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Archived questions from: February, 2010 (see latest in Trust issues category)

Trust issues: Help and advice

My girlfriend's past bothers me so much, and I think it might affect our relationship!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3773 days ago

28 February 2010 (M) - My girlfriend is the best girlfriend I have had and think I ever will have, but it's just her past that keeps bugging me! See, my girlfriend 15 and lost her virginity at 12 to a 13 year old boy who she no longer speaks to. She said they did it b...

He's shy -- how do I get him to open up?

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28 February 2010 (F) - So my boyfriend and I have been dating since February 5th and we don't know too much about each other, its like we haven't made too much progress. I know we both really like each other but whenever we are on the phone we usually don't talk. I told ...

My boyfriend keeps getting raunchy pics of a girl he doesn't know. But won't tell her to stop. Am I being controlling?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5384 days ago

28 February 2010 (F) - My boyfriend is 18 and we been together for 8 months now and it's the longest relationship he's had. But there's this girl who he doesn't know who she is but texts him. And she sent him a picture and in the picture she took with her cell and she was ...

My girlfriend accused me of cheating while she went off to a club with another man

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5384 days ago

28 February 2010 (?) - I was late to meet my girl. I fell asleep on the recliner, as it happens. She was convinced I was off with some other woman. No lie. I talked her down from that for over 2 hours or so of patient painstaking work, then she revealed something to ...

Jaded from past relationships and afraid to trust a great new guy

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5384 days ago

28 February 2010 (F) - I need some opinions on this: I have been single for 2 years after a series of really bad relationships and a lot of bad choices. I feel like i am finally getting my life back on track. The thing is I met this guy who is really sweet and kind, a ...

My boyfriend has other girls listed as 'my baby'. He said it means nothing.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

28 February 2010 (F) - What do you do if you asked your new boyfriend about him having girls number under my baby that isnt you and his reply was that it doesnt mean anything to him?...

My best friend has told people she never thought of me as a boyfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5384 days ago

28 February 2010 (M) - She already told other people that she never thought of me that way. I can talk to her about any and everything. We both consider each other our closest friends. This is the strongest i've EVER felt about a girl, and i think i love her. Should i ...

Uh oh, I have a boyfriend but think I am in love with my best girl friend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

28 February 2010 (F) - I think I'm in love with my bestfriend. I have a boyfriend of almost two years and I am very confused. She often teases me saying she is gonna rape me and other stuff but I'm not shore if she is flirting or not. She calls me boo baby tells me she ...

My wife wont share all my sexual fantasies and called me a bully

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5384 days ago

28 February 2010 (M) - My wife and I have been married for over 20 years. Sex life has been a bit hit and miss down through the years, mostly due to her low sex drive. Leading up to Christmas, we'd been arguing a bit and hadn't had sex for about 6 weeks. The argue...

Why do I keep liking a guy who is mean to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5384 days ago

28 February 2010 (F) - How do I tell a guy I don't want to see him again (nicely)? I met a guy I really fancied through a dating site approximate 8 months ago. We went on a few dates, but it didn't get serious and he subsequently told me he was too busy for a relat...

Will my ex ever realise True Love isnt the same as Being in Love

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28 February 2010 (F) - I have an ex who I loved very much. He feels the same about me in a way. But we differ on one thing. I rarely if ever just fall in love instantaneously, but he is different. I do not necessarily trust the feeling of being in love. He can only be ...

I feel like the only reason he stays with me is because he feels he owes me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5384 days ago

28 February 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been together 2 and a half years. we always been one of the closest couples you can meet. the last few months he doesn't seem to talk to me as much or want to be around me, almost as if he's fallen out of love with me. o...

I'm ready to have sex with my boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5384 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - Hey ppl so ive been dating this guy and well we had never had sex im a virgin and well i think its time to please him can u guys give me some tips to please him mostly with my boobs :) -thanks...

He has a girlfriend but gets jealous when my friends give me a hug

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - I've posted questions before and my love life is still complicated. im sorry if this is long... A guy and i have been talking for a while. I've stated this in my recent questions also. Even though he is in a relationship he still tells me he love...

Before you all roll your eyes, I love my teacher like a father

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - You all are probably so bored of hearing this topic! I am in love with my teacher! But before you Scream out in anger, its not in the way you think. A teacher at my school who has been here for about a year and a half maybe two years, taught ...

I am 13 and confused about love and relationships

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5384 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - Im sorry that it's long but my life is confusing.. So i like this guy in my school and he likes me back. I've known him from 4th grade and he's liked me since 6th. A while back in January while i dated my current ex-Boyfriend for the 7th...

