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writes:First of all this is not really much of a relationship problem at the same time it is though. I want to know how a guy can have a good sense of humour or a way to make the girl he loves laugh no matter what mood she is in. This girl I like so much has random moods and i recently found out she likes guys who can make her laugh in whatever mood she is in, i want to be able to do that, im not changing myself or not being myself i just want to have that ability that other guys have not done for her yet. Please and thank you for the advice Reply to this Question
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reader, AComplicatedGuy123 +, writes (6 September 2011):
AComplicatedGuy123 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the answers, I am still not sure what I can do, but from what i read it was just basically be yourself, shes not the girl for you, watch romantic films and be like those guys haha.
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reader, angelDlite  +, writes (6 September 2011):
 "a cheap casual word which many people use too easily to get them all sort of things that she wants."
sorry, that didn't make sense - should have read THEY WANT not SHE WANTS
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reader, angelDlite +, writes (6 September 2011):
yeah course you can tell her you love her and she will probably be delighted and feel like she is in a slushy film! but - is it realistic?? love can be a very powerful word when used truthfully or it can be a cheap casual word which many people use too easily to get them all sort of things that she wants. if you want to be like the romantic hero in the films she likes to watch, then maybe you should watch some yourself to give you an idea of the sort of behaviour that she is looking for
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reader, AComplicatedGuy123 +, writes (6 September 2011):
AComplicatedGuy123 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the advice, honestly she is high maintenance she doesnt have crazy mood swings she just expects a romance movie or novel kind of love thing, i want to be able to give that to her, ive liked her for so long i think its been 3 years now? i eventually conffessed and things just didnt work out i just recently found out what kind of guy she was lookin for i wasnt that guy and i just figured maybe i can still be that guy. i dont know really i just can i say love her?
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reader, CASA DE FIGUEROA +, writes (5 September 2011):
Well your either funny or your not, you cant change that...although you can go to clown school. If you really like her then just go and talk to her and tell it how it how it is. Be like this is me either take it or leave it. But BEWARE to not cross that line of friend or lover. CAUSE IF YOU BECOME HER FRIEND THEN SHE'LL NEVER SEE YOU AS BOYFRIEND MATERIAL. Just go up to her and be like you single? You wanna go out on a date? Dont waste time,compliment her...she'll think its sweet and laugh.....Good luck!
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reader, angelDlite +, writes (5 September 2011):
sorry but she sounds high maintenance with her 'random moods'. you are not there purely to entertain her. she should not expect other people to be responsible for her moods, if she has got a mood disorder she needs to get help for it, for her own sake, more so than for the people around her.
i think you should give this one a swerve to be honest but if you DO insist on being her entertainment it is impossible for me to tell you how to make her laugh coz everyones sense of humour is different, so i would suggest you joke about things that YOU find funny (as long as its not offensive stuff) and if she laughs along with you, great; if not - she is not the one for you.
if you create an act it won't be possible to keep up in the long term so it is better to be yourself
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