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Archived questions from: March, 2015 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

How can I know if my husband is gay or not?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3512 days ago

31 March 2015 (F) - I have been happily married for 13 years now. I have always had great sexual experience with my husband. I only felt it was not as often as I would want. I recently suspected he might be a gay??? there were several signs of it to me. Most shocking ...

She was insistent on including her daughters in our invitation to her and then she was a no-show! I wasted £300 on all 4 of them!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3514 days ago

31 March 2015 (F) - I got married over a month ago and I invited a friend of mine - we used to work together and became really good friends so I invited both her and husband to my wedding for the entire day. When my friend received her invite she called to as...

How do I live with the man and woman who were in a relationship behind my back?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3514 days ago

31 March 2015 (F) - About a month ago the guy I was seeing broke it off with me. We had been friends for around six months before finally getting together and currently live together in the accomodation at our university. We were very happy and very close. He was also ...

Should I try to win him back?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3513 days ago

31 March 2015 (F) - I dated a guy for a month and it was going so well at the beginning and we were both really into each other, but then he started to get too serious too fast after 2 weeks he told me he loved me and wants marriage and kids asking those kinds of ...

I burst into tears when I saw how my boyfriend lives in squalor, what now?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3513 days ago

31 March 2015 (F) - My 38 year old boyfriend of one year knew I was on my way round. What I saw horrified me. He is living in complete squalor. Dirty filthy conditions I would not put a dog in. He smoothed over it all saying he's busy with work and replacing a chimney ...

How do I know the difference between gut instinct and paranoia?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3514 days ago

31 March 2015 (F) - Hi all. This question has two parts. Should you ever ask your BF if he finds another woman attractive and if he would ever fvck her? I asked my BF tonight if he would fvck this other woman we both know and he said not while he was with me. T...

I feel at the moment that I'm just not capable of being the right type of person to manage a relationship. Can anyone help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3514 days ago

31 March 2015 (F) - In the past I have been in emotionally abusive relationships and had an emotionally abusive parent. As a result I lack self worth and struggle with anxiety and depression. I've been in a relationship for four years and in that time I've done a l...

Do you think I've made the right decision to not attend this wedding, where my Bf will be the Best man?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3515 days ago

30 March 2015 (F) - this may seem like a minor situation but it's stressing me out and im a grad student so extra stress is bad. A few months ago I had a falling out with my ex flatmates who are a couple. My boyfriend took their side which upset me. I posted on herea...

Why does my long term Gf still keep registering on dating sites? It's affecting our relationship

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3515 days ago

30 March 2015 (M) - I've caught my long term girlfriend many times registered and active on different dating sites. I am not able to get to the root of it, because I always end up defending myself over extremely minor mistakes I made years ago (like being 10 minu...

How can I get through this mountain of pressure? A new baby, difficult birth, my mother died unexpectedly and my husbane and my sister have betrayed me

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3512 days ago

30 March 2015 (F) - Please help! Hubby and I have been having marriage problems since the birth of my 2nd child and a difficult pregnancy and long recovery time (8 weeks) from an planned c section which ended up being an emergency as the surgeon made a medical error ...

His (now pregnant) one night stand is causing angst for us. Do I stand by my man and help him through this difficult time or leave?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3515 days ago

30 March 2015 (F) - Please help. My boyfriend of 5 years and i took a break. During this time he had a one night stand with a condom. Two months later we started going to counseling and everything seemed to be working out. He even proposed marriage and our...

He loves porn more than he loves me. Is it normal to be so upset about this situation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3515 days ago

30 March 2015 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together nearly 3 years, and the whole of our relationship he has never been able to have an orgasm during intercourse. He says it was the same with his previous partners and it's not just me. But he is the only per...

I feel like I'm dating a little boy instead of a man?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3515 days ago

29 March 2015 (F) - So I've been dating my boyfriend for three years now and for the most part everything is great. However, he is 24 without a car(he longboards) and has not found his career path yet. Last year he was planning on going into the military but he could...

