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Archived questions from: 16 August, 2007 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I was on his myspace and in his trash was mail with his ex girlfriend saying he still liked her and she likes him and they said he might dump me for her...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6313 days ago

16 August 2007 (F) - I'm worried! My boyfriend says he loves me, he always has and he still does but I was on his myspace and in his trash was mail with his ex girlfriend saying he still liked her and she likes him and they said he might dump me for her but this was a ...

In love with my best friend's girlfriend, what do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6002 days ago

16 August 2007 (M) - I'm in love with my best friend's girlfriend, what do I do? This is probably the worst situation I have ever been in, at least in the terms of love. Let's start out with this, my best friend and his girlfriend have been going out for 3 years now ...

I know a boy who thinks that I am nasty and I have no idea why.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6312 days ago

16 August 2007 (F) - dear agony aunts, I know a boy who thinks that I am nasty and I have no idea why. We recently went out with each other but it was a short relationship and did not get serious. However I still really like him as a friend and want the situatio...

Before leaving for school he hit and killed a little boy in a car accident...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6313 days ago

16 August 2007 (F) - I have a big relationship problem. I have known this guy for several years and we have dated on and off... Last summer it got very serious and then he went away to college. Before leaving for school he hit and killed a little boy in a car accident. ...

I used to be such a strong willed person and this situation is just draining me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6312 days ago

16 August 2007 (F) - I've been having the worst time of my life over the past year. I was made redundant last July 06 and haven't found a permanent job yet! I've just finished a 6 month fixed term job; had 4 interviews last months and still no job. I'm also in the ...

She doesn't ever flirt with me but my girlfriend thinks she will make a move on me. Am I wrong to talk to her? What should I do as I like her as a friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6313 days ago

16 August 2007 (M) - Hi, I'm new here so be kind! Well, I'm 20 years old and have had a girlfriend for almost a year! We're really close, still both live with our parents but spend most of our time together. We do virtually everything together and share only a few...

I feel that is my fault and I should probably cut all ties no matter how much I love her and miss her. What do you guys think...?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6312 days ago

16 August 2007 (M) - Hi all.. I'm very new here. I have an issue with relationships. They all end the same way. I just recently was engaged and I have always treated my women like gold. I am very loving, caring, romantic, affectionate and down to earth. My woman...

He lied about kissing another girl! Now I feel like I can't trust him.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6306 days ago

16 August 2007 (F) - hi there, i was wondering if i could have some advice about my current relationship. Basically, my boyfriend almost kissed a girl with whom he works with a few weeks ago. He said that they become very good friends and that he regreted what happened, ...

I'm not attracted to my bf of 6 years and now my ex says he wants me! My head is a mess - help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6312 days ago

16 August 2007 (F) - I really don't know what to do. I am 25 and I have been with my b/f for 6 years and I thought I was in love with him but now I dont think I am. But Im not sure- I think all the problems we have been having are because it boils down to the fact ...

He thinks I'm cheating and had the nerve to ask if our daughters were even his!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6312 days ago

16 August 2007 (F) - I have had a boyfriend/fiance for almost 4 years now and we ahve two small children together. He is a very jealous type. we went to counsleing over it but now im about to start school its starting up again. He has been accussing me of cheating cuz i ...

He said that he doesn't want to have sex b/c we're around each other too often. Is this normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6313 days ago

16 August 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for almost two years. We were instantly attracted to each other and bonded so well. The first two months in our relationship we were intimate every evening and twice in the morning. It was great. ...

My girlfriend is an alcoholic who never has time for me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6107 days ago

16 August 2007 (M) - my girlfriend is an alcholic and says she loves me and wants to spend time with me but always uninvites me to events she's asked me to go with her , won't let me come with her to do things an will only spend time with me for maybe 3hours per week i ...

He was texting a 24-year-old co-worker and finally confessed, what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6308 days ago

16 August 2007 (F) - Am I over reacting? I noticed my husband was being a bit strange with me and couldn't sleep, went downstairs and found dating sites on the internet that he had joined. It was then that I noticed his phone was always in his pocket whereas befor...

My girlfriend has a drink problem!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6313 days ago

16 August 2007 (F) - Hi, My girlfriend whom I've been dating for 7 months now has a drinking problem. Everytime she drinks, I will feel obligated to drink because I can deal with the drunken issues so much better when I am a little buzzed myself. Just recently, we had ...

Should I let the past go in order to experience the best relationship I have ever had, or do I have a right to be worried?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6312 days ago

16 August 2007 (F) - Should I stay or go?? I have been with boyfriend for a year now and it is the greatest relationship I have ever had. To me, he is a caring, beautiful person who generally always considers me. However, we have been honest with each other about our ...

Do I try to ignore her hoping she'll come when she sees sense and has to make decisions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6313 days ago

16 August 2007 (M) - Please help. I'm a little confused. Have just shut off contact with a girl who I had an affir with (I'm single she's in an unhappy relationship, no kids don't live together etc but feels trapped by everone elses expectations). Thing is I love her ...

