: no matter how she tries, she will end up hurting people. It's life moveon. guys and girls are forever causing pain for eachother but there is no sense in dwelling on it. she needs to get over this , because by staying in the past there is no future. ... (read in full...)
I'm 18, he's 28 and he's married
Q. Sorry this is so long, but this question requires an explanation. I like this guy who works at the same place I work. I am 18 he is 28. Most of my family works at this place too. I have had this crush for about 4 years, yes it used to be just a ...
A. 12 January 2009: he's married sweetheart, thats alot of baggage whichever way you look at it. He needs to be single first, before you make a move. if he likes you as much as you suspect he will make it so, he will sort out the complications.
File a divorce ... (read in full...)
Frustrated about where this is going...
Q. Hi all, My ex bf of 3 months said to me last nite about this guy I'm talking 2, he said that I am to take him down the pub that we go to and that, if he (my ex) doesn't like him I won't talk or see this any more, and that I should be careful,...
A. 9 January 2009: Stop going back to him! Stop sleeping with him for a start. He left you for a reason, because it wasn't working. By dumping you he has no say in your new relationships.That is just jealously. A normal human emotion but he doesn't need to make you ... (read in full...)
Why can't I have a normal boyfriend?
Q. why cant i get a normal boyfriend? im 18 and i have never had a steady relationship. my longest relationship was 3 weeks and the guy didnt even spend that much time with me, i think he just wanted a girlfriend just to SAY he had a girlfriend. i ...
A. 4 June 2008: i have this problem all the time my longest relationship was roughly a month but rather my bfs always leave me for someone else or cheat. I get sick and tired of it after a while, but i realised that there wasnt a problem with me only the people i ... (read in full...)
I feel pathetic over feeling hurt cause my friend likes another girl.
Q. Im in love with a friend, he's not close and he is 2 years older than me. I've told him that i like him but he doesnt feel the same. We are still friends and talk to each other but, it hurts soo much knowing that he likes another girl. Please help ...
A. 2 February 2008: everyone feels that way with rejection honey it passes , i know it doesnt help but there are many guys out there some will break your heart and some won't thats life it comes and goes. it is something we all have to live with. you won't feel this ... (read in full...)
Is he trying to tell me something, reading out this text infront of me??
Q. Hi, There is this guy tht has told me he likes me, but hasn't said it to my face just over msn, this was a few months ago but since he hasnt mentioned anything and has carried on like we are friends. However, there is awkwardness between us and r...
A. 2 February 2008: it sounds like it was probably about you hun, some guys get mega shy and cannot make the first move did you ever tell him how you feel about him? if not why not? and how did you expect him to know how you feel about him guys arent telepathic!id love ... (read in full...)
What should I do about my bfs crush??
Q. I think my boyfriend of 3.5 years has a crush on another girl and I was wondering what you all think... should I be worried about it? He has never told me and I have never asked but when she is around and he talks to her, I can sense an attraction. ...
A. 2 February 2008: it is normal for people to be attracted to others honey , surely you check other guys out when your beau is not around? i know i did and do when i am with someone, it does not detract my love for them in any way it just means that yeah i think some ... (read in full...)
Is this just a passing phase??
Q. Hi i'm 16 , and i'm a bit lost at the moment. I'm attracted to girls and boys, but i've never really had the chance to experiment with boys. I also like to wear girls clothes. Is this just a passing phase? Will it pass in time? What should i do? ...
A. 1 February 2008: we are so young honey, and they say that at this age we never know what we want. the thing is with homosexuality or any sexuality it is never definate until you have been out there and tryed all the flavours. my best friend didn't know she was a ... (read in full...)
She cant let go of her ex, yet she loves and wants to be with me, help?
Q. I`m becoming very frustrated with my girlfriend and its getting me down with the way shes acting at times. i dont know what to do and my patience is running thin but i love her to bits and deep down i dont want to break up with her, we`ve been going ...
