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Archived questions from: 11 August, 2007 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Do I be selfish and end it now or wait until he is on his feet and can make something of his life?????

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6317 days ago

11 August 2007 (F) - I am stuck in a marriage of 12 years with 2 children, my husband has always put me and my children 2nd to everybody else, only now I feel so stupid that I have put up with it so long. I have just changed my career and have met loads of lovely ...

I used to be smitten with him but these days all we seem to be doing is fighting and when we're not fighting he's spending all his time lying to me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6318 days ago

11 August 2007 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years, but lately he has been treating me horribly. Every weekend he goes out, and never comes home until the next morning, it has changed the way I feel about him too. I used to be smitten with him but these days ...

How can I tell my boyfriend I didn't make it to his party?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6317 days ago

11 August 2007 (F) - I have a new boyfriend and he invited me to his house for his birthday today and we are about 2 hours away and my mom said she would drive me but she didn't. He called but I'm afarid to answer or talk to him cause I don't know if he will be mad, ...

What should a wife do when her husband is going to prostitutes?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

11 August 2007 (F) - What should a wife do when her husband is going to prostitutes?...

I'm a female 16 and I'm bisexual.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6230 days ago

11 August 2007 (F) - Hi, I'm a female 16 and I'm bisexual. 2 years ago a new girl came to my high school. We became quite close friends straight away and I know I was young but I developed a crush on her quickly. When I came out to her, we became even closer and we ...

My mum is about to find out I smoke and will go mental. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6304 days ago

11 August 2007 (?) - I really dont know what to do!!! It's not a relationship question but I'm proper panicking. I started smoking a few week ago with my friends when out and about and hanging out and I think I have become addicted. I am trying to stop and for it not t...

Do I choose Bob or Jim?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6318 days ago

11 August 2007 (F) - I have a boyfriend and we live REALLY far away. And the magic is fading away. We will refer to him as Bob. I have a friend, that is a boy, and I really really really really really like him. He likes me too. He seeemed SO disappointed when he found ...

My son is 24 and his dad has never taken anything to do with him, now I here he's asking after us, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6314 days ago

11 August 2007 (F) - hi, Just want advice on what to do. I have 2 sons, 24 and 15, the eldest one's dad has never acknowledged him since he was born. Now he's asking my friend to tell us he's sorry and asking after us. I don't want anything to do with him whatsoever. ...

how can he know what he wants if she is trying to entice him away and how long should I wait for him to come to a decision?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6317 days ago

11 August 2007 (F) - Hi, really need some advice, my husband had been acting strangely, distant, etc etc and I suspected he was seeing someone else. I constantly confronted him and he denied everything. After one of these episodes he packed his suitcase and left, only ...

How can I be there for her more and how can I help her through this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6318 days ago

11 August 2007 (M) - Hi, Both me and my girlfriend are 17 and have been going out for about 1 year and 5 months. I have recently moved in with her and her mum, dad and brother as i didn't get on with my mum. About a week ago she was in a car crash with her auntie, it ...

Do I try to get him to forgive me or do I just give up on him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6318 days ago

11 August 2007 (F) - Hi, I promised one of my best friends that I wouldn't talk to this guy for two months because she wanted me to get over him. Well after about a week I caved in and started talking to him again. Word got around and he found out about the promise and ...

My boyfriend told me I was superficial, have no personality, hide my emotions and so many other negative things... could he be right?!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6311 days ago

11 August 2007 (F) - Today, my new boyfriend, told me what he thought about my personality. He told me I was superficial, have no personality, hide my emotions and so many other negative things. It hurt and now I can't stop thinking about it. Six months ago I ended a ...

How can I start to think for myself and stop being so influenced by my mother?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6318 days ago

11 August 2007 (F) - Hi - I wonder if anyone could help. My mother recently told me that she got very hurt in her teens (she is now 62) because she found out her mother (my grandmother who is no longer alive) had an affair. Her father never found out and she never ...

Am I losing feelings for him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6316 days ago

11 August 2007 (F) - Hey all, I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 7 months now, it's both our longest relationship to date. I am particularly proud of that achievement but things have ground to a halt. I hardly ever see him now, what was once 2 or 3 times a wee...

I certainly don't want to lose his friendship but how can I find out diplomatically if he is gay or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6318 days ago

11 August 2007 (M) - I need some good advice! I'm a gay 58 year old male who is quite attracted to a young 23 year old guy. We've been friends ever since he was a little fellow. I believe he is gay but I'm not 100% positive about it. We're planning to take a trip ...

I am terrified of the thought of her being with someone else, whenever this thought crosses my mind I begin to cry.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6318 days ago

11 August 2007 (M) - Hello I am writing to see if someone can help me, me and my girlfriend recently broke up and I still am very much in love with her. We talk as friends on a daily basis and I have told her that I wanted to be with her again and that I still love ...

I don't understand why he could do this and I'm heart broken all over again!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6318 days ago

11 August 2007 (F) - I need some advice - split from my ex 12 months ago due to him cheating and drinking! He has kept in touch with me every day even! I tried changing my phone number so he then just turned up at my house. Last weekend I gave in and slept with him...

Is he deliberately trying to make our marriage a sham?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6314 days ago

11 August 2007 (F) - hi, please help me, I have been married to my husband for 8 years we have two children. For the last two years my husband's behaviour has dramatically changed. My hubby isn't axactly the ideal man of my dreams he isn't helpful (he was a bit ...

