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writes:I am friends with my ex. Now this is the important ex. We have been just friends for a long time now. But I've been told by people in the past to just leave her and not see her again. The thing is I am in a way the best friend she has, she has a habbit of going for a group of people then after a while they stop hanging out with her. I've seen it a lot of times, and I seem to be the only friend thats lasted. Now you'd think that means she treats me nicer. Well no. She can be very mean to me, start shouting at me, goes in moods with me and ignores me a lot. She's not as nice to me as she is to anyone else. I feel her anger at me started because when she was with a guy (who didnt like me) I still had feelings for her, and told her I loved her. She says she can't control her anger at me and that it stops her from being a bitch to others. I hate that excuse, why should I be treated worse? I think I keep staying because I did love her. Also when I told her I got a gf she didnt seem that happy as I thought she'd be, yet when that girl dumped me she was happier than usual. Does anyone know what's her problem?
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (31 August 2007):
 Her problem seems to be that she doesn't respect people and doesn't treat them well, so, in the end, everyone goes away. No one can put up with her way of being.
YOUR problem is that you let her do this to you all the time. If she won't give you the respect you deserve, why would you still see her? Perhaps you feel that eventually she'll come back to you. But, in my opinion, you're far better off without her than with her.
Take care, go breathe fresh air, and find someone else.
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reader, Escalaya  +, writes (31 August 2007):
 Whoops ~_~ i mixed your question up with someone elses, I'm very sorry about the oral sex part x_X My apologies.
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reader, Escalaya +, writes (31 August 2007):
Well, it could be that she feels you might abandon her like others. Best thing to do is to calmly talk to her, tell her the way she treats you really bothers you, and that things need to change.As for oral sex, that's something you honestly experiment with and try out, and learn what your partner likes most. This will sound cheesey, but watch some porn man, see how they do it.If she continues treating you like a piece of shit, after you talk to her about it, end it. Don't waste your time, or life on someone who can't even treat you with the dignity and respect you deserve.
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