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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:so my friend lets call her J is being super possesive of our other friends lets call them JC n A. Everyday J has to call JC n A who are sisters to see what they are doing. J textes them like crazy. Always wanting to know where they are at and if they are going to do something. IF JC n A are planning something and J finds out she will invite herself. I try and hang out with them as much as i can because i dont really have time since i work.And when i do hang out with them Ive been noticing that J is like obesssed with JC n A. If we go bowling J will make sure to have JC n A's full attention. So that I will just be left alone. The reason that I believe that J is obessed with JC n A is because if JC n A get something then J will go out and buy the same exact thing. Also everytime we all hang out J always has to belittle me somehow, in front of JC n A and her family. I dont know what is going on with J I mean I know that she is being possesive and obessive with them but is that normal? And why is she doing this?
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reader, PrinceCharming +, writes (7 September 2011):
I know it sounds silly but she might not notice that shes doing this. I had a friend, when he was on the phone he would always say yeah im hanging out with josh even though i was right there too , he has never mentioned my name lol. You have to talk to her about it , and tell her that it bothers you , and that she should stop obsessing over them. Of course you have to say this really nice, and worded differently or she will get mad. This is a problem your group of friends should not center you out when your bowling tell J that you deserve better!
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