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Archived questions from: April, 2011 (see latest in Virginity category)

Virginity: Help and advice

My purity ring is not stopping me feel so turned on. What can I do to slow down these feelings?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4978 days ago

30 April 2011 (F) - Why am I so turned on when I see my boyfriend? I'm 15, but I've never felt like this before! I know one reason is hormones? Anyways... I've never felt like this with anyone else. It's freaking me out. Maybe another reason is that he told me I turn...

I wanted to become celibate, but my boyfriend threatened to leave me

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4940 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - I wanted to become celibate but my boyfriend threatened to leave me..... clearly he cannot respect my decision... What do i do? But he claims he loves me so much....

Will I lose my virginity if I give him oral? Will he love me more if I do it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4986 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - i'm a 17 years old girl and still a virgin. my boyfriend is asking me to have an oral sex with him, he's 18 and were both virgins. i keep telling him that i don't want to because i'm reserving my virginity till the day i'm married. (even though im ...

Engaged Virgin w/PTSD-Scared of Going All the Way

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27 April 2011 (F) - I am a 21 year old virgin who recently got engaged and my fiance would like to go all the way soon, but here's the problem: (he's already had sex with his ex-girlfriend and) I have never gone beyond oral. We've been practicing with him using one ...

Is this normal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4988 days ago

26 April 2011 (F) - ok well i need help. im a virgin like im very tight it is about the size of a dime the hole. when i finger i see like blood and it hurts with one finger and ive never came. is that normal how do i come?...

I can't seem to get enough of my FWB! She wants me to cool down my strong desire for sex-but it's hard to when we're together!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4989 days ago

26 April 2011 (M) - I was a virgin up until about 2 months ago, I lost it to a FWB. Since then, I've been pretty sex mad and we've done a lot of stuff since then, she recently told me that she doesn't always wanna have sex when we meet up and I've agreed to that, but ...

How do I convince him I'm good in bed? He doesn't realise that I'm a virgin.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4980 days ago

25 April 2011 (F) - So I'm a virgin but I want to sleep with this guy who doesn't think im a virgin and will never know I'm a virgin as then he'll think I lied to him. Anyway, he's slept with lots of girls so is is experienced and I want him to think that I'm good in ...

My friends have made me anxious to have sex. But how? Is this a good idea?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4990 days ago

24 April 2011 (F) - hi, i'm almost 18 and a virgin :) i have been in a relationship since i was 15. my boyfriend is a nice guy and i trust him a lot but still i never let him have any kind of sexual intercourse with me. but now i am thinking to move into a phys...

Why do women lie that they're virgins?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4973 days ago

24 April 2011 (M) - Why do women get angry if a virgin man wants to marry a virgin woman? And why do most of them lie about there sexual past to the virgin guy?...

Should I tell my BF it's over? I said No. But He's still pressuring me. he wants to lose his virginity with me.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4980 days ago

23 April 2011 (F) - I am a 14 year old virgin, but my BF , which is 15, wants to lose his virginity with me. We have been dating for not so long(1 month or so) and I'm scared that if I continue dating him, then I'll lose my virginity. At first it was a straight up ...

Is being a virgin a turn off for guys?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4975 days ago

23 April 2011 (F) - Hi:) I am 18 and a half and I was wondering if guys think that being a virgin is a turn off. Lately my friends tease me, especially my male friends when they find out the truth. One male friend (23y old) even told me that I should get...

My wife was not a virgin

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 4857 days ago

22 April 2011 (M) - Hello, my wife and i have being married for 4 years, i just found out she had a hymen reconstruction, i though we where both virgins now am stuck between a rock and a hard place.. I feel like cheating on her for what she did to me.what do you think ...

Lost virginity equals pain. Help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4987 days ago

21 April 2011 (F) - I recently lost my virginity and I'm sore as hell and bleeding. What would be the best products to use for feminine hygiene until the soreness goes down?...

What to do about decietful wife

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4990 days ago

20 April 2011 (?) - Hi, i hope you guys can help me out. My wife of 5 years has broken my heart with her deciet, when we first started dating she new everything about me, how i wanted to marry a virgin woman with a good personality,kind at heart and honest. I told her ...

It could've been our first time...what should I do in the future?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4994 days ago

20 April 2011 (M) - i'm a 23 years old male,i'm a virgin,i met someone i love and she visited me at my place and spent the night with me,we touched,kissed and got naked,i was very hard during the foreplay and when trying to penetrate her my penis just collapsed in her ...

Questions about sex and virginity......

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4994 days ago

20 April 2011 (F) - is it possible to become a virgin again after losing it? my vargina gets too wet when I am romancing with my man, is it normal?...

Sex for the first time?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4994 days ago

20 April 2011 (F) - I am thinking about having sex for the first time. Does it hurt and can somebody give me details...

I want to relieve the stress in my life by losing my virginity.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4994 days ago

20 April 2011 (F) - I am 14 years old and my parents are always fighting so i think if i loose my virginity it will help me relieve stress. What should i do?...