Can you imagine feeling this way for someone for the past 9-10 years and not being able to be with this person.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6310 days ago

11 August 2007 (F) - I am in love with a married man. He is my ex-boyfriend who I kept in contact with for the past 10 years. He got married 4 years ago. I had a baby 5 years ago. We kept in contact before he met his wife and always had deep hidden feelings for one ...

How do I handle this jealousy problem?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6315 days ago

11 August 2007 (M) - I'm 30 a year old male and in a relationship with a wonderful attractive 25 year old female who adores me and I adore her. I've always had jealousy issues with ex's liking other people/celebrities and I've never managed to get rid of it. My girlfr...

Should I try and be in a relationship with him, or should I just keep it on a friends only level?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6318 days ago

11 August 2007 (F) - I have had this friend for 3 years. A year ago I moved, and he was one of the few friends to stay in contact with me. We started having feelings for each other and when a month before I moved back he asked me out. So... we were together for 2 ...

Why does he act so childish sometimes and blow things all out of proportion?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6318 days ago

11 August 2007 (F) - I'm in a relationship right now (7 months to be exact) and he's a great guy. However, he acts really childish sometimes, and I don't mean immature as in farting in front of me or making lame jokes. He acts very "high school/puppy love" (no ...

When we got back together I had started smoking again, I just kinda kept it discreet. It's been a year and she still doesn't know.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6318 days ago

11 August 2007 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have been together for like a year. When we first got together I quit smoking for her because she said she would never date a smoker but we broke up for a couple weeks, when we got back together I had started smoking again, I ...

She's also really hyper and active and stuff, and I'm basically the opposite in so many ways. I'm worried about boring her and she's worried about overwhelming me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6318 days ago

11 August 2007 (M) - So, I'm not sure how to start this because there's way too much background maybe. But anyways, after talking to her for a month I dated a girl for about two weeks. After those two weeks a fight over a night we were both feeling terrible on made us ...

He's never stayed over my appartment, we've never been away together and I've never met his friends (who know nothing about me)... is there something wrong, here?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6318 days ago

11 August 2007 (F) - Yucky problem.. I've been with my boyfriend for almost two years and love him hugely. I'm in my early 30's with a child who lives with her dad and his wife and he's in his late twenties, we're also from different cultures. He lives with his p...

Feel like my boyfriend am I are living like a boring old married couple... already!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6318 days ago

11 August 2007 (F) - I am so mixed up at the moment, I'm at university in England, where I live with my boyfriend, who moved over here with me from N.Ireland. He's wonderful; very loyal, kind and generous and I love him dearly. Ideally I would love us to marry and live ...

I'm very confused about my guy friend. He keeps on giving me mixed signals about what he wants from me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6318 days ago

11 August 2007 (F) - I'm very confused about my guy friend. He keeps on giving me mixed signals about what he wants from me. I've known him for a long time now, about 2 years, and we tell each other everything. I once told him that I had feelings for him, but he didn't ...

I have to force myself to have sex and don't really enjoy it at all.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6318 days ago

11 August 2007 (F) - I really need some advice. I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half and he is amzing. He treats me like a princess and loves me so much. He is the best boyfriend that I have ever had, the only problem is that lately I haven't really b...

She is cutting me off from sex until I get my teeth fixed!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6318 days ago

11 August 2007 (M) - I am so confused over a statement my wife made to me today telling me basically she is cutting me off from sex until I get my teeth fixed. My teeth are not that bad, I have no oral issues other then crooked teeth. I feel like walking out as this ...

I feel i can't move on, because he needs me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6308 days ago

11 August 2007 (F) - I've been livign with my ex husbad for the last 2 yrs. we're good friednds now but no other attraction whatsoever. somehow i feel i cant move on cos he needs me as an emotional support. i love him a lot and i understand him, just that because of his ...

Should I just drop the baby making issue's and go back to the way things were before I wanted a baby?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6315 days ago

11 August 2007 (F) - My husband and I have been together for 7 years, 4 of which we have been married. When we first got together we did not want children. He already has a 17 year old son, and had a bad experience when his son was born. Over the last three years I ...

I don't know how i feel anymore.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6318 days ago

11 August 2007 (F) - OKay well I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years we have lived together for 1 and a half and we have been fighting alot lately. I dont want to be intimate with him at this moment. But this is so sudden, a couple weeks ago we were fine. Am I fed ...

Was this RAPE?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6061 days ago

11 August 2007 (F) - Around 10 months ago I was out with an old friend from school and she met 2 of her friends which were 2 lads that I did not really know but had seen around the area a couple of times. They got pretty drunk and at first I didn't touch any drink but ...

My wife has stopped having sex with me and now shows no physical affection at all!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

11 August 2007 (M) - OK, where do I start...well, I appreciate anyone who takes the time to read and reply. I have been married for more than 6 years. We have a fantastic son of nearly 4. Soon after he was born my wife lost interest in sex. Thats how it started. Sinc...

I don't want to lose my friendship to him as we have always been such close mates.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6318 days ago

11 August 2007 (F) - Hey I have an amazing boyfriend, and I love him to pieces. The other night my best friend had a smallish party an we both went, we fell asleep together etc. (nothing happened or was intended to) but now one of my of my other friends has got real...