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Archived questions from: August, 2007 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Is there too much damage between us for things to be how they used to?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6298 days ago

31 August 2007 (F) - Hi, i need some help. I lost a baby after 15 weeks about 4 months ago, but had to go in to hospital because the baby had been dead for 3 weeks. ever since this has happened me and my fiance havent been the same since. We don't talk anymore and i fi...

The drink is hurting our relationship. She says she's depressed. What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6298 days ago

31 August 2007 (M) - My girlfriend and i have been going out for 3 years. I had to move away for school for the past year and weve seen each other every 2 weeks or so and i have made the effort as much as possible to see her. I am about to move home in a couple months ...

I broke up, as I'm going abroad! Is he trying to distance himself or am I being the sensitive one?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6298 days ago

31 August 2007 (F) - my boyfriend and i just broke up because i'm going abroad but he's staying behind for one more year of school. He's what you call my typical 'first love'. Now that we aren't with one another, and i'll tell him 'i miss you' over the phone or online ...

What could I do to win her back, when it was me who suggested the separation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6298 days ago

31 August 2007 (M) - My ex girlfriend and I dated for 2.5 years before breaking up in the spring. We've been apart for 5 months now, she's been dating someone else for the last 2 months, but I still love her and realize what a huge mistake I made in ever breaking up. I ...

Is he too damaged for a real relationship???

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5077 days ago

31 August 2007 (F) - I am confused about a friendship with a newly divorced man. Need to know how to interpret mixed signals and if we can/should make our friendship a real relationship. A couple of months ago I met a man through mutual friends. At his request ...

I've been with him 10 months and he's started eyeing up women on tv and in the street. He says its normal but I've told him I dont like it!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6046 days ago

31 August 2007 (F) - Should I leave my fiance? The other night we were watching a movie and everytime a "hot girl" was on the screen he would say something like "she has a nice body", etc. I've already told him that this bothers me, but he won't stop and says that all ...

Im still not getting over her. This has been the worst summer ever. She hasn't even said thank you for the birthday card I sent her!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6285 days ago

31 August 2007 (M) - Hi everyone. It's got to the point where I feel stupid to keep troubling you with my problems, whenever they are so small. Nevertheless, they continue to trouble me. I don't know if it's all part of being dumped by your first love or whatever, ...

Can anyone give me some guidance to improve my marriage please? We seldom chat or have sex anymore..

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6298 days ago

31 August 2007 (F) - I got married for 5 years. i got 2 sons, 1 is 5 yrs and another is 16 mths .my relationship with my husband seem ok on first 2 years. but recently everything has changed. We seldom chatting or have sex,and he hates his sons for making noise and ...

How do I make myself not so clingy and insecure in my relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5633 days ago

31 August 2007 (F) - I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for over a year. The first couple of months were fantastic (as usually they are) But as the first full year together started to approuch I felt fantastic. We had lasted a year and that made me feel ...

We've been together 10 yrs. She cheated near the begining. I suffer from depression and she's behaving differently lately. What's going on???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6298 days ago

31 August 2007 (M) - hello everybody im new here ive been going out with a girl 10 yrs.at the start it was great,then she did the dirt on me. she wasent going to tell me only sombody else saw her then she came and told me.i was heartbroken and from then on ididnt ...

He seems to enjoy the chase and we keep breaking up, only for him to be chasing me again, and the cycle continues. Is this going to go on forever?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6297 days ago

31 August 2007 (F) - I am in this strange relationship for 2 years now. He chases after me, I feel intense feelings of joy and excitement (absolutely high), we get closer, I start chasing him, we become very intimate and then he pulls away, says his frightened. I feel ...

My guy emigrated and wants me to follow. He seems to be using me for what I can take over there with me and I'm wondering now if I should even be going??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6298 days ago

31 August 2007 (F) - My boyfriend emigrated to the other side of the world about 6 months ago and wanted me to go with him. I have visited once and am due to see him again for a couple of weeks very soon as it is a big step I want to be sure. I feel a bit concerned ...