I'm 13 and dating a 20 year old, my friends are telling me to be cautious. Please help!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4995 days ago

19 April 2011 (F) - Hey everybody.. I want some advice I am dating a 20 year old and I am 13... He is very sweet but I'm still scared because all my friends are telling me to be careful. He said " no matter how long u want to wait to loose ur virginity I will wai...

My fiance says she's a virgin but I'm not sure if she's telling the truth

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4992 days ago

19 April 2011 (M) - Hi, I need your advice. I am a 31 yr old guy. I am a virgin and about about to get engaged to a girl. She is 24. Before getting engaged to her, I want to know if she is a virgin or not. She told me she does not have any boyfriends but the way she ...

Have I lost my virginity? And are birth control pills effective?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4995 days ago

19 April 2011 (F) - how can i get to know whether i have lost my virginity??/is there any symptoms??? 3 days ago me and my boyfriend was engaged sexually and few drops of blood came out from me. im not sure whether i was really went through an intercourse? as the ...

Could 2 virgins get an STD?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4995 days ago

19 April 2011 (F) - Hey everyone. I had a quick question. If two virgins have sex with each other for the first time and they have oral sex and all these other sexual stuff, is there any way you can get an STD? Me and my bf are both virgins and have never done anything ...

Is my boyfriend lying to me? Can you use Facebook chat on your phone?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4982 days ago

18 April 2011 (F) - Can you use the chatting part of facebook on your phone? My boyfriend has his wall hidden from me, i guess. i cant see it, just his photos. i asked him about it and he said it has something to do with the facebook app he has on his iphone. However,...

I lied about NOT being virgin to GF. Should I tell her the truth?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4997 days ago

18 April 2011 (M) - Okay so im deeply in love with this girl for 6months (me 19, she 21) Just in early march we came to the subject of our 'first time' agewise. I felt insecure and said 18, and she said 20. Cool thought that was that... Then late march she asked how ...

I am the Real 40 Year-Old Virgin

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

17 April 2011 (M) - I am a 41 year-old virgin, suffering from social anxiety and isolation disorders and I feel like less of a man and human being because of my total lack of intimacy. How can one regain their sense of self dignity and live a more fulfilling life?...

Masturbatio & Sex Duration worries/troubles

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4997 days ago

17 April 2011 (M) - I am a 27 year old virgin I do watch porn quite a bit too. What I have noticed is that when I masturbate, it takes a few strokes/seconds before I climax, and it is possible for me to do this 4/5 times an hour. Is this normal? If I ever have ...

I've messed up badly, but now I want the guy I can't have..

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4988 days ago

17 April 2011 (F) - I've been married for almost four years now. My husband stopped having sex with me since the first few months of our marriage. Since then, we have sex once or twice (a year), literally. We have a twenty month old (apparently we're both very fertile ...

Want him to think I'm a virgin

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4992 days ago

17 April 2011 (F) - {Moderator note: two questions combined} Okay i just wanna know , i lost my virginity about two year ago since then i havent had sex ,it was against my religion and culture to do that .Im due to get marrid in 2 months will i be tight i know i wont b...

What should I do to be good at sex for the first time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4998 days ago

16 April 2011 (M) - hi i am 18 next month and i am still a virgin. I feel a little insecure about it. I have started going out with this girl who i know quite well. the thing is that she is a few months younger than me basically the year below me in school terms and...

Should I buy my girlfriend, 17, a vibrator to help her discover more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4998 days ago

16 April 2011 (M) - Hello everyone, my best wishes to all who take the time to help. It is appreciated. My girlfriend and I are both 17 and have been experimenting sexually. The problem is she has never masterbated, and doesn't like the idea of doing it with her fing...

Had sex with a guy who has a GF, my ex got mad at me and we broke up; now he wants me back. I want him and also the other guy, who's ready to break up with his GF for me!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4999 days ago

14 April 2011 (F) - Im in a delema... Im deprived between 2 guys and i dont know what to do. It all started with my boyfriend, He was a great boyfriend and so sweet. But hes a virgin, and hes so nervous( which i do think is cute :) )... he always makes me happy, but ...

Do guys respect virgins or non experienced girls?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4999 days ago

13 April 2011 (F) - Is it true that guys actually respect girls who have never had sex or if they haven't done much with a guy? I don't want to sound rude, but i don't believe this. I hear guys talk and surely if some girls are rude about the girls who are virgins, ...

Does it hurt when your cherry is popped?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5000 days ago

13 April 2011 (F) - what are the signs to knowing your cherry (hymen) was popped during intercourse??? is is suppose to hurt? ...

