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Archived questions from: July, 2019 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

How can I deal with my conservative- verbally abusive living situation?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1930 days ago

31 July 2019 (F) - How can I navigate my abusive living situation? Background - I grew up in a conservative home ( think our current state of the union remarks) is here my parents care about money- materials and how good their daughters looks and well educated...

Did he lead me on or am I just stupid?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1930 days ago

31 July 2019 (F) - I've posted numerous times before anonymously. Long story short - my ex and I work together. Friends first then started dating which was perfect...he told me he had a stronger bond with me than he'd ever had before with anyone, after three mont...

My other half gets angry in his sleep

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1667 days ago

30 July 2019 (F) - My other half gets angry in his sleep. He will turn to me, shout and swear. It happens around the time he feels anxious and he has a loss of libido. He cant pin point why he's anxious though. He's suffered from depression in the past a...

A guy keeps coming back when he doesn't want a relationship.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1932 days ago

30 July 2019 (F) - My ex and met online game site 3 years and we hit it off. However, after 5 months he broke it off because he felt like we don’t live within reasonable distance to support a relationship. We live 5 hours away from each other of driving distance. We ...

Do I have to invite this person to my party?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1928 days ago

29 July 2019 (M) - I'm having a birthday party soon.I have to restrict numbers because of budget. Some of the people coming are frinds of my gf- I've been with her for 10 years. There's one particular guy I can't stand. He often makes digs at me, and although never d...

Weed consumes his whole life

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 1930 days ago

27 July 2019 (F) - Hi I’ve got a problem hopefully you can help me with my partner is a heavy weed smoker this drives me mad when we first met he had the odd joint now and again fast forward to 6 years later and he spends hundreds on it each month never has any money ...

He said he had been celibate but after we had sex he told me he had herpes.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1936 days ago

26 July 2019 (F) - I'm so afraid right now.Here's a summary of what happened. I recently connected with my ex and we attempted to be intimate but he could not become aroused,he said it was because he was nervous and that he hadn't had sex in 4 years. I found it really ...

What are the chances they are having an emotional affair?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1935 days ago

25 July 2019 (F) - We purchased a home for my son and his fiancée and their daughter with his trust. We have been renovating the home to have it ready for them by August . I noticed my husband becoming more and more distant and him working different hours than he ...

My girlfriend's hoarder sist.er wont move out

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1935 days ago

25 July 2019 (F) - My girlfriends sister (41) will not move out! My girlfriend (28) and I (27) have been together for about three years...for most of that we have lived together. The first year my girlfriend rented and I moved in with her and not long after her s...

A girl I like has told me she might get back with her ex, should I tell her again, how I feel?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1936 days ago

25 July 2019 (M) - I met a girl who at that time told me that she is still not over her ex boyfriend and wanted to take it as friends for the time being if that is acceptable with me. She seemed cool and I was okay with that at that point. We started as friends and ...

Why are these 2 men acting this way to me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1936 days ago

24 July 2019 (F) - Here's the sitch: I work at a large department store. Associates flirt and date constantly, so there's no stigma about it where I work. I had an eye contact flirtation going on for awhile with a security guy(B). He'd always do his rounds to pu...

My husband is abusive, where do I go from here?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1937 days ago

23 July 2019 (F) - I've been agonizing this for a while now. I love my husband more than I've loved any other man, and I see so much good in him, but is he abusive? He's never hit me. I don't think he would ever hit me, but he's really quick to anger. This is really ...

How can I get my partner to be a better parent?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1937 days ago

23 July 2019 (F) - Hi I’ve been with my fiancé for 8 years we have a 4 year old daughter I have a 11 year old daughter from a previous relationship the problem is not a very good father he has never done any night Feeds or changed a nappy when she was a baby I have ...

5 months into our relationship and partner is dragging his feet filing for divorce from wife.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1936 days ago

23 July 2019 (F) - A guy I've known over the years went through a split up with his wife. He was staying at my brothers house but it was crowded there so i told him he could stay with me. I just so happened to be searching for a roommate to help out. It wasn't long ...

Fiance won't end things with emotional affair woman

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1939 days ago

23 July 2019 (F) - My fiance and I are going through a rough patch. He recently sat me down and told me that there's something he needs to tell me. He told me that for the past three months, he had been texting with a woman from work. He said that although they ...

My relationship is good, except for the sex.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1937 days ago

23 July 2019 (F) - Hello. I am in a relationship with a guy for 4 months now. He is a really nice person. We always connect on so many levels. He loves me and i love him too. He understands me and supports me. He is like a backbone. He is very romantic and very loyal ...

