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I'm a virgin and getting ready to have sex but I'm embarrassed about stretch marks!

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Question - (27 March 2008) 7 Answers - (Newest, 27 March 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, *lliehoff writes:

Im sixteen years old,and a virgin.I think in the next couple months around summer time my best guy friend and i are going to lose our virginity to each other. He's seventeen. But im very insecure about my body,i have stretch marks on my stomach and sides,they're not that bad or noticable.but they are noticable.Im scared he'll think Im gross. I know we probably won't fall in love like high school sweethearts, but he is the one i want to give it to. He means alot to me. Im gonna go tanning to help fade them, but to get to the point i want to know what guys think about stretch marks. thanks.xxoo

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A female reader, kassie United States +, writes (27 March 2008):

kassie agony aunthoney you shouldn't worry about it i have stretch marks on my thighs and trust me men do not care.i was nervous too bcuz i had stretch marks but my boyfriend at that time told me i was beautiful and that he dosen't care about that.so i hope your dude tells you that, GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2008):

I do not see a problem if you just do your exercises frequently. Besides, you would be very fluffy for your dearest bf. Have a great time together!

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A female reader, lilmizzbaybehh United Kingdom +, writes (27 March 2008):

hello, dont worry about the strechmarks hunni EVERY1 gets them i have them on my legs but i always think to myself well if sum1 dusnt like me the way i am den i dnt like them the way they are pretending to be, personally i think aslong as you are comfortable with with guy and feel he will all ways be a true friend and that you are ready to have sex then nobody can stand in the way but like i said only if your comfortable about it.

take care xx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2008):

Are you sure you're ready to give your virginity up, I believe that stretch marks should be the least bit of your worries.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2008):

Your to young to have sex. When you do have sex you should be in a long term relationship and realy care about that person.The first time should be special. Don't just give it up to anyone.Remember that you can only give your virginity one time so don't regret it. I regret my first time and i'm 24 years old. I wish I would have waited for marriage. As for your stretch marks if the person your sleeping with loves you he will not be bothered by it.You should not be so hard on yourself everyone gets stretch marks your so young thier probly from growing and they fade over time. Just wait till your older and have children. Haha. If you don't take my advice on waiting on sex please be sure to use protection your to young for children and you don't want any std's.Read up on safe sex also but I hope you take my advice,Honey it will be over before it begain and you'll say that's it. At you age and his it will probly take five min.Oh hell who am I kidding it dose for adults as well. In th heat of the moment please stop and think. Hope all goes well.

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A female reader, Milette United States +, writes (27 March 2008):

Are you sure you're ready to give your virginity up, I believe that stretch marks should be the least bit of your worries.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2008):

If YOU can't notice them how will he?

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