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anonymous
writes: I feel super lame asking this but if a guy gets frustrated at you and kind of pushes you against the wall but then kisses you on the head quickly what does it mean? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, CindyCares +, writes (26 March 2015):
This means that you should be smart enough to stay away from any guy who pushes you or pins you against a wall with his body , with or without final kiss. You may think it's " passionate ", it 's just rude and abusive.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (25 March 2015):
IT means that he is willing to lay his hands on you in anger.
first it's a push
then it's a slap
then it's a punch
then you die.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2015): *op here!* sorry I think I may have mislead you guys a bit, I was standing by the wall, he put hands either side of me pushed me against the wall with his body rather than actually shoving me or anything
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reader, WhenCowsAttack +, writes (25 March 2015):
It means run, don't walk, away from the relationship if there is one.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2015): What does it mean? Not much! Seems pretty lame to me! I guess that was supposed to be a stolen kiss.
He's got pudding for brains for roughing-up a girl, for one. That's not how you get a kiss. Never allow boys to use physical-force upon you. Never! It's wrong for a guy to use his strength toward you, or do anything without your permission.
It didn't occur to you to ask him what was that for?
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reader, RubyBirtle +, writes (25 March 2015):
I don't think anybody will be able to tell you exactly "what it means", especially with so little information.
What was going on before he pushed you against the wall? What was he frustrated about? Is this guy a boyfriend or just a friend?
But, all in all, it's a total red flag if a guy suddenly pushes a girl up against a wall - even if he does kiss her on the top of the head afterwards. It shows a short temper (if it was out of frustration) and poor impulse control.
Sound like the kind of guy you should stay away from. Even if it was just good-natured horseplay or rough-housing - it sound a bit aggresive.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (25 March 2015):
It means he has anger-management problems.... but suspects that if he "throws you a bone" (the kiss) that you won't recognize that....
Good luck...
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