He hasn't text me in nearly a week? Has he lost interest? What do I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3514 days ago

29 March 2015 (M) - Hello. Well, I have been talking to this guy for about a month now. We have been on two days in the past, both ending really well, both ending in kisses. He said we will definitely have to go on a date again when he comes back (he is currently ...

Boyfriend said something flirty in a text to someone else

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3515 days ago

29 March 2015 (F) - i have been with my boyfriend 3 months now. We had a staff party at work on Friday and there are a couple of girls who I get in with really well. One of these girls is married and likes my boyfriend work colleague. We have kept our relationship ...

I told my tutor that I had a crush on him and now he's acting very coldly to me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3513 days ago

29 March 2015 (F) - I told my tutor I had a crush on him and that it was affecting my work, I knew he would reject me, we laughed and agreed to carry on as normal etc However he has been really cold towards me since, he won't look at me or even barely talk to m...

I chose not to stay with my boyfriend's family while in his country and now no one is speaking to me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3514 days ago

29 March 2015 (F) - CAN SOMEONE EXPLAIN TO ME WHAT ID DID WRONG??? My boyfriend"s cousin lives in one of the Europian countries. The family is very close to absurdity. Even if someone is wrong they are still right. i am planning a vacation where my boyfriend can't...

We've been dating 4 months and I have taken him back after finding he'd been chatting with other girls and his ex!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3516 days ago

29 March 2015 (F) - Hey, I'm looking for advice no a current situation with my boyfriend. We're both 23 We've been dating for 4 months now. The start of the second month I realized he lied to me about a nude photo of his friend but cast forward I got over that as she s...

Why can't he face that his family is lying about me and tell them to butt out?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3514 days ago

29 March 2015 (F) - My partner and I of 6 years broke up three months ago, we have been trying to sort it out but I have asked him to tell hi family to butt out of our relationship, or I am not coming back. HE used to work in the family business and moved from Ireland ...

My husband has been nasty to me since the birth of our second son! Any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3516 days ago

29 March 2015 (F) - Please can anyone give me some advice, i have been with my partner 5 years we have a 2 year old boy and a baby boy of 5 weeks. my partner since the birth of our second son is being nasty to me talks awful to me and shows me no affection at all he ...

If he's engaged surely he should just admit it to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3514 days ago

29 March 2015 (F) - I've had my suspicions when my partner has been away, I caught him texting someone Xmas day, he then replies in person i don't know anyone with that name, when he went I done some fb searching found friends in common with people he lived with, ...

Is he stringing me along or is he serious about having a relationship with me? I miss him so much.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3514 days ago

29 March 2015 (F) - Hi all, I really need advise, I can't stop thinking about this guy. I've known him and have been out with him and apparently he says we are still together. He lives elsewhere now since leaving for a job. and we havent really seen each other. We ...

What are the signs when a man has serious intentions to marry? How can I be sure he's serious about us?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3510 days ago

29 March 2015 (F) - How will I know if a man has the intention to marry me? My boyfriend of almost 2 years, has at some point said he wouldn't want to marry again. When we broke up and wanted to get back together, I pointed this to him and he said he changed his ...

Soon we'll be LDR. How can this relationship be strengthened so I don't stress about cheating and his reactions online when we have a disagreement?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3508 days ago

29 March 2015 (F) - Been seeing this guy for almost 2 years now, and we weren't facebook friends until after 10 month, not until I realized it would also be nice to somewhat "show off and basically show recognition for this guy that I love". Long story short, at 12 m...

He was my first boyfriend. 11 months together. Then it ended badly. What help would help me deal with all the hurt I feel over this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3512 days ago

29 March 2015 (F) - 2 months ago my boyfriend and I broke up. I am struggling so badly, and Ive almost gone to see a psychologist. He was my first boyfriend; he was 26 I was 24. We were together for 11 months. He persued me in the beginning and even though he was t...

