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Archived questions from: June, 2012 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

How can I get over this paranoia I can't help having? About him and other girls?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4532 days ago

30 June 2012 (F) - So I was seeing someone a few months ago and it went really well. I've never known anyone to make me feel so good about myself and happy. Anyway long story short, he got really hurt in his last relationship and so decided he isn't ready for a new ...

He left his wife for me but misses his children

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4510 days ago

30 June 2012 (F) - I fell in love with a married man. We are right for each other. He left his wife and children and moved in with me, but told his wife it was a trial separationn and she has no clue what he has been doing. Now a few months in, he has become depre...

He can't understand I am grieving and sex is the last thing on my mind!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4532 days ago

30 June 2012 (F) - The past six months my Grandfather has been fighting a deadly diease. I was there with him. First 4 months he was at home, so I took the role of nursing him completely. Past 2 months he has been in hospice, and it has been the HARDEST journey for ...

Do I leave the man I love and return to a life I hate?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4532 days ago

30 June 2012 (F) - I need some help with a choice i have to make. I have no idea what to do so please help me. I had a boyfriend for a year and a half. Lets call him X. We were really close. I moved in with him and his family because i was having trouble at home....

He usually ignores me, I don't understand him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4533 days ago

30 June 2012 (F) - OK first of all, I'm a Muslim girl. Now I have a crush on this other Muslim guy I know. He comes to these classes my dad teaches. He always completely ignores me. He never wants to sit next to me ever. I also see him in school everyday, and he ...

I never get a break from him bitching at me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4533 days ago

30 June 2012 (F) - I don't even know where to begin. I've been dating my boyfriend for 4 years in December. We have a 6 month old together and are living together. I'm constantly trying to make him happy. He's VERY OCD, so I try my best to keep the house clean, ...

My boyfriend loves his computer more than me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4533 days ago

30 June 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I are avid gamers. We play online all the time and are constantly having conversations with everyone but each other. A habit I've been trying to break with a good walk everyday and outings to get away from our online friends. ...

I kissed a female friend and am now questioning the future I thought I had

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4532 days ago

30 June 2012 (F) - My bf and I have been together for 8 years. We just got engage last year; however our relationship have always been a roller coaster. We have a lot of problems; mainly trust issues. I have found condom with him on several occasions, and his ...

I want your opinion on this email I'm planning to send my boyfriend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4533 days ago

30 June 2012 (F) - I've been struggling lately with a boyfriend who up until a few months ago was highly attentive and we spent most of our free time together, even though we both have jobs and are very busy with college. In the last while he's been choosing to see me ...

I have been having an emotional affair

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

30 June 2012 (M) - Mine is related to an emotional affair. I am married andI work 4 hours from home. I have an apartment i maintain 4 days a week. There is a woam I work with, and I am her boss. I am deeply attracted to her. We have gone to lunch, have gone out for ...

He is so selfish during sex I was nearly crying!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4533 days ago

30 June 2012 (F) - I need help! My boyfriend is so selfish in the bedroom, we acctually end up arguing. He is my first sexual partner, I always do everything for him. We normally start kissing then go straight to having sex, and sometimes he goes so deep it hurts my ...

HELP! I think my boyfriend's brother has a crush on me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

30 June 2012 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 7 months and I love him so much! But we went on a date recently and his younger brother and friend dropped us off. No biggy. That's normal. The real problem was when his brother picked us back up. I was ...

It felt like things were getting back to normal ... but they weren't!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4532 days ago

30 June 2012 (M) - Hello Everybody, Don't know if this is the right place for this, but here goes... I am now 33 years of age and I was with my long term partner for 9 years. Our relationship, I thought, was good. It had its ups and downs like any relation...

How do I let her know what I think of him without appearing to be the home wrecker?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4533 days ago

30 June 2012 (F) - So i have a question and a problem and because I'm so close to the problem i cant see the bigger picture or solution. one of my friends who became my best friend because we both have kids which are 6days apart we both have partners also tho her...

All my mother does is critizise!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4530 days ago

30 June 2012 (F) - My mother is starting to really depress me. I am an emotional person and all she does is argue with me because of my boyfriend. She swears i pick him over her, when in reality all she does is pick fights with us. She stays assuming things and it ...

My guy says he will be dating another girl ...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4532 days ago

30 June 2012 (F) - One day my guy told me he doesn't want to hide anything from me so i should ask me anything. i then asked him what he has been hidding from me and he said a girl asked him to date her so now he's dating her even though he doesn't love her. He said ...

Each thing I say or do he takes the wrong way, it makes me sad

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4533 days ago

30 June 2012 (F) - Hi, I know this guy and it was love at first sight between us. Kinda weird because we never met in real life, and I never believed in love at first sight before him. We were obsessed with each other, always on the phone or videochatting. Please d...