How come when I do sexy stuff he doesn't get an erection?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - I love my boyfriend very much , and he loves me. So when I try to do sexy things for him , or sit on his , lap or kiss him , he doesn't get a boner , or anything. Is this normal ? Does he still find me attractive ? What to do ??? =(...

I have two men in my life, how do I choose which one?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - I am a 30 year old attractive and smart female. I was a former Ford model in teens and early 20’s, and after graduating college, I am currently a VP in pharmaceutical sales. How do I choose? Here’s some background on the men. Guy #1--We’ve ...

It's unfair, I've been left and he has moved on

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5384 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - I used to go out with this guy just over a year ago. We went out for about 2 years, but it got to the stage where we were on and off for about 3 times. It was always him ending it and me taking him back. We were so close though, I tried to be ...

To top off a very bad day I think my relationship is over

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5377 days ago

27 February 2010 (M) - Hi guys, I've not had a good day. Yesterday I went for an interview to apply for a 3rd year at university. My day started a 7am, from there I had to pick up all my friends who had an interview that day, take my girlfriend home, catch a boat in ...

Dating for two years and now having to take a backseat

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27 February 2010 (F) - I have been dating this guy for two years and now all of a sudden he got his daughter living with him and don't want a serious relationship he wants to be single again but yet he tells you that he loves you but not in love with you but on the other ...

On top of crying all over the Twilight series I am in love with my teacher

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5377 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - I've been depressed for i while i think. I don't really see anything interesting or the point of life anymore. Things i used to enjoy i don't now and my friends who used to be like family to me i now look at like their just people who i talk to. I ...

Should I protect other women from him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - I let my self get used, played, hurt by this man. This man picks women that have sworn off men for years and gets them to fall for him. He has a way to make you want to believe him. When you show any distrust he'll tell you its because of the way ...

We broke up, then got back together after he cheated, but I don't feel the same about him.

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27 February 2010 (F) - Okay, Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 5 months. i used too LOVE him with all my heart, at the very beginning of our relationship i cheated on him multiple times , But i never told him, then 4 months later, we started having problems, i ...

He tried to force himself on me. Am I over-reacting?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4332 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - I've been going out with this guy for a few weeks. he was really nice, opened doors for me, said sweet things, and seemed real cool. He seemed patient, didn't mind spending time with my family, and was real smart. he was older than me and seemed so ...

I don't know if he is playing mind games or not!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5384 days ago

27 February 2010 (?) - basically i met this guy in july.hers a description i found which basically sums him up because writing the whole story would be tooo long The first few weeks or month is sheer bliss. This guy starts off real aggressive, hot and heavy. He can't ...

I like my brother's friend so my brother stopped me seeing him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5385 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - ok so i like my brothers friend and he likes me he told my brother and now my brother dosent let me see him and im 16 and hes 18 and if my dad found out he would be pritty mad and i cant stop thinking about him i dont know what to do any help??...

My boyfriend is studying too hard, how can I get him to talk dirty to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - i m in a comitted relationship.well my bf is a bit frustated because his parents constantly scold him.the reason is bad performance in acaedemics.stdying hard,as well as devoting a bit time to me.but i am bit sad because he has lost interst in ...

I am starting to think is it my fault by boyfriend becomes abusive when drunk

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I are both 24. the thing is he is quite horrible to me when he's drunk. I don't really like to drink, but he'll have a drink of vodka in the house every weekend. I don't know what it is but we really don't get on when he's drunk. ...

I am "too large" for my girlfriend

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5382 days ago

27 February 2010 (M) - Alright, well I have a pretty large penis. About 7" and over 3" thick. I never had an issue with my penis size until now. I am seeing a girl that I really like. So far the sex has been amazing, but the other night we did it "doggie-style", and after ...

My mother says I am sending the wrong message by giving a gift

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - ok, my mom said it means u like a guy when you give him a birthday present and he's not your boy-friend?? is that true? im 15 he's turning 17 and she wont let me give my guy friend a birthday present. i dont think it is true neither do other people ...

I don't want to be romantic with a boy who likes me, I just want to get dirty with him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - So this boy likes me but I think I just like him because I want someone to make out with and have fun with. I've known this boy since middle school and he liked me in middle school too but I NEVER even thought of liking him. Now we're in hi...

How can I make my boyfriend realize my worth?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5384 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - i've been in a long distance relationship for seven months now.my boyfriend and me both love each other a lot.of late, he has started taking less interest in me, he even lied to me once but i forgave him.we even broke up once but patched up within ...

