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writes:My best friend (male) was dumped almost a year ago by his GF. He was and I believe still is crushed about it and I been with him over all of it. Unfortunately, for me I fell in love with him and now I feel devastated that he is telling me he is seeing a new girl who just broke up with her boyfriend. I tried to tell him I have feeling for him, but he told me I am his SUPER FRIEND and that he doesn't know what to do about my feelings for him b/c he's confused and that he doesn't want a real relationship and don't want to hurt my feelings and don't want to lose me and that he doesn't know if maybe we can something together too.I mean, what else can I do and tell him. Another thing, We kinda developed a FWB thing and I want him to know I don't to be seeing as some girl and I think that's what he is so afraid about. Please Help me in this mess!!
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reader, artistical_bumblebee +, writes (26 December 2011):
 he likes you hun but only as a friend, it is hard but sadly it is how it is.another thing is he has said he doesn't want a real relationship why would you want to put yourself through that? you would get together perhaps but not for long. if you want him in your life at all just appreciate him as a friend, be there as much as a friend should be. i wouldn't continue fwb however as it is never going to do you any favours.
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reader, person12345  +, writes (25 December 2011):
 Well there isn't much of a mess here at all, it's just a devastating situation that's fairly straight forward. You love him, but he doesn't feel the same. He values you a lot as a friend and wants to keep you as a friend, but isn't sure how to do that.
The best thing for you to do is to distance yourself from him as being around him will make it impossible for you to move on.
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