Am I first in his life or is his ex more important to him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6313 days ago

16 August 2007 (F) - Hey Everyone, Just wanted to write to you and probably get it off my chest and ask for a little advice from a wide range of people! It's probably gonna be a long one, so mind me! first off, my family hasn't been so good lately, just lots o...

I've now changed my views about marriage and would like to get married some day, how do I tell him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6313 days ago

16 August 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 years, and, on the whole, we have a great relationship. We both love each other, respect each other and mainly want the same things out of life. We have lived together for 3 years and just bought our first ...

I discovered pictures of an ex, over 4 years ago I believe which were all of her in posing in underwear.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6312 days ago

16 August 2007 (F) - Hi There I am writing as in a new relationship - 4 months ish. I am totally infatuated with this guy and he seems just as keen but something is still niggling at me all the time telling me I couldn’t be as lucky to get someone I like this much l...

I'm probably asking the most unaswerable question! Why are guys so hard to understand????

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6313 days ago

16 August 2007 (F) - Hi everyone, I'm probably asking the most unaswerable question! Why are guys so hard to understand???? I've been seeing a guy for a few months and we have a great time together. But he is moving away soon for a job opportunity. I didn't realise ...

I am torn between the 2 loves of my life...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6313 days ago

16 August 2007 (F) - Hi guys, I have a question, I am torn between the 2 loves of my life, I am deeply in love with my girl (let's call her J) and then I dumped her and now I am with another girl (let's call her S) but I want my old girl friend (J) back but don't want ...

We've done most things, "sexually" together, except actual intercourse. I'm a virgin and he's only had sex once, through peer pressure.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6313 days ago

16 August 2007 (F) - Hi, I've been with my current boyfriend for 5 months but I've known him a few years. We're both completely comfortable with each other and we feel that we love each other and we actually want a future together. We've done most things, "sexuall...

We're always arguing over stupid little things and it gets to the point where I slap him and I hate doing it but he gets me so angry.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6313 days ago

16 August 2007 (F) - Me and my boyfriend love each other loads but the problem is we're always arguing over stupid little things and it gets to the point where I slap him and I hate doing it but he gets me so angry. He blames everything on me but I hate the arguing, it ...

I'm really confused about this guy I like... I can't read his signals.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6313 days ago

16 August 2007 (F) - I'm really confused about this guy I like. I think he likes me, he is always trying to make me laugh, I catch him staring at me loads. If we are out in a group he always looks over at me but when we are on our own he gets nervous and seems to get ...

Should I apologise to her for worrying too much about her not returning my messages, or should I just wait until she sends me a message?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6233 days ago

16 August 2007 (M) - Hi everyone! Last month I met this girl in a restaurant in which we were both working (at that time) and we had a great time, she said she'd never had this much fun in her life. So, a few weeks ago, we exchanged phone numbers and expressed how we...

I want to know whether you think he has strong feelings about me or is just messing me around?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6312 days ago

16 August 2007 (F) - Dear Agony Aunt, I am so stressed and confused I don't know what to do the problem is I've fallen in love with someone who unfortunately is my third cousin who is also 6 years older than me and lives abroad. I really love him I am so mad about him ...

I really love this guy and I keep thinking when he comes to his senses he will come back.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6313 days ago

16 August 2007 (F) - I'm really down, I know I need to move on, but I really love this guy and I keep thinking when he comes to his senses he will come back. I met this guy just before Christmas 2006, we talked on the phone a few times then I said about meeting for a dr...

Why can't we let go of each other, is it because we had en emotional affair before we had a sexual one?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6313 days ago

16 August 2007 (F) - This started about a year ago, me and my girlfriend met with another lesbian couple. We were friends right away. As time went by I realised I started to have feelings for my friend which I tried to hide. Then I found out my girlfriend was ...

I think he is great and we could be perfect for each other, but I'm afraid to show my true colors, and shy that he might think I'm a nutter!?!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6311 days ago

16 August 2007 (F) - I have a huge crush on a guy I'm pretty sure he has a girlfriend. We met at work place where he is a counsellor and I'm the receptionist. He is quite flirty, always smiling, attentive, is funny and thoughtful. Everytime he speaks to me, my heart ...

I'm at my wits end over this... WHO DO I CHOOSE???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6313 days ago

16 August 2007 (F) - My marriage of 12 years broke down and as soon as I was financially stable enough I moved out to give our relationship complete space. I had never lived on my own before and found it quite a struggle emotionally. I met up with my husband once a ...

I'm dating 2 girls just now, one very good looking and one NOT good looking. Who should I choose?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6313 days ago

16 August 2007 (M) - I'm 13 and I'm stuck between two girls. I am dating one and she is beautiful and nice but her dad hates me and the other one is sweet and one of the nicest girls I've met but she isn't good looking at all I like both of them but I don't know wha...

