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writes: I'm 15 and I think about sex a lot .... is that bad ? did any of you think about it at this age ???please tell me your thoughts thanks :)[Added]this is kinda weird to ask but I'm going to try to ask the best way I can . when I'm masturbating I don't cum or atleast I don't think I do ..... what am I doing wrong ? Am I supposed to ....? like I said this is hard for me to ask so I need some honest answers ..... thank you in advance . Reply to this Question
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reader, lezlie  +, writes (25 March 2008):
hi,im a 17 year old female and i still think about sex a lot!in fact its an important foundation of all my relationships..(with guys)..if theres no chemistry there then it doesnt work for me...anyway which is totaly off the point!!
after you hit around 14 or 15 yes your mind does become occupied with sexual thoughts,extremely normal i promise you..
and to answer the other question,it depends on where you touch,fast or slow..pay no attention to porn vids,or the fact that most of them pornstars 'squirt'..
just enjoy the pleasure in the moment dont think about when your going to climax..trust me it will then cum easy!(excuse the pun..)
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2008): NORMAL!!!!!!!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2008): You are aware of the purpose of PUBERTY are you not?
Basically your body is throwing out sex hormones left, right and centre... all to change your body and get it ready ti have the babies.
So it makes you wanna have sex cause that is how the body makes the aformentioned babies and keeps the species going.
I suggest paying attention in sex ed next time, kid.
Flynn 24
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2008): The thoughts of sex and the fantasies continue for a LONG time after 15. It is really not unusual to day dream about it a lot, especially at age 15.
There really is no wrong way to masturbate; as long as it is pleasurable for you, you're doing it right. Don't expect a huge rush or 'squirt' of liquid as that rarely happens. When you 'cum' or orgasm, you will probably feel a peaking of your pleasure, and a wave of intense pleasurable sensations. You may get very wet, though. Afterwards, your pleasure will subside to a low-plateau of sensations (most likely), and you might feel relaxed, sleepy, or euphoric (kinda high).
That, however, is not always the case. Everyone is different. Practice makes perfect!!
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reader, ShouldKnowBetter  +, writes (23 March 2008):
yes, it is normal to think about sex a lot. Everyone has their own sex drive levels and some are never very high and others are high all the time from puberty to their grave. I echo what has said before about being sensible.The thing with sex (with others or on your own) is to enjoy it... if it feels good then do it, if it doesnt then doesnt. You dont have to have the worlds best orgasm every time to actually enjoy the activity. When you do become active with others, some of the most enjoyable sex can be when there is minimal physical pleasure for you.
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (23 March 2008):
 Pretty much, yeah. Don't worry about it, it is hormones. Just don't let it control your life or lead you to do stupid things. Offcourse I am male, but from observations of girls your age back then, yeah, girls your age have sex on the mind as well.
http://www.letsmasturbate.com/women/index.shtml
A lot of tips, surely one of them should do it for you.
Although apparently women are sometimes slower then men and just not ready yet at your age. Don't worry, it will all sort itself out. Growing up ain't a race.
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