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Archived questions from: March, 2008 (see latest in Virginity category)

Virginity: Help and advice

MY boyfriend wishes for me to give him oral.... I'm a virgin and I don't know how to do it...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6020 days ago

31 March 2008 (?) - MY boyfriend wants me to give him oral.... I'm a virgin and I don't know how to do it.... I'm kinda nervous about it... do I swallow or spit..? What exactly do I do? Can you get STD's? Do you use a condom? I don't know. Please help if you can ! ...

She's had more sex experience than me and I'm still a virgin, could we just keep it platonic?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

29 March 2008 (M) - Hi, I'm 17, and I've never really had a proper gf until now. I'm a very innocent virgin, but I've met this girl who's 17 too and I think I'm madly in love. But she has so much sexual experience; long term relationships, casual sex, same-sex se...

I know it's a sin, but I don't care!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5907 days ago

29 March 2008 (F) - Hello. Well, i'm young and I am very very horny..haha..I am a virgin so I like to masturbate alot..It is not secret..I don't care..anyhow. Pornagraphy is a sin..I am Christian and have been raised that its a sin..and it even says so in the ...

I really love him should I lose my virginity with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6078 days ago

29 March 2008 (?) - Hey I'm 15 years old and I have an amazing boyfriend that I really love and I'm thinking of losing my virginity to him soon. I'm kinda nervous for many reasons....STD's.....possible pregnantcy ( i really wudn't mind that though in a way...).....fear ...

I just lost my virginity- it hurt him because I'm really tight- will it get more comfortable?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6044 days ago

27 March 2008 (F) - hey, i lost my virginity two weeks ago. my boyfriend said that i was 'tight' and it hurt him a bit. Anyway, we did it again and although it didnt hurt him this time it still hurt me a bit even though he was gentle and he kept asking me if he wanted ...

I'm a virgin and getting ready to have sex but I'm embarrassed about stretch marks!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6082 days ago

27 March 2008 (F) - Im sixteen years old,and a virgin.I think in the next couple months around summer time my best guy friend and i are going to lose our virginity to each other. He's seventeen. But im very insecure about my body,i have stretch marks on my stomach and ...

I gave him my virginity and now he says he doesn't want to be with the same girl his whole life!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6083 days ago

26 March 2008 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been dating for a really long time. i'm in love with him. seriously in love with him. he told me that he didnt want to be with the same girl for the rest of his life, because we're still young. i dont know what to do. we've ...

I'm ready to have sex but he wants to wait until he's older! What should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6070 days ago

26 March 2008 (F) - Hey, me and my BF have nown each other for about 1 year and 1 month we have been going out for about 6 months and we love each other sooo much... now just to get to the ponit i've felt ready with him for about 2 months and he's only just f...

Does it hurt to lose your virginity?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6052 days ago

26 March 2008 (F) - Does it hurt to lose your virginity? Ladies' opinions, please....

Have I just "spotted" something odd about my penis?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6022 days ago

25 March 2008 (M) - Hey just a quick question really i have two or three really tiny little red dots on the head of my penis, im still a virgin and havent done any oral lately, dont think its much but just thought id check :)...

When you get your "cherry popped" is there a lot of blood?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6058 days ago

25 March 2008 (F) - i am 13 and i didnt get my first period yet, but i want to have sex so when my cherry pops will alot of blood come out because i didnt have my first period yet?...

I am 20 years old and I've never had a boyfriend where did I go wrong?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6084 days ago

24 March 2008 (F) - ok im twenty years old and ive never had a boyfriend. sometimes i feel like such a freak.. i kissed a guy i really liked (when i was 18) but pulled away each time he used tongue because i was afraid to be a bad kisser. im a people person, very ...

Did any of you think about sex so much at 15?...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6084 days ago

23 March 2008 (?) - I'm 15 and I think about sex a lot .... is that bad ? did any of you think about it at this age ??? please tell me your thoughts thanks :) [Added] this is kinda weird to ask but I'm going to try to ask the best way I can . when I'm masturba...

If I have sex with my girlfriend will it feel different from mastrubation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6086 days ago

23 March 2008 (M) - Does a man get the same physical sensations from sexual intercourse as when he masturbates? I ask because my girlfriend wants to start having sex but I'm only used to getting an orgasm on my own doing it my way....

I feel it'd be too cruel to finish the relationship now, as she was a virgin when I met her...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6086 days ago

23 March 2008 (M) - dear cupid.. I have been with my girlfriend for about a month now, we were getting on really well, seeing eachother all the time. Now i feel like i have gone off her, getting bored and texting and im interested in other girls that i meet (in secr...

Sex, the messy details

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5475 days ago

20 March 2008 (M) - I plan on staying a virgin until my wedding night and I hope to marry a virgin. I'm concerned about what our wedding night might be like. This might sound naive but just how messy is sex without a condom. Is there semen everywhere? What about ...