My boyfriend is repulsing me.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1858 days ago

22 July 2019 (F) - This is going to sound really bad, but i am starting to get really repulsed by my bf. We broke up breifly this yr n got bk together for the kids but i still feel the same. I see him like a friend, no spark, nothing in common anymore and i honestly ...

My Baby Daddy never follows through on promises, how can I make him happy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1935 days ago

22 July 2019 (F) - I have been with my baby Daddy boyfriend for almost two years. I have stayed with him when he was unemployed for 6 months, quit jobs and been broke. I have worked full time even when I was pregnant. We split up for two weeks because I finally ...

I'm single and pregnant, despite complications with the baby the father doesn't want to know about us.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 1936 days ago

21 July 2019 (F) - So I was dating a guy for 2 months, going really well then he ended the relationship due to the fact he didn't like the fact I have children, 3 weeks later I found out I was pregnant with his child, (implant broke) he said when he found out he ...

I'm off to a spa weekend by myself, my boyfriend didn't want to come and he wants to stop me going too!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1940 days ago

21 July 2019 (F) - I have booked myself a spa break in a classy hotel as a treat and my boyfriend is saying its a dodgy place to go in a hot tub with strangers in a bikini for a woman. He kept saying men could try and chat me up. I don't understand this Im going ...

He quickly gives offers of help but wont do paid work for me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1940 days ago

20 July 2019 (F) - I became friendly with a guy who did work for me. We became friends on facebook so I suppose lost the trader/customer boundary. However he has let me down a few times now but if I have posted about needing something ie a code checker for my car or ...

The first guy I loved is moving to another continent

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1667 days ago

20 July 2019 (F) - Hey guys. So, something has happened that has me so sad. I met this guy back in 2016, and I haven’t seen him for over a year. The last time we saw each other we had a fight and he unfollowed me on Instagram and I deleted him from Facebook. Haven’t ...

My girlfriend constantly complains about her weight but wont do anything about it!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 1934 days ago

20 July 2019 (M) - How do I deal with my gf complaining about her weight. I used to pressure her to keep an eye in her weight but she loves eating junk. I gave up about 3-4 years ago as we went from size 10 to 16. She is adamant it’s because it’s certain parts an...

Emotionally abusive friendship is there a way out ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1940 days ago

19 July 2019 (F) - I'm in an emotionally abusive friendship with another girl, we have been friends for many years. Its so hard to let go because when we get along its like the best friendship ever, we connect she totally understands and supports me, and vica versa, ...

Married to a selfish man but I love him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1940 days ago

19 July 2019 (F) - How do i stop caring about what my husband thinks of me!? Hes a very selfish person and i think i made a miatake marrying him. I cant leave because i love him but it doesnt feel like he loves me the same...

I can't talk to my boyfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1942 days ago

17 July 2019 (F) - Hello, thanks for your advice My husband and I have been together for 3 years. There are things that he does that bother me. When I try to tell him to please take my feelings into consideration he tells me I'm bring controlling and he will neve...

Our 6 year relationship is boring I'm fed up and don't know what to do about it!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1944 days ago

16 July 2019 (F) - What do you do when your bored in a relationship I’ve been with my partner for 6 and a half years but the relationship is so boring I’ve ended it twice with him but he begs me to stay and things will change and so on but it never does he works 7 ...

How can I make my boyfriend realize how awful he's been to me?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 1945 days ago

14 July 2019 (F) - My boyfriend has been horrible to me lately and I'm really upset that he doesn't feel bad for treating me the way he has. Last week he asked me to book a last minute holiday, I don't know why he couldn't do it himself but just text me his card...

I've really had enough of my lazy partner

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1947 days ago

13 July 2019 (F) - Hi what do you do when your partner is so lazy we both work he is a labourer and I am a carer we’ve been together for 5 years we have a 3 year old son I came home from work this afternoon been up since 5am came home hoovered the house dusted ...

Do I just have to put up with him staring at other women?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 1947 days ago

12 July 2019 (F) - Hey everyone I’m in.a relationship for 6 years now my boyfriend has always stared at women in front of me for the first couple of years it really upset me then he stopped but now I have caught him loads of times doing it he nearly put his neck out ...

I made him wait for me thinking someday we would be together. He is now dating another woman but we love each other

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1948 days ago

11 July 2019 (F) - I met this guy a year ago.He turned out to be from my old school in my homecountry before the war occured, but we just never met although he was infront of me the whole time. We both lived a traumatizing war, but the effects of it made him become ...

My dad's partner is a gold digger and I'm afraid if he marries her our relationship will be done

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1947 days ago

11 July 2019 (F) - Dear cupid. I (26) have been struggling a lot lately with a few things and here it is... My father cheated on my mother in 2011 (there were previous times when I was little), then my grandma passed away in 2015 and from then she became an alch...