Three years on and he is giving me mixed signals ...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5386 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - Please help. My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 3 years now. About 6 months into dating he told me he was moving to NY. I was devestated but told him I would rather have him leave than to stay and resent me. He told me that I was more ...

I do have feelings for her but the situation is too complicated

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

27 February 2010 (M) - Hello, I have a lady friend that I have been cool with for awhile now. We had sex about about a month ago. At the same time I had a female that I was talking to nothing serious at all. Before this happened my lady friend was trying to work t...

We were getting on great until I told him I have kids

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5382 days ago

27 February 2010 (?) - Ok, this is another situation that I'm starting to have. Its kinda related to my previous experience with me and a married man. About 8 months ago I met another man that started working with us. We immediately got attracted to each other just by ...

How can I let my guy friend know I like him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - Alright, so I'm friends with this guy and I'm starting to like him.. He's nice and has a great sense of humor, he has respect for women and he's just a wonderful trustworthy guy. I know he would never do anything to hurt me and I just want to be ...

I don't know how to act when I am romatically interested in people

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5385 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - Hi, I'm currently having issues with relationships because I become romantically interested in people, but I don't know how to react physically. I don't crave sex or intimacy though i think it's nice. The problem is that I'm not used to it, so it ...

I think a friend has nude picture of my wife!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

27 February 2010 (M) - How do I go about asking a friend if he has nude pictures of my wife? I have reason to believe he does, as he alluded to it once years ago. They would have been made years ago when she was younger by an old boyfriend {not the guy with the pictures). ...

I'm pregnant and worried my lack of sex drive will force hubbie to see it elsewhere

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - Im 36 weeks pregnan and sex has become a bit painful and uncomfortable for me and i no longer enjoy it. My husband realizes this and hasmade it a point to refrain from kissing and touching too much so that he doesn't crave sex altthough we still ...

There is no joy in my life

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5357 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - I feel my family life is driving me crazy. I have such a dysfunction in my family,that is almost hard to believe it. My husband works all the time and my grown kids are in trouble all the time. We have no intimacy, fun or joy in our life. My ...

It's been two months I called and told him I was breaking up with him. How come he hasn't called me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - What should I do now that my boyfriend of almost 7 years is not picking up my phone calls/returning them after I told him I called to break up 2 months ago. After I mentioned breaking up and hesitated, he took it literally and didn't call me back ...

My husband has cheated on me, how do I get over this and forgive him?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - Hi Aunts and Uncles, I have been married over 30 years and recently found that my husband has had at least 2 'emotional' affairs (which he admits to and swears they were no more than that???). This has DEVASTATED me. Question is what do I do...

I've watched her cry after bad relationships, I've told her how much I love her and yet she still wont give me a chance

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

27 February 2010 (M) - I have been asking out the same girl for the past 4 years and she has turned me down every single time I have watched her cry coming out of the relationships she's been through and i'm afraid that she's going to be hurt by the wrong guy I ain't ...

I think he is telling lies and is with another woman

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - OK it's this guy I Been seeing for like two months but knew him for about 3 years we live in the same building the time was never right for us to hook up until like 2 months ago he is 40 and I am 28 we spend ever night together and he haven't ask me ...

My ex is getting into deep waters, should I talk to him or his family?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - Hello, I broke up with my boyfriend about 2 months ago. I've been trying to call him a few times and left messages but he hasn't returned or picked up the phone when I called. He's a smart man and I've known him for more than 6 years now. He's ...

We are meant to keep things casual but I am having feelings for him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - Well i've been seeing this guy for nearly 6 months and in the beginning we agreed to keep things casual but in the past couple of months i've started to have feelings for him but i haven't told him this. He has said that what we have is just a fling ...

Different Race or Religion, what would your family do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 years and his family doesn't know about me yet. We live in different states, but we lived together for about a year though. He's 18, so he's legal. We are still soo in love. He wants to tell them about me, ...

Sex before marriage Part II

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - I recently asked a question about being intimate with my boyfriend, but keeping my virginity at the same time (http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-want-to-keep-my-virginity-until-i.html)and got a lot of really insightful responses. (Thanks 2 all who ...

Should I just sit and wait and see what happens?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5385 days ago

26 February 2010 (F) - I have never been so happy today as I was. I have known my guy friend for two years now. We can’t stop this thing we started. He has always seemed like he liked me some days and other times he didn’t. I was really confused and everything I tried to ...