A. 1 February 2008: my stars she is confused madamne isn't she? but then you kind of are too honey. you need to give her some time apart let her figure out who she truely loves and if it is not you , you should find hope and faith in knowing that there is someone out ... (read in full...)
In love with my best friend who's also my flatmate!
Q. I'm crazy about my flatmate. I'd jus come out of a 2 year relationship before uni. In the first few months my flatmate and I were best friends..he was always there for me, and I felt i had a friend for life. Then in November, we got very drunk and ...
A. 1 February 2008: you should talk to him! it sounds like you have a shot with this guy and perhaps he feels the same way? either way you should ask him why he keeps sleeping with you on and off. there probably is a good enough reason and if he is a good enough friend ... (read in full...)
Why would she bother to contact me now?
Q. Take a deep breath . . . i am wondering why an old girlfriend has contacted me?, after 26yrs has gone by, i still loved her at the time but she bunked off with another guy, so i had to leave, we was working together, it was the stress and strains ...
A. 16 December 2007: perhaps she is looking for some sort of comfort? and because you were always good to her and i bet she knows you always will be if she wanted you to , she finds this greatly reassuring and you have to imagine honey at this point she will probably be ... (read in full...)
What can I do to get him back?
Q. I love this guy since my age was 14 and now I’m 21, in all these years I’ve been through a lot, and here is my story: me and this guy (A) were living at the same bldg. at the first time I saw him I fall in love with him it was a love from the firs...
A. 4 December 2007: hes just using you for sex whenever he feels like it ,and you deserve so much more than that! guys sometimes say i love you to manipulate their lovers because that is all you were his play thing his sex toy. you need to move on to a proper ... (read in full...)
Which one do I choose? (if any)
Q. ive been with my boyfriend connor for a month we liked each other alot wen i was dating my boyfriend james p before the one i got now, but now i just dont know how i feel about connor anymore the one im with now and i seem to like this other boy ...
A. 21 October 2007: your being cruel!its not fair to lead guys on the way your doing but at the same time you have to follow your heart and listen to it it should tell you who makes you the happiest remember theres a reasonyour with conner and not james anymore if your ... (read in full...)
Going through a Self-Esteem Crisis!
Q. To give you a bit of a brief of the situation, im going through a self esteem crisis. Now, where to start... I'm fat, ugly and a real geek. My best friend of around 8 years has disappeared since I moved house. I feel empty, and as if i can trus...
A. 12 October 2007: it should not matter how you look honey in order for other people you have to love yourself first i know this may sound heard believe me when i was your age i was the same i believe no one would ever love me and i was doomed for a life of great ... (read in full...)
I'm not very good at what to say to people when they are upset, and she won't open up to me. She's lost her cousin, how to help her?
Q. hi, im 16 my best friend(and the love of my life although she doesn't know it-but thats a different story)has just lost her cousin to MS.I just don't know what to do, it hurts me so much that i know i can't help her. I see her every day at school ...
A. 23 September 2007: honey im the same i dont really like to tel my friends whats bothering me shes lucky she has you someone who can read her like a book, but in the situation your in all you really can do is tell her that if she ever needs you your going ot be there ... (read in full...)
What is the differance between a lover and a girlfriend?
Q. What is the difference between a lover and a girlfriend? ...
A. 8 September 2007: a love is like a sex buddy someone to snuggle with on occasion when you both feel lonely wheras a gf is someone you love you can share your hopes and dreams with who you make see yourself being with in the future x ... (read in full...)
Should i tell my cousin how i feel about him?
Q. hi (: ok well i think this is a bit uncommon and weird, but i have a crush on my cousin. the problem is he's 20 years old, but he's all i think about and i broke up with my boyfriend because of him. i am planning on telling how i feel about him, bec...
A. 30 August 2007: honey you can not begin a relationship with this guy simply because of family if you ever did get together if that how long do you think it would last?than when you separated their is no way of avoiding him because your family is all around you ... (read in full...)
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