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writes: Hey I'm 15 years old and I have an amazing boyfriend that I really love and I'm thinking of losing my virginity to him soon. I'm kinda nervous for many reasons....STD's.....possible pregnantcy ( i really wudn't mind that though in a way...).....fear of my parents finding out and fear of not living up to what he needs....He's not a virgin though but that's the past and he loves me and I love him .... My question is should I give it up to him or wait ......? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2008): Wait!! If he loves you, he can wait too!
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reader, xapathyxrebornx  +, writes (30 March 2008):
 if you love him go ahead with it but maybe wait until your 16 so its legal? cause if you love him you dont want him in trouble right? x
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2008): Erm, you're fifteen. If anything happens, like you get found out, he gets into trouble, not you. Even if you dont get pregnant. He'll still get into trouble. And you're too young for something as big as sex, don't you think?
If you two really love each other, then wait. Till marriage if possible. Sex is a wonderful thing I believe, and surely you don't want to taint it with a broken marriage or a bf in jail, eh?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2008): Honestly hon, I don't think you should lose your virginity to him because teenage boys are not forever..If you are going to lose your virginity I think you should wait until you are sure that the boy is sure..and at our ages, the guys are never sure..You may be sure...but young guys are just young and horny.. I am 17, and im STILL a virgin by choice..ive had boyfriends..but im not gona give it up quickly...I dont think you should do...I'm still waiting for marriage..it makes it way better and sacred...Arent tehre other things yall can do without having sex..I think its dangerous..at that age anyways..
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reader, The_CityGirl  +, writes (29 March 2008):
 Consider the consequences. If you got pregnant at the age of 15 would you be able to support your baby? Would you be able to finish high school or go onto college? Even if you did get pregnant, that doesn't necessarily mean that he'll always be with you. I think that you should wait. Give it time and let the relationship blossom in other ways. If you wait longer, your love will grow stronger, and you'll know he truly loves you for who you are. Please wait, my dear.
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