I'm 24, a virgin, sick of it but push everyone away because I'm scared!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4982 days ago

13 April 2011 (F) - I'm tired of being like this. I'm 24 and a virgin. Now that in itself I do not have a problem with, but more the fact that it points to other issues, like how I find it incredibly hard to let a guy get close to me. I push everyone away because I'm ...

Should I wait until marriage?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4997 days ago

12 April 2011 (F) - So I was just sat here having a little think, reading some questions and I had a thought, that maybe I should wait until marriage to have sex. I've been with my boyfriend for almost a year and a half, we haven't done anything particularly sexual, ...

Am I still a virgin? Will I still bleed after sex?

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12 April 2011 (F) - I am a virgin but I often masturbated and i can put one finger inside my vagina..it hurts a little but its ok...well my question is Am i still a virgin? If my boyfriend sex me.. will there be blood after sex? Because most guys believe that the sign ...

Reasons BF gave me for breaking up with me are preposterous. I am heartbroken.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5001 days ago

11 April 2011 (F) - My boyfriend has recently broken up with me. We were in a relationship for more than 4 years, this being the 5th year. (Additional Info:- He was my first ever boyfriend and he said I was his first too. At the beginning we had a wonderful relation...

She'll want sex. How can I show her she is worth more than that?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4913 days ago

11 April 2011 (F) - okay um, where to start... well i've known this girl for about 6 years (we'll call her Chloe) and i've liked her for a good while now. i'd love to have a relationship with her; the problem is she has a reputation for sleeping around and i'm still a ...

He said I was tight. Is that a good thing or a bad thing?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

9 April 2011 (F) - Hello. Basically my problem is that I'm seeing this guy, we're not properly together, but we're very close and we've told each other that we love one another. I'm in my last year of school, I finish all together for study leave in a weeks time, I'...

Fingering really hurts...Is there something wrong with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5002 days ago

9 April 2011 (F) - When my boyfriend fingers me it's so painful I always have to make him stop! I'm a virgin, and I don't use tampons, so I always thought it would hurt alot the first few times, but we've tried it at least 10 times now, and it isn't getting any ...

He says he wants to, but I am afraid I will ruin the relationship if we have sex.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

7 April 2011 (F) - okay, so i've been with my boyfriend for about 3 months now, we've been close friends for about 5 years. I'm the first serious girlfriend he's ever had, even though i've had quite a few boyfriends before him. the thing is... i'm not a virgin, an...

I don't want to lose my virginity to her because she is not a virgin. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

7 April 2011 (M) - Hi I'm a virgin and I've met a girl. shes not a virgin though and she wants my virginity but i don't want to lose my virginity with her as she's not a virgin either what do i do about this? ...

I'm ready but do I want to lose it just yet?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5004 days ago

6 April 2011 (M) - Ok ill try and keep this short. Im a Male of 16 years of age and still in secondary school. In year 7 - 8 I went out with a girl who i really like and to be honest i havent liked anyone as much as i have liked her. I recently found out that she ...

I want to lose my virginity before my next birthday, but there's still no one special in my life.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4968 days ago

6 April 2011 (F) - This is rare nowadays, I know, but I am still a virgin at 31 years old. I've had opportunities to have sex before, but I didn't act on them because I promised I wouldn't have sex with just anyone. I don't regret that promise, but here I am, at 31 ...

I lied. How can I pretend to be good in bed with no experience?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5008 days ago

6 April 2011 (F) - So i've told all my group of friends that i'm not a virgin and they all think i'm good in bed, i've never said i am but for some reason i let off that i am. The thing is theres this one guy in my group of friends who i really like and he likes me, ...

Is there any way our fooling around could have caused pregnancy?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5010 days ago

4 April 2011 (F) - I'm extremely scared, probably freaking out a little too much. But I need help. My boyfriend and I were in his car fooling around this past weekend. Clothes were on. By accident I put my hands on the inside of just the top of his jeans and it felt ...

How do I know if my hymen was broken?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5010 days ago

4 April 2011 (?) - dear cupid, soo, last night, things got a little hott and heavy between me and my boyfriend, and he wound up fingering me. it wasn't the first time he had done that, nor the first time that i had been fingered, but...this time felt kind of dif...

My desire to experience physical love...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4998 days ago

4 April 2011 (F) - I'm facing a dilemma and don't know what to do about this, and could really use some advice! I imagine that some people won't believe me but I'm STILL a virgin at 31 years old. I never explicitly made vows to save sex before marriage, but at...

I want to see the prostitute again.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

3 April 2011 (M) - I lost my virginity to a prostitution and feels like going to it again. Is it safe? But I feel guilty too. Please help me....

What dating avenues would you suggest for a Real 40-Year Old Virgin?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5012 days ago

3 April 2011 (M) - The problem is, I wouldn't even know how to broach the subject with any woman I might be interested in but that doesn't mean I don't want a relationship. Any advice?...