A
female
age
30-35,
*ellaa
writes:hello everybody..i dumped a boy i loved 2 months ago,and i still love him..because he was acting strangly and he sat all the time with hif 'friends'and he was always depressed about something and he never talked about it..and he always said nice things to me but did the opposite,i couldn't be with another guy after our breakup because i still love him.anyways 2 weeks ago he contacted me after a very long time..he's a shy guy.he never knows how to express his feelings and never know how to say that he's sorry..after some talking he told me he loves me,,his best friend told me that he suffered a lot to be with me and he was so sad when i left him..how can i be with him another time and react with his strange personality?could i trust him again with my heart?
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reader, Deema  +, writes (5 September 2008):
 How do you feel about him now? Are you happier with or without him? Try thinking of how much happiness you got from the relationship. No one is happy all of the time, but if the downside is always much greater than the upside then what are we getting from it? Sometimes the idea of being with someone is better than the actual being. We can all miss someone when they're not there and when they are wonder what the hell we're doing. Thats when we're being fooled by our emotions I believe. Your inner self knows its no good for you, but your other self wants to carry on. All I do know is that even if you go back to him because you're not ready to let go yet, the day will come when you wake up and realise you can't do this another day, if thats what you're meant to do. So either way, don't beat yourself up. If that day hasn't come yet, so be it. It will come. Good luck.
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