I just see red flags all over her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4533 days ago

30 June 2012 (F) - Okay, so about 10-11months ago my boyfriend dated this girl (let's call her Kate). And so after about 3 months of them dating, she decided to break up with him, because another love interest had come her way, and she wanted the other boy. My ...

I'm worried my girl might start missing her ex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4533 days ago

30 June 2012 (M) - am i seriously an idiot for getting involved with a woman who has long term relationship prior to ours? She was with her ex for 4 years ! I ask this question because i know most long term relo's turn to rebounds. Are there any ladies out there who ...

I've told him he needs to change ...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4532 days ago

30 June 2012 (F) - I can't decide whether to break up with my boyfriend of 7 months. We've known each other for years and have been good friends, although living in different countries (we're still in a long distance relationship). Last year, on a visit to see him he ...

He broke up with me but I know he loves me deeply ...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4532 days ago

30 June 2012 (F) - I don't understand. I fell in love with a man 6 years younger than me. He said he was in love with me. Everyone said we seemed happy together - and yet he started to treat me like I was 2nd best and when I asked if he wanted a future with me - he ...

I got a friend to test him and now he has shut me out!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4530 days ago

30 June 2012 (F) - i feel really bad, my on off partner of 18 years and i were in the process of what i thought trying to work things out. he has always been there for me until i messed up, i played a silly trick on him and now its kind of back fired and he refuses to ...

Do I keep trying, or forget and move on? He treats our relationship like it's a chore

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4534 days ago

30 June 2012 (F) - I feel like my boyfriend doesn't love me anymore. We never really see each and if we do it may be only be once a week. He doesnt call or text me that often (like once or twice a week) and he always wants to hang out with his friends but never mi...

Money and an inheritance is tearing my family apart. How can this be stopped? People are turning on each other in my family.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

30 June 2012 (F) - I have a large family of brothers and sisters and both parents. Everyone outside thinks we are really close and get along but we dont. Lately a relation passed away they left all their possessions to half my family who only went to see them whe...

He broke up with me after 5 years, so now we are roomies.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4532 days ago

29 June 2012 (F) - ** This is a very long, detailed story** Less than a week ago, my boyfriend of 5 years ended our relationship. We had a good relationship and seldom argued. We enjoy most of the same things and overall we get along great. Saturday, we w...

I lied to her but I never cheated!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4533 days ago

29 June 2012 (M) - After over 2 years together we hit the biggest of all speedbumps. I was caught texting a girl I used to hook up with. The messages were never out of line, on her birthday and mine we talked a bit. Than my now ex was going to send her a nasty ...

I'm being ignored by all my friends. So how and why has she turned everyone I used to be close with against me? She's besties with them now.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4533 days ago

29 June 2012 (F) - I used to be friends with this girl called X but then we kind of drifted apart but now it seems like every race she has to beat me at, and every guy I like she has to flirt with and make them like her. Everyone I used to be close with she's be...

This hurts me. My best friend of 6 years has turned on me. Why would a friend do this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

29 June 2012 (F) - Hi everyone So i have been bestfriends with a girl for six years. Long story short she stabbed me in the back by turning my other friends on me. Some reasons included: i am immature, i make too many jokes , im too positive, everything you say anno...

How to get past an affair?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4532 days ago

29 June 2012 (M) - If anyone has advice on how to get past an affair, please let me know. It has been 8 years since my wife cheated, and it still feels extremely painful. I can't seem to fully trust her no matter how hard I try....

I have a tendency to judge men!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

29 June 2012 (?) - I have a tendency to judge men, I do not like the fact that I do it but I seem to subconsciously criticise their abilities in their work, relationships and mannerisms. I criticise in a way to say that as men they are expected to up their game, as a ...

Dating a co worker, how can it work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4534 days ago

29 June 2012 (F) - My future boss and I met around work and he was always nice, friendly. We joked around bur never really had a seriou conversation so I interviewed for his department recently and got it. One night, I was getting a ride from a male co-worker and he ...

Is it fair for my partner to blame me for looking at his emails when I found out he's cheating again?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4532 days ago

29 June 2012 (F) - I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for two and a half years. We have an 8 month old daughter together. We were starting new and moved recently to a new state because of a job opportunity for him. A few months ago I noticed him acting a ...

My boyfriend and I don't get on with each other's friends!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

29 June 2012 (F) - i've been with my boyfriend for about 18 months or so, we were friends before this also and we love each other dearly. we both worked hard at university and have graduate positions and promising careers ahead of us. however, there is a problem, we ...

She goes weeks without touching me but promises me we'll have plenty of sex once married

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4518 days ago

29 June 2012 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for a 1.5 years and we are compatible in almost every way. Both of us are in our early 30's. My sex drive is still very high and I always want some no matter how tired or overworked I am. I am agnostic and she...