I'm in love with my boyfriend, but I don't know what to do about our problems!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6298 days ago

31 August 2007 (F) - I really need some advice, I have been with my boyfriend for about 5 months now and everything has been going really well, yeah like in any relationship we have had a argument or 2 but everything has always moved on and it has been fine. Over t...

Two months after marriage and we already have problems. Is this marriage already over?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6298 days ago

31 August 2007 (F) - I am wondering what to do about my marriage. I am in my early 20's and I just got married 2 months ago. I am in Germany with my husband because he is in the army. So he works for the army here and I left everything from the States to come be with ...

How do I tell him that I'm not interested in him as a boyfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6298 days ago

31 August 2007 (F) - How do I tell a guy that I like as a friend, that I'm not interested in him as a boyfriend? I met a guy on holiday as part of a big group of friends. I've since seen him again with several other people we met on holiday too, and we get on really...

Is my mother getting a buzz out of insulting me or something?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6297 days ago

31 August 2007 (F) - My self-confidence is very low at the minute! And i think its because of my mother. She tends to put me down, i'm a generally happy person and wake up with a smile ready to start the day - then when i go downstairs she'll say like "Gosh, you've got ...

Things started to go bad after he found out I was working as a prostitute...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6298 days ago

31 August 2007 (F) - Hi.. I was in a relationship with this guy for 2 years and we were also engaged....He found out that i was working as a prostitute and he was so angry and after some time he said he forgave me..Everything seemed like it was fine and we even went awa...

She insisted I am the one for her, now we're married but I found her messages to other men with sexual implications!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6297 days ago

31 August 2007 (M) - i am a saved man, who is married to a womam who just can't seem to break a way from her lovers in the past. Before we married i told her that maybe God had someone else for her. She has persude me for 1 1/2 years telling me that i am the only man ...

I've been engaged to him for over 4 years, suddenly he wants to break it off despite of the fact he says he loves me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6299 days ago

31 August 2007 (F) - i have been engaged for 4 1/2 yrs to a great man. Suddenly he wants to break it off says its not working but loves me and tells me every day. i am heart broken and could never imagine being with anyone else. i talk about us everyday and cry and ...

In love with my boyfriend but always seem to develop little "crushes" on other men!...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6298 days ago

31 August 2007 (F) - I am currently in a relationship that has lasted for a few years. I am in love with my boyfriend so much but for some reason I always develop little "crushes" on other guys. Is this normal?!?! Or does this mean he's not the one for me??? Please ...

What's the best way to calm her down when she gets so angry?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6298 days ago

31 August 2007 (M) - My girlfriend and I have now been together for almost 6 years. But recently, we fight over really stupid things. Of course, I try to stay calm, and deal with it calmly, and she of course turns into a giant ball of mixed emotions. I love her with all ...

Was getting back with my ex, Now I'm panicking cuz he's not txt and his phone's off???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6298 days ago

31 August 2007 (F) - was going out with my bf for a year. we broke up and i never made a secret of how i wanted to get back together. last weekend he said he felt the same and would like to get together soon, my prob is im a worrier really badly and haven't heard from...

We're on the verge of breaking up. My girlfriend has said she's not happy. Can I still fix this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6298 days ago

31 August 2007 (M) - I think i might be on the verge of a breakup. my girlfriend recently told me that she is very unhappy about some things and the she is reconsidering the relationship. weve been together for two years and i love her more than anything in the world. ...

I work for an older man, he is on the verge of divorce and I feel we have become close. What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6290 days ago

31 August 2007 (F) - Hey guys, i am 20 yrs old and i work for a 40 yr old man (he is married with two kids and his daughter is only 2 yrs younger then me!!) Him and his wife are seperating and may even be getting a divorce. When i first started working with him i ...