Are you born with STD's? My boyfriend and I just started having unprotected sex...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6089 days ago

19 March 2008 (?) - Are you born with STDs, or do you have to catch them to have one? It's just, me and my boyfriend are each other's firsts, and we've only been with each other. So I'm just checking, you can't be born with them can you? By the way, we don't have un...

Is "Dry Sex" okay? I don't want to get pregnant!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 6030 days ago

19 March 2008 (F) - Im 12 years Old and me and my bf have been dating for 2 years and we want sex i dont want to get pregnant so if we did have sex we would have dry sex would that be ok ??...

Left Wanting More...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6091 days ago

18 March 2008 (F) - Hey :) I broke up with my 2 year boyfriend, whom I lost my virginity to, about two months ago and a month after I started out with another guy. We've been having sex too but I'm quite disappointed, and I know it sounds cruel and it's not the mos...

Is it best to wait forever to lose my virginity with someone important to me or just go for it within the next 6 months...?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6091 days ago

18 March 2008 (F) - I'm 16 I'd like detailed answers to this question please: Is it best to wait forever to lose my virginity with someone important to me and therefore probably never lose it as I am so unattractive, OR just go for it within the next 6 months even...

Deep secret from my past!! Will it effect my future

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6092 days ago

17 March 2008 (F) - I believe i was abused when i was very young by my father. I am still a virgin because I choose to be but I wonder why I am not really interested in having sex. I am scared that what happened when I was little(eventhough I cannot remember it because ...

I'm a virgin but wondering, on average, how frequently do people have sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6093 days ago

16 March 2008 (F) - Hi im asking this totally out of curiosity because its something i've always wondered when reading questions on here about how people don't tink they are having sex enough and everything. I am a virgin so don't get any ideas. Just i know there isn't ...

Should I lose my virginity to him at 14??

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4503 days ago

15 March 2008 (F) - ok I'm a 14 year old girl and there is this black guy I have known for almost a year. He is 14 also. I talk to him some times not alot and he wants to have sex with me. I am a vergin and he I don't think is. Last night I was texting him and he asked ...

Is it a problem that I've had previous sexual partners, but he's only had me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6092 days ago

15 March 2008 (F) - my boyfriend lost his virginity to me, however ive slept with men prior to our relationship. he knows about the men ive slept with, just that it makes him feel uneasy. he told me he has tried to block that out of his mind. does this pose a problem ...

Is it possible for a man to fall in love with the woman he loses his virginity to?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6093 days ago

14 March 2008 (F) - Can men fall in love with the woman they lose their vigrinity to? I've seen it happen with women at a young age, my boyfriend was a virgin and after we started having sex he completely changed and started saying i love you and buying me things. He's ...

I feel like I'm going to be a virgin forever and if I do have sex, he'll just laugh at me!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6092 days ago

14 March 2008 (F) - im 18 a female, i feel im going to be a virgin for ages, i dont want to get to 20 and still be a virgin, although i do value being a virgin but im just frightened i will be one for a long time and when i finally do have sex the bloke will laugh at ...

I feel as though I am virgin again, having a new partner. Any advice? Anyone ever felt this way before?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6095 days ago

14 March 2008 (F) - I've only have had one sex partner and we're not togather anymore. I'm in a relationship now and it's becoming sexual but i'm nervous to have sex with him. He says it's always the first time with someone new. I feel like i'm starting out as a virgin ...

Can men fall in love with the woman they lose their virginity to?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6095 days ago

Should I go to a "Gentleman's Club" to lose my virginity or am I selling myself short?

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 5966 days ago

13 March 2008 (M) - Hey guys, I've been pondering this for a while now, but I'd like to get some outside opinions on this. I'm still a virgin at 20, and quite frankly I'm over it. It hasn't happened yet, I can't see it happening anytime soon, and I just feel bored ...

Does having sex for the first time hurt?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6094 days ago

13 March 2008 (F) - Does Sex For The First Time Hurt? Me and my boyfriend Are both virgins and have been talking about sex for a while now. But im sooo afraid it will hurt! i am not good with pain! i've told him this and he says he doesnt want to rush me. But i...

Tips on how to be more intimate?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6095 days ago

13 March 2008 (F) - Hi I'm Ebony, I'm 15 and I'm a virgin. I've been with my boyfriend now for 2 months, he's the same age, but we've been talking about sex. I don't know if I'm ready or not, I know it's illegal and I know about the STD's and risk of pregnancy etc. I...

I found out we weren't each other's first, we're split up now but I'm upset!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6097 days ago

12 March 2008 (F) - I was with my ex for two years, we've been split though for 8 months now. We had plans to get married eventually, and were each other's firsts sexual experience, or so I thought. I haven't stopped crying over him, and I'm still in love with him even ...

My ex got back with his ex and I'm conflicted about not having contact with him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6096 days ago

12 March 2008 (F) - I know that some people on here have gone through a similar situation and I know it is only likely to get better. I lost my virginity to someone who cheated on me and broke up with him when I found out a few months later. When we encountered each ...