How do I succeed in getting a job and moving out of my parents home?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1949 days ago

11 July 2019 (F) - Hello, my question is this: how do I succeed in getting a job and moving out of my parents home? When I was in high school, I wanted to get a part-time job and start driving lessons so I continued onto community college (I rode the bus each day...

I can’t seem to break this loneliness/unhappy spell

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1950 days ago

11 July 2019 (F) - Can I ever be happy? I have tried to find happiness in many things but I can’t seem to be content and I’m not sure why I am this way? I grew up in an Eastern European home so my parents always were neglectful on my feelings and just neurotic and ...

Why is my mum acting this way? Does she not like my boyfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1947 days ago

10 July 2019 (F) - Hi everyone - I was just wondering if anyone could help me solve some family issues which I think are regarding my current partner. I have been with my boyfriend for a year and we are very happy. He basically has moved in with me (it sort of just...

Should I believe my married man?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1950 days ago

10 July 2019 (F) - Just decided to break up with my MM after over 12 years We had a lot of ups and downs as well I just got to the point now where I had enough He tells me i’m the love of his life the woman he loves with all his heart , but that there is no way ...

My boyfriend is being really distant and cold.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1415 days ago

8 July 2019 (F) - My boyfriend is being really distant and cold. We’ve been together 8 months. He is currently depressed because his ex hasn’t allowed him to see his child. This has been going on for 3 weeks. We never even spoke for the first week - he often shuts ...

She's married we had an affair ended things but is it really over?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1727 days ago

8 July 2019 (M) - The girl I feel in love with is 6 years younger than me. We were best friends before anything. i had been in two different relationships and we would discuss and vent to one another. She also had a bf at the time. We were best friends. ...

He said he'd like to be friends and then blocked me. Why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1910 days ago

8 July 2019 (F) - Dear Cupid, A couple of months ago I was dating a separated man going through a divorce. He had moved back to his hometown and was setting into his new life with new job etc. I'd also recently gone through a break up. It went really well to be...

Our wedding venue and honeymoon for next year are booked but our relationship is a disaster, my boyfriend refuses therapy and I feel unloved, unwanted, sad and totally lost

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1954 days ago

7 July 2019 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for over 7 years, and for 5 of those years we lived together. We had our fair share of arguments but otherwise have had a pretty stable relationship. He proposed last year and we're due to be married in ...

How do I ask our friend to take the photos of us and our home off Instagram and not sound angry?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1952 days ago

7 July 2019 (F) - I don't want to make a big deal out of this... and... thanx for your help :) I'm a private person and I don't use social networks. My husband doesn't use them either. Unlike me, he really hates them, I just do not like them. Recently a frie...

I Havent Heard From My Boyfriend In Two Days After A Fight Concerning Commitment/Marriage. Should I contact him or give him his space?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1954 days ago

7 July 2019 (F) - Hello everyone Bf and I have been dating for three years now. For the most part, we have a very solid relationship. We agree on most salient things and enjoy laughing with each other. We have even considered moving in with one another, somethin...

We lost out on a house because my husband won't stand up to his sister

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1954 days ago

7 July 2019 (F) - He would not stand up for us and we lost a house we were to move in in September. My husband is very afraid of his oldest sister he thinks whatever she says is right I am so mad at him I have not spoke to him for the last 3 days and do not know ...

Boyfriend treats his dog better than us!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1951 days ago

6 July 2019 (F) - Hi this may sound like a stupid question but it’s really affecting our relationship I met my boyfriend 6 years ago he had a dog a Doberman after 2 year of being together he moved in with the dog we have a 3 year old daughter and I have a 10 year old ...

Was my girlfriend cheating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1955 days ago

5 July 2019 (M) - Dear all I posted about my situation a while ago, but it has changed since so i want to know what you think. My girlfriend (its long distance at the moment) went clubbing, got drunk and can't remember what happened. she took a morning aft...

I walked in on my husband performing oral sex on my best friend

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 1954 days ago

4 July 2019 (F) - Hi there. I am 29 years old and have been married for 5 years. My husband and I have been together since we were young teens. I never thought he could hurt me but I was away on holiday with my friend and we came home early, when i returned I walked ...

My girlfriend ordered me not to speak to another woman I used to work with. Was she being unreasonable?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1910 days ago

4 July 2019 (F) - My girlfriend is very possessive of me. She actually ordered me not to talk to another woman because she thinks that woman has designs on me. I used to work with this person and needed to go see her for work related reasons. I have a new job and ...