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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I'm really in a confusing mode..Between love and friendship..talking about love there are always silly fights in my relationship..i really dono what to do..every small thing that happens he takes so seriously that a big war breaks out...recently there were problemsof insecurity..There's this gal who really gets close to my guy n i really feel so insecure..I did tell him b4 about this..but somewherei feel its he too who encourages her..We spoke on this n he had to tell that He's really loyal to me n he'll not go close to any gal..But i've told myself to be really comfortable with whatever happens..I won't feel insecure..N last night when this conversationended one more silly fight started..In every text he tells he wanna die n al such stuff..I get so pissed that i stop replying...Finally last nytwhen he said hat i told him he's not gonna die just because he keeps telling it..He started off..he hasn't texted since then..what ami supposed to do??at times he seems so loving n caring but sometimes he behaves so rude..What can be done???is there a solution??Plz help!!!Next..I had a short conversation with my good friend..Actually he was on the phone when i text ed him n so he replied late..For whichi told him i was sorry cuz i'm like tat only..i really get pissed out soon..he misunderstood..I still dunno what..He told I've hurt d him..what do i do here??Nothing seems fine with me..I haven't had peaceful sleep 4m last Nyt..Plz help!!!
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reader, summerslady21  +, writes (13 May 2009):
It seems like insecurity plays a big role in your relationship. You need to sit down face to face and tell each other what's going on how you both feel and what you should do as a couple! If he is dragging you down and making you feel less about yourself then you should probably get out and take a break. It sounds to me he teta to guilt you and plays mind games! Sit down weigh the pros and cons of your relationship with him and then explain your final decision to him. You r young and don't need to go through the troubles of a hard relationship! You'll have that enough later in life.good luck and update me if you have any other questions just mail me
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