It bothers me that I haven't told my current boyfriend that I lost my virginity to my ex...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6085 days ago

11 March 2008 (F) - I lost my virginity to my ex boyfriend who I later caught cheating on me.. I am now in a new relationship and I haven't told him about sleeping with my ex... He is quite orthodox and I don't think he can live with that... I have been open to him ...

What to do to my body to make the first time special? Paint my toenails? Shave my pubic area?...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6097 days ago

10 March 2008 (F) - Just a question. Planning on sleeping with a guy this weekend and am wondering if theres anything I can do ot my body to make it extra nice? Should I shave my pubic area? Paint my toenails? Wear perfume? Scented body mosturiser?...

Have I lost my virginity yet?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5961 days ago

10 March 2008 (F) - i had physical contact with my boyfriend, he inserted half of his penis inside my vagina and i had a drop of blood come out off.he sometimes puts his finger inside my vagina and after that hes inserts a little of his penis and i am now confused ...

How can I talk to my bf about sex??

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

9 March 2008 (F) - I am 16 and i'm a virgin and my boyfriend is 15. I have, for a while now, been thinking about sex with him. I would feel embarrased talking to him about it. I know that when we've been kissing before on my bed he had an erection and was embarras...

Is it stupid of me to keep my virginity so long??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6093 days ago

9 March 2008 (M) - Hi all, I am writing to this website again because my mind is in a mess right now and need someone to offer me some enlightenment. Today, my ex-girlfriend messages me online and told me she gave her virginity away to another guy. I don't know why...

Would it be a bad idea to lose my virginity to my best friend considering a relationship is impossible due to the long distance?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6095 days ago

9 March 2008 (F) - This might be a strange question, but I don't know who else to ask. I'm a virgin and it's only that way because I have some trust issues and want to lose it to someone that I actually trust and I know - not just some random guy at a party. I am ...

Some ideas on reaching orgasms, increasing low stamina, etc? We are both virgins.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6099 days ago

8 March 2008 (F) - So I just got married, and my husband and I are both virgins... I think that its unneccesary to say that neither of us really knows what the hell to do... Lol, I'm asking for any tips you might have on reaching orgasm, increasing his woefully low ...

How can we make losing our virginities REALLY special?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6083 days ago

7 March 2008 (?) - hey, I've being with my boyfriend now for 11 months, it's our year aniversery in 3 weeks and we are planning on losing our virginities to each other on the date we got together. He is 16 and I am 15, 16 in april, and i think looosing our ...

I lost my virginity on Sunday... could I be pregnant?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6102 days ago

7 March 2008 (F) - After having sex for the first time, I've noticed I'm very damp below and also since yesterday having diarrhoea my mate said I could possibly be pregnant? I'm not sure but we did not use protection and he didn't cum inside me he pulled out before, ...

I'm a virgin, have zero girl experience and live on the net! Will it be different when I start college??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6097 days ago

6 March 2008 (M) - Hey all :) Im and am still a virgin, im a bit a chubby but can easily lose this weight with a bit of excercise which I plan to do for next year(too busy with exams this year)an think im a decent looking guy, but my problem is that I have 0 gi...

I bled after losing my virginity, is this normal?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5393 days ago

6 March 2008 (F) - Hello everyone, I'm not very confident in writing this but really need advice. Anyway hear it goes, I lost my virginity last Friday to my b/f and hardly bled after more like a spot more then anything, then monday again hardly anything, but then ...

It really bothers me that he wasn't honest with me...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6097 days ago

5 March 2008 (F) - Last week the guy that I have been talking to asked me to be his girl friend. Before we started dating he mentioned to me that he was not a virgin but that he has only had sex with 2 and they were both his girlfriends. Over some time I have heard ...

I'm worried that I'll be a virgin for years to come....

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4661 days ago

4 March 2008 (F) - Hey i need some help, I am a 21 year old girl and I'm still a virgin, ok that maybe sounds stupid but it really is a bit of a worry for me. I went out with a guy for over a year but was only 17 and felt I wasn't ready to sleep with him even though I...

I'm I a virgin or not anymore?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5993 days ago

4 March 2008 (F) - Help i know people will think im stupid for doing it but last nite me and b/f where doing stuff,and after when he was inside me he said he thought i was a virgin which i was at the time but never told him, Anyway when he was going further in it di...

Am I selfish not to agree to wait?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6093 days ago

3 March 2008 (F) - My bf and I have been dating for over a year now. We've never had sex before. But we have gone passed 3rd base. I've been wanting to have sex but he's against it. Wanting to save it until after marriage. I can see why he wants to wait but sometimes ...

I'm afraid if we have sex our friendship might never get back to the way it is, any advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6093 days ago

1 March 2008 (F) - A ton of guys that i know have been pressuring me to have sex with them. I went along with it at first thinking the were kidding, but nows its obvious they weren't. I want to have sex, and i know who I want to lose my virginity to. I want to do it ...