Divorced for 2 years now. Have an amazing new guy in my life. So why can't I deal with dating and decision making? What is wrong that I feel this way?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3508 days ago

29 March 2015 (F) - I got divorced 2 years ago, I wanted it and my ex didn't. He absolutely did nothing but just crying for 1 year. I couldn't take his family making decisions for us any more. He is 49 I am 34. It's been 2 years now and I feel extremely guilty...

His status is set as "single," how would you handle that?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3514 days ago

28 March 2015 (F) - Hey guys. Please help me. If you had been in an exclusive relationship with someone for almost seven months when you found their OKCupid profile was still active (last logged in yesterday afternoon) with its status set to single, how would you ...

Why is my ex letting me know that she's stalking my social media?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3514 days ago

28 March 2015 (M) - I recently broke up with my gf of about a year. Throughout the relationship she was frequently insecure and jealous, but when she wasn't her love was like the sun. Eventually her jealously and insecurities made her angry, mean, and distrustful ...

My boyfriend is using my flaws against me, what do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3514 days ago

28 March 2015 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 9 months, and we are in a long distance relationship (5 hours drive apart), at the start of our relationship everything was perfect, I generally felt he was the one! We had so much in common, but as the m...

To date or break up because of his unworthy friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3517 days ago

28 March 2015 (F) - Hi friends, I am here to know the opinion about how I am feeling is co-related in any manner with any one of you or am I the only person feeling this way. So I'm dating a guy who is 8 years elder to me and it's only beem 6 months to this relation...

I'm back with my ex, who I love, but how do I tell my parents?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3517 days ago

28 March 2015 (F) - so here goes...im 24. i have been off and on with my bf for 3 years. i give up when things get hard. he has been trying to get a good career for a while so he has moved a lot. we broke up 2 years ago and had no contact. he messaged me a week ago and ...

So confused. Can you help clarify what to do? my rebound Gf has been very good to me. My ex wants me back

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3518 days ago

27 March 2015 (F) - I've gotten myself into a horrible bind. The love of my life and I split up in November. While on the rebound, I made a poor, quick decision to jump into another relationship while I was still hurting over my ex. I wound up really enjoying ...

Toxic work place? Co-workers underminging me. How can I face them on Monday? How should I behave?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 3509 days ago

27 March 2015 (F) - I'd really like some advice. I work with a lady called “X” who i thought i got on well with. We text each other outside of work and i've given her a lift home etc She's older than me so i sort of looked to her as a mother figure in a way. ...

He's trying to get over his gambling problem. Would this be why he is seeming to be so stressed all the time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3517 days ago

27 March 2015 (F) - So I've currently been with my husband for 4 years (married Just over a year) and it seems we've hit a patch in our marriage. He goes out most weekends and is gone the whole weekend with his friends. Neither of us make the effort to spend time...

How I found a Possible Solution to Retroactive Jealousy and Trust Issues with my Significant Other

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3517 days ago

27 March 2015 (M) - Before all the feminazi's here jump on me this is what happened exactly. Their were no assumptions on my part or misinterpretations on my end. She lied to me and misrepresented herself as to not to lose me and put herself in a bad light. This ...

I do still love my Gf. Yet I'm having feelings for another. Should I talk about this to my Gf?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3518 days ago

27 March 2015 (M) - I am in a relationship of 5 years and I'm in my final year of university so I am away from my girlfriend weeks at a time. Recently we have been arguing more frequently and we both recognise the spark is going out and so are currently trying to ignit...

A friend told me he loves me, but I still feel pain from my ex boyfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3394 days ago

27 March 2015 (F) - Dear cupid, I fear having a new love story with someone who seems to be worth giving the chance. long story short, i gave my everything to my 2 and a half year old boy friend. i loved him, and maybe still love him, feared him and simply wante...

