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writes:i have recently meet a turkish guy on the internet we talk everyday and send text messages,im beginning to really like him,he wants me to go over on holiday and see him for a week i really dont no what to do here because of the distance and stories u hear please advise me ,thanks
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reader, ScottishStar +, writes (11 September 2008):
I have been to Turkey alot, I am only 16 but I know what the guys are like. They are really flirty and will do anything to get off with you. Anyway if you really trust this guy and like him then go for a weeks holiday but don't go yourself. Take a friend or a few just incase anything goes wrong and you need help. If you don't then its not worth it.Hope this helped xo.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (7 September 2008):
In fact here is a better website:
http://www.visitbritain.com/
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (7 September 2008):
Any one can fly to England! We have a booming tourist industry!
http://www.enjoyengland.com/
It's only if you over stay or work here that you get in trouble.
Turkey is not a member of the EU but I am pretty sure we aren't going to turn someone away at the airport if they are here for a week's holiday and to meet a lovely internet lady.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 September 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionbut can turkish men just fly to england or is there certain requirments?
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (6 September 2008):
Get him to see you instead!
You are the one who will be at risk by going to Turkey.
Online people are always a risk, when they are in a foreign country then that risk is 10 times as high.
Tell him to visit you if he wants to see you and give him the name of a hotel in your area.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, epifanatical  +, writes (6 September 2008):
 i agree with Belle.. anyone online esp in another part of the world can claim to be anyone they want.. so tread carefully sweetee.. you are most vulnerable when in a foreign country alone.. :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 September 2008): I'm in agreement with Belle. I wouldn't go if I were in your place.You would be going to a vastly different country and culture, for one thing. He could be married; could be wanting you to give him money when you get there - anything.You say you met him on the internet "recently." Which means that no matter how many times you have talked on the phone, or texted, you really DON'T know anything about him.I'd ease off the contact and let this one go........
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reader, Belle De Jour +, writes (6 September 2008):
 dont go on holiday with someone you dont know . . it is really bad because one , he could be someone else to who he says he is .two , he could really hurt you while out there and who would know . and three , he cud stand u up , you could go al the way to where your going , and he could not turn up , and if he has asked for money then you knoq it a scam ,not risk it , its not worth it ..Belle x
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