Does anyone know what's her problem?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6298 days ago

31 August 2007 (M) - I am friends with my ex. Now this is the important ex. We have been just friends for a long time now. But I've been told by people in the past to just leave her and not see her again. The thing is I am in a way the best friend she has, she has a ...

If he brings me a present I'll feel bad as I told him I'm a material girl, if he doesn't I'll feel worse...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6298 days ago

31 August 2007 (F) - Difficult situation, I'm damn escort, material girl, think I fell in love with a guy that does not treat me like that... I like him in some ways, but hate myself or at least don't feel well if don't get any profit from him... What the hell i ...

It feels very much as if I am being kept in limbo or maybe he is playing mindgames with me? How can a person go from being very attentive to nothing?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6298 days ago

31 August 2007 (F) - Can anybody shed some light please...? I split with my boyfriend just over a week ago, I ended the relationship 'stupidly' due to my insecurities and trust issues, I love him and believe he loves me, he ignored all my attempts at making up with h...

I'm scared to death because my boyfriend is stalking me..

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6296 days ago

31 August 2007 (F) - okay heres the thing! I'm scared to death because my boyfriend is stalking me.. he loves me so much. He cries every time we part. Okay it may seem sweet but it gets annoying. He wants to marry me, and we have only been togetehr for 2 weeks.. he ...

I think my guy likes his ex still. I want to break up with him but I dont think he's taking me seriously??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6299 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - hi stright to the point am i his rebound??? well ive been with my man for a year and a few months and well, he went thru a bad break up with his gf of like 9 months and she treated him real bad, i knew her. me and him where friends but i kn...

I don't want to have to choose because I need them both in my life, but I really can't take any more of this.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6299 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - My mum hates my boyfriend so much that she even used an old mobile to text him so it looked like he was cheating, I know because I knew the number was my brother's old number from his first phone. She's always talking bad about him and calls him all ...

My 17 yr old boyfriend doesn't take me anywhere and says because I'm 15 he didn't think I would want to go anywhere. Was I right to take offense?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6292 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - my 17 Yr old boyfriend never takes me anywhere. earlier i confronted him about this and he said "well your only 15, i didnt think you'd want to go anywhere" i took offence by this and he stormed off to bed when i expressed this. was i right to take ...

I've recently got together with my uncles best friend! But he is 40, I am 23 and he now wants to cool it a bit. I dont want to lose him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6293 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - Hi Everyone, I am after a bit of advice regarding a new relationship i have started with an older man. I am 23 and my partner is 40, we met a while ago and have seen each other on occasion at my relative's house(he is my uncle's best friend!)I h...

I'm pregnant by the guy I've been having an affair with! I dont need judging, I just need some advice...

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5762 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - I have been seeing this guy for years. Before you judge me you don't have to live my life and there is a lot of screwed up stuff in my marriage. I am married and scared to death of my husband. I found out that I am pregnant and don't know what to ...

I dont seem to have goals in life. I'm in a long distance relationship and she's starting to annoy me a bit. Whats happening???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6299 days ago

30 August 2007 (M) - i need some help! first of all i wanted to know how to not feel so insecure about myself and hav a vision in my life to achieve a goal? i dnt hava vision i cnt seem myself going any where, even tho i study and wnt a degree i jus have no vision to i ...

He's so controlling towards me all the time.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6299 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 9 months coming to 10 months, since we've been together we have so many arguments and hes so possessive, he always tells me what I can and can't do, he's stopped me from seeing my friends even at work I'm not allowed ...

My fiance cheated and she's pregnant. He told her in front of me that he doesn't love her but will I ever trust him again?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6298 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - I found out a few months ago that my Fiance had been cheating on me for 2years and the girl is now pregnant. He told her infront of me that he doesnt love her and has always loved me but couldnt seem to get rid of her. Will i ever be able to trust ...