My male friend has a crush on me but I'm not interested in him, but I don't want to lose the friendship either! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

29 June 2012 (F) - Hello there, I am in a bit of a sticky situation. I'll just dive right in. I have mostly guy friends. I never really seem to get along with girls, so most of my best friends are guys. My boyfriend of ten months is totally fine with this, never ...

I'm losing jobs because of the boss's jealous wife!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

29 June 2012 (F) - I am 31 years old, its been my second time loosing my job cause the wife of my ex bosses get insecure of me, I didn't do anything but just loyal to my job. Now its been a month having no work and scared to apply a job that might have this situation ...

I've not responded to this girl sending me nasty messages but she is still doing it, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

29 June 2012 (F) - Hi guys, so I've asked about this twice... I'll link the threads if the Aunts will let me. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-friend-bullies-me.html and http://www.dearcupid.org/question/what...

Is my girlfriend just crazy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

29 June 2012 (M) - why is she mad at me? ok a few months ago i saw an old friend while i was out to eat with my girlfriend and simply added her on facebook. she had a fit and started screaming at me. i have never done anything with this girl at all. not even date. ...

My husband had an affair while he was working in a different country. Should I stay or leave?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4522 days ago

29 June 2012 (F) - we've been married for 17 years with 2 kids, we are happy family, but one day i just found out that my husbandhad an affair to the other while he was working in a different country. He lied to me he said he never had anothet girl while he was away ...

I'm getting married but can't forget about my fling!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4510 days ago

28 June 2012 (F) - I had a fling with a collegue of mine 2 years back..This guy had a long distance girlfriend..I myself am in a relationship with another guy since 4 yrs. Since both of us were in long distance relships we hit it off instantly and started spending a ...

How do I save my marriage after all this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

28 June 2012 (F) - I have been with my husband for 2 years.We have only been married for 5 months. We have seperated about 4 times for about two weeks each time during our two years together.This last time we seperated I honestly thought it was the end I even asked ...

Shattered that it could happen to me twice.

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

28 June 2012 (F) - I'm new here. I'm 51 and divorced. This is really for the more mature crowd. I would really like to figure out how this could have happened to me, twice now. My background is I married at 36 and my husband left me, for another woman after 16 y...

We soon will be going to therapy but I am concerned he will never 'get me'.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4535 days ago

28 June 2012 (F) - Been married 6 years. I am 30 and husband is 31. My emotional needs are not being met. I blamed myself of these feelings due to growing up in a dysfunctional and emotionally unavailable family, and not experience in relationship. During t...

My boyfriend has become so controlling it's a problem but I can't break up with him because I love him!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

28 June 2012 (F) - I'm 20 and my boyfriend is 21. We've been in a serious committed relationship for almost a year. At first I wasn't very expressive and romantic towards him cuz I was just getting to know him and I am a very shy person.. He was very patient and kind ...

I just want sex from him, so he cut me off. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4533 days ago

28 June 2012 (F) - Hello. I'm in a really tough situation. I have been in a committed relationship for 4 years, but there has been no sexual chemistry for a year due to health problems. I finally got tired of not being satisfied so 2 months ago things got pretty ...

My boyfriend is too sensitive, and I'm tired of being so cautious around him !

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4533 days ago

28 June 2012 (F) - This is a very weird question...and I've been trying to write this properly since ages but I just can't seem to find the right words. So please bear with me! My boyfriend lives abroad and works in shifts. He can only call me when he's on a break,...

Why is it that when I fall for a girl, I get irrational, paranoid, insecure, jealous and sometimes controlling?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4535 days ago

28 June 2012 (M) - I think i need some serious help whats wrong with me? I ask this question because it seems that, EVERY TIME i fall for a girl, i become paranoid, insecure, jealous and sometimes controlling, but sometimes i also get VERY DISTANT and quiet, and i...

Should I keep trying to cheer her up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4535 days ago

28 June 2012 (M) - Heyy guys i have a question about a girl i know lets call her "a" and she has had a boyfriend lets call him "b". i have been friends with this girl for quite sometime now, and she has been having relationship troubles with b for months now and she ...

Boyfriend is under stress and being grumpy and short tempered. How can I help him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4535 days ago

28 June 2012 (F) - Hey guys i really need your help i feel like im going crazy. Well tomarrow is me and my bf one year anniversery and i love him so much. The problem is he lives with his ucle and his uncle is the meanest and rudest person i have ever met. His uncle ...

Girlfriend treats her grown children with "kid gloves" but stomps all over me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4535 days ago

28 June 2012 (M) - I have been in a great relationship with a lovely and wonderful woman for 2 years. We love each other very much, have just bought a house together and are engaged and plan to be married next year. Here is our problem. She has three adult ...