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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hello everyone, my best wishes to all who take the time to help. It is appreciated.My girlfriend and I are both 17 and have been experimenting sexually. The problem is she has never masterbated, and doesn't like the idea of doing it with her fingers. She has let me try, but it didn't go too well, and she did not know how to please herself. So i was thinking, should i buy her a small dildo or vibrator to let her learn about what is pleasing to her?Any suggestions, bt the way she is a virginThanks a lot for any responses
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reader, Abella  +, writes (16 April 2011):
 Buying her a dildo or a vibrator is a bit drastic. Because they can be large and thus not comfortable for a virgin.
She may not be comfortable with masterbation yet. In any case she might prefer some hugs from you, more than anything else. And just enjoy talking with you, until she is ready to take things further.
She can be pleasured just as easily without actual insertion of anything.
The clitoris is external and contains far more nerve endings than the inside of the vagina.
The clitoris is outside the vagina. Look at an anatomy drawing and check out more about the clitoris on google.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2011): If you buy her a vibrator or dildo when she is a virgin and you have only just begun experimenting then she may feel as though you're pressuring her. If a girl feels the need to please herself she will try it so perhaps she doesn't feel quite ready for something like that. Give her time and find out what she thinks about the idea before you buy her one because she might not take it well. Good luck
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