I helped a mate out when they split from their partner. Now they're interested in me but I'm married! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6299 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - I'm in a predicament partially of my own making and I don't know the way out. I'm pretty certain I'm confused. I've been married/involved for the past decade. A friend of mine has been going through some rough times with his relationship of ...

We are seperated because i dont feel I love him anymore. Have I done the right thing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6299 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - I have been married for 1 year and I have off and on felt that I was not in love with my husband. I always tried to push the thoughts off and not think about them because he is so good to me. Finally, I started to have panic attacks (they were ...

My wife has been emotional since coming back from a school trip. She's a teacher. How can I deal with this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6299 days ago

30 August 2007 (M) - Hi i've been happily married to my wife for 7 yrs now, she works in a school(teacher) and has recently come back off this adventure holiday type thing that is arranged for 1 week in the summer holidays, there was her and about 6 more teachers ...

Drinking can make my guy go into a rage. I've met someone nice but dont know who to be with???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6299 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - Hi there, I've got myself into a bit of a dilemma. Basically I have been with my boyfriend for nearly six years however in the beginning of the relationship he was very wild. He used to become violent when drinking, he cheated on me, took drugs. T...

Do you think I should bother with her or do you think she doesn't want to know? I'm 44 she's 22.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6299 days ago

30 August 2007 (M) - Please help I've been with my girlfriend for 4 months now, I do have a past, people have been telling her things about me. Lately she's always busy or she says she has a lot on, do you think I should bother with her or do you think she doesn'...

My parters brother in law keeps coming on to her!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6299 days ago

30 August 2007 (M) - Hello, I sincerely hope you can help as i do not know if i am right to be concerned here....my partners brother in law keeps 'coming on to her' he has once grabbed her and kissed her and on another occasion entered her bedroom while she was al...

He is wonderful when we are together, but a jerk when we are apart

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6299 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - hey aunts. hrmm, i've written quite a few posts within the past few weeks. i'll give u the detailed story... i was with my boyfriend for 8 months and we broke up for 2 months with ALOT of troubles within that two months he, had other girls o...

I've been with him 4 yrs but now he's started disrespecting me. What shall I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6299 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - Hi, I have been with my bf for4 yrs, sex was great till he started calling me names, disrepecting me.Just verybally abusing me to the point that I more sad and now I question myself of how good of a person I am, and what he thinks of me. Beca...

He said we would get married then I caught him with a girl in his bedroom. It's hurt so much. Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6299 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - i am in a relationship with this guy who always tells me he loves me so much. we have been in this relationship for two years now. i also love him so much. He has gone to the extent of introducing me to all his family members. ...

Torn between two lovers...who do I choose?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6299 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - I like two amazing guys and I dont know what to do. The first guy B, is very attractive, sweet, caring, loving, is always there when i need him and makes me the center of his world.B is also very clingy and is everything opposite of myself. The seco...

Why do guys eye up other women? I do so much for his family but he doesn't seem to care about mine.Is there something wrong with our relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5096 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - Do i deserve to be treated this way? i am a mother of 4 children...going on 5 children. my common-law husband and i have been together for 11 years. he has been great with the kids, chores around the house, and our sex life is fine.but then problem ...

He was neglecting me so I ended it. I wanted him to chase me but he now says he needs time. Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6299 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - Hi I cant believe I am writing this, but I have really reached the bottom of the barrel. Its simple I started dating a guy that chased me for a very very very long time and he did everything write from the beginning. We dates for three monhts a...

He treats me bad and I feel i should leave. I need some strength...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6299 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - Thank you for you support through your advice. I have been with the guy am talking about for almost 4 years. We moved for 1 and half year and without any reason he left me. I never went into any relationship again because I loved him. After 3 ...

She's admitted she's having an affair but how do i trust her now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6297 days ago

30 August 2007 (M) - I have just found out that my wife is having an affair and she admits she is having sex with the guy.she says it is now over because i have found out ,what shall i do to beleive her because she will not tell me who the guy is even if it breaks our ...