Some friends have fallen out with me over my decision to date a guy they do not like. What should I consider in all this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3519 days ago

26 March 2015 (F) - A group of close friends I have had have recently fallen out with me due to my decision to be with someone that they don't like. I've had an on and off relationship with a guy who I consider to be the love of my life f...

Is it safe to go ahead dating him even though he said he is not ready for a relationship right now? He's going through a divorce

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3518 days ago

26 March 2015 (F) - I started seeing this guy who is in the process of getting a divorce about 2 months ago. His divorce will be finalized in about a month. He told me on our fourth date that he had been married for 7 years and for the last 2 years things had gone sour ...

Boyfriend's lack and concern and hygiene make me think it might be time to end things

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3520 days ago

26 March 2015 (F) - Lately I feel like Im reconsidering my relationship with my partner of 1 year. I feel like here's not there for me in the way a partner should be some e.g. my parents are going through a divorce, when I try and talk to him about it, all he says is ...

He broke up with me, but still contacts me every day ....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3519 days ago

26 March 2015 (F) - My boyfriend if 1 yr broke up with me a month ago. He felt that I was too attached and "I don't listen" or give him every thing that he demands. Ever since, he has been texting me about every detail going in his life. He doesn't text me every day ...

My boyfriend has a 'fat' fetish. Why?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3517 days ago

25 March 2015 (F) - I think my boyfriend has a 'fat' fetish. I am a very pretty girl, I am not overweight, and have never had a problem getting guys. I'm a petite brunette. I've always had a good sex life with my boyfriend's, always felt wanted and like they are 1000% ...

My girlfriend thinks I'm lying and hiding things from her about the past and I'm not!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3519 days ago

25 March 2015 (M) - Hi there everyone. Thanks for checking out my post. I really appreciate it. So rightt. To the question. So me and my girlfriend are kind of being silent from each other. All of this is just too confusing so bear with me. She was an ex of...

I think my ex used a fake profile to get to talk to me again. I don't like what he did but I want to talk to him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3520 days ago

25 March 2015 (F) - Right here goes..... very long story short My ex boyfriend decided to contact me out of the blue after being broken up for 3 years saying he was sorry and he loved me and wanted me back. I told him I was already in a relationship with someone els...

He acted frustrated and then pushed me against the wall and kissed me. This means what?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3520 days ago

25 March 2015 (F) - I feel super lame asking this but if a guy gets frustrated at you and kind of pushes you against the wall but then kisses you on the head quickly what does it mean?...

Does it matter who my girlfriend friends texts and talks to as long as she comes home to me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3518 days ago

25 March 2015 (F) - Im lesbian and in a 5 year relationship. We are moving in together in less than 5 months. We have never spent more than 7 consecutive days living together as we are long distance. We spend every night on the phone together from the time we get in ...

How much time should couples spend together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3520 days ago

25 March 2015 (F) - How much time should you spend together in a relationship? We have been together nearly 3 years and I just don't feel like we spend enough time together. She will come over on the Friday every two weeks and stay the night and then I'll see her onc...

My partner had an affair. Should I share the details with other husband?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3520 days ago

24 March 2015 (F) - My long term partner (Me: 29F and Him: 32M) had an affair with a recently married woman, lasting about a month that I am aware of. They were family friends, I bartended her brother's wedding, etc. She and I were "friends". Long story short: I had a ...

My sister's rage is out of control

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3521 days ago

24 March 2015 (F) - Before our studies commenced we had both decided to live together in a two bed flat in the Student Village. I thought it was going to be amazing... But it turns out that she gets angry and violent really, really easily. I have concerns that she's ...

My gf is upset with me for talking to my ex

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3520 days ago

24 March 2015 (M) - Me and my exs relationship ended almost 3 years ago and I've been with my now gf for 2 years. My ex gf messaged me on Facebook last Saturday night (we had not spoken for like 8 months prior to this, we don't speak hardly at all to be honest). We ...