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How do I know if my hymen was broken?

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Question - (4 April 2011) 3 Answers - (Newest, 5 April 2011)
A age 30-35, anonymous writes:

dear cupid,

soo, last night, things got a little hott and heavy between me and my boyfriend, and he wound up fingering me. it wasn't the first time he had done that, nor the first time that i had been fingered, but...this time felt kind of different. like, there was one point where it hurt pretty bad, and burned for a little while after he stopped. then, when i took off my underwear, it looked like there might have been blood on them...but it was more along the lines of brown than red, soo i'm not entirely sure if it was blood or not. really, that's one of my main questions--WAS it blood??? and my other question is, did he break my hymen??? i checked things out down there a little bit (sorry if that sounds gross, but heyy, i got curious...hahaa), and it looked like my hymen was still there, but i'm not entirely sure. how can i tell for sure if it was broken???

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A female reader, person12345 United States +, writes (5 April 2011):

person12345 agony auntHe could have broken your hymen, but rough fingering can also damage the vaginal tissue (with or without fingernails) and make you bleed a little, which I think is more likely since I'm pretty sure he could have felt the hymen break with his fingers.

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A female reader, Ima FreAk!  United Kingdom +, writes (4 April 2011):

Ima FreAk!  agony auntHiyaaaa,

Yhh pretty sure that it might be broken honey or partly broken but it doesn't matter because when you have sex you will know if it's fully broken or not.

If you do have sex and you don't know if your hymen is broken just go slow but it's most likely to be broken because it's really thin.

Don't worry about it have you heard that sometimes sex can hurt first time and bleed? That might of happened to you so its no big deal it's just when you have sex it ain't gonna hurt as bad looooool!

Hope my advice helps!

Good luck!

Lots of love,

Ima FreAk!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2011):

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well, i'm guessing he broke my hymen, because his nails are already just about as short as they can get...lol.

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