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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi all,My ex bf of 3 months said to me last nite about this guy I'm talking 2, he said that I am to take him down the pub that we go to and that, if he (my ex) doesn't like him I won't talk or see this any more, and that I should be careful, thing is he has a girlfriend on the net and I tell him 2 be careful but he won't listen, I've never met or spoke to this guy, only talking through text so why's he getting all funny over it, then last nite on face book he said is your lover guy on yet and I said no, we then had a long conversation about how I wasn't going to meet him yet until we talk more. I told one of my work mates about this and what he said about if my ex didnt like him, then I can't see him. My friend said that he was getting jealous about me having found someone else,?We do still see each other and have slept together twice since we split, but he dumped me.I am frustrated and confused about where my relationship of just over a year is going...
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reader, artistical_bumblebee +, writes (9 January 2009):
 Stop going back to him! Stop sleeping with him for a start. He left you for a reason, because it wasn't working. By dumping you he has no say in your new relationships.That is just jealously. A normal human emotion but he doesn't need to make you feel bad about it. Your relationship with you ex is going no where so move on. A good friend is happy for any new relationships you get into. remember that.Internet relationships are dangerous as well, i don't personally believe in cyber relationships because unless youve met them and know who they are, they could be absolutley anyone and you wouldn't know. When you meet this lad, make sure you are not left alone because even though you feel like you might know him. you don't not untill youve spent proper time together.stay in a public place , or go with a friend and take your friend in case of emergency.have fun but stay safe.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (9 January 2009):
 Stop sleeping with your ex. ( Unless YOU want to be his fuck-buddy).
Secondly, don't let him dictate who you can and can not date. He might just want to look out for you, but really, if he isn't a good friend then I'd still tell him you are a big girl and you can judge a guy ALL by yourself, that YOUR friends will get to met him and that you will listen to what THEY have to say, but not him.
Ps. the guy you talk to on the net, when you do met him make sure you do it in a public place, that you let your friends ( or family) know when and where. Bring a phone. And don't him him walk you home ,nor you go with him. Be safe.
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