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30-35,
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writes:Hey all :)Im and am still a virgin, im a bit a chubby but can easily lose this weight with a bit of excercise which I plan to do for next year(too busy with exams this year)an think im a decent looking guy, but my problem is that I have 0 girl experience..I mean I kissed a girl when I was 13 but have not been in a relationship or anything thing close in 4 YEARS!!This is mainly because of the people I hung around with, we all played sports all day and never really associated with girls. 2 years ago I fell out with them and now I have no friends...yes I live on the internet : /I have gone to a few party but all the girls there had boyfriends..and I feel a bit depressed by this, its not so much losing my virginity but I just need to connect with a female on a different level other than casual talk...I love music(im a bedroom DJ)and am wondering if things will be different in college, like meeting girls? remember I have no girl experience : /
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reader, thatgothgirl20  +, writes (13 March 2008):
 It will be different if you go out and go to different social events. If you just stay in your dorm room, it'll be pretty much the same except for classes that you will have with females.
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (6 March 2008):
 Girl experience doesn't really matter, in my opinion, although you do need to be confident. College will certainly help, because of "exposure." You need to be around girls every chance you get. Take at least some classes that girls are taking. Go places where they go. Mix with them. Be funny, but also be very sure of yourself. Take pride in whatever you do, or whatever you are good at, and let it show. There's more to it, and you will learn, but one more thing: Always look a girl in her eyes when you speak with them. Look them nicely in the eyes when you approach them, even in passing, at least until they look away. Learn to "smile" with your eyes. Your day will come.
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