He said my counselling is bad for me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6313 days ago

16 August 2007 (F) - Months ago, I hit rock bottom. I was depressed and was dumped over MSN by my ex of 2 years. I always take things to heart what people say about me or think about me. I recently celebrated my 6 months anniversery with my boyfriend of 6 months and he ...

He was talking emotionless and in a very formal way. Does this mean he no longer cares?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6313 days ago

16 August 2007 (F) - Dear all, Yesterday I was really shocked and I thought of sharing it with you, maybe I'm wrong? I'm 23 years old. I've been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now and we're planning to get engaged by year end. My boyfriend joined the military ...

He's changed since he came back from his 40 day vacation!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6313 days ago

16 August 2007 (F) - me and my boyfriend have been going out 8 months, he left for vacation for 40 days. I saw him before he left and now he's back but he doesn't seem to care about when he can see me again. He keeps getting mad at me lately because I say something ...

He says he has "expectations of me" that I NEED to live up to!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6313 days ago

16 August 2007 (F) - My husband and I remarried five years ago after a divorce and two year seperation. I came from a very abusive background. Now, I'm a survivor and live my life much happier. I don't think I've changed much, except that I am much happier with ...

I finished with my boyfriend and have since found out I'm pregnant, how can I get him back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6312 days ago

16 August 2007 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend 2 months ago. I left him for his cousin and it wasn't working out, plus I found out that I'm pregnant and that it's most likely his child.(my ex) I want him back. Will he take me back? How can I get him back?...

How can I get my boyfriend's attention and get him to do his fair share around the house?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6313 days ago

16 August 2007 (F) - How can one get their boyfriend's attention? I live with mine, and his attention is always diverted into things he wants to do or watch. I feel enslaved to the house duties thus feel more like a slave than a girlfriend. In what ways can I turn ...

Why did he think I was faking my illness?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6312 days ago

16 August 2007 (F) - I am in a relationship of 4 years with this guy. He does what he wants and gets what he wants. When he was sick I took care of him. When I strained my neck one time and couldn't move or get up from the sofa or bed saying that I can't move, he ...

I feel very insecure about myself just now and worry when my boyfriend goes out of town with his job...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6313 days ago

16 August 2007 (F) - Hi, me and my boyfriend have been dating for 4 years and we have a son together. I have gained weight. He has a job that means he works out of town a lot and I know when he is out of town, he goes out with the people he works with. He is a very fli...

Is it okay to have film developed from a disposable camera that you have found hidden in your boyfriend's closet?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6312 days ago

16 August 2007 (F) - Is it okay to have film developed from a disposable camera that you have found hidden in your boyfriend's closet?...

I went out of town to see a girlfriend, and came home a couple of days later to discover that whilst I was away my husband had sex in our home with his best mate's partner!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6313 days ago

16 August 2007 (?) - I need others help. I have been married for 6 years, together for 8 years. Over the last two years we have had a tough time, more me and our life changed dramatically when I got MS. My husband was my best friend in the world until a couple of ...

Are there any tips you can give me on seperating the guys at clubs who want just sex and ones who might be looking for more?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6313 days ago

16 August 2007 (F) - Ive just come out of a really bad relationship where I was treated really badly. My friends invited me clubbing this weekend with them, which I have only ever done once because my ex boyfriend wouldn't let me go unless he was with me, and he hates ...

How do I deal with the insecurities I have before geting back into another relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6313 days ago

16 August 2007 (F) - Ive always had bad insecurities and have depended on other people to make me feel good about myself. This includes my ex bf...but I broke up with him earlier this week and I feel un loved and dont like myself. How do I deal with the insecuriti...

Am I just allowing my heart to consider running this fool’s errand?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6313 days ago

16 August 2007 (M) - I don't like advice on half gnawed information, so this is a longer than most posted questions… I’ve known this girl, “Katie” for nine years now and we have a lot of history together, some romantic, but much not. We parted ways for a couple of ...

Is she over me and should I get over her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6313 days ago

16 August 2007 (M) - The girl i like is actually my colleague. I started working with her in October 2005 till Feb 2006. At that point, there was no attraction, only a professional acquaintance. I rejoined the workplace in September 2006, and then the flirtations ...

What can I do about his mates?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6313 days ago

16 August 2007 (F) - Hi everyone, I'm 18 years old and starting University in a few weeks. My boyfriend lives in Leeds (England) and I am going to Uni quite far from there, but that isn't a problem for either of us. He's not going to college because he's got other p...

My mate didn't invite me because I'm pregnant. am I over reacting?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6313 days ago

16 August 2007 (F) - A friend of mine is having a bachelorette party in 2 days and I just found out about it. Another friend was supposed to invite everyone. I read a bulletin in Myspace from the girl getting married and it said that she needs a head count for the ...

Did i cross the line?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6314 days ago

16 August 2007 (F) - I feel like I'm going crazy! I was looking at the myspace page of one of my fiance's friends, and he wrote something about having fun dancing with her at a bar and put baby at the end. She is way younger than him, and I know they are just friends, ...