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writes:Hi, i need some help.I lost a baby after 15 weeks about 4 months ago, but had to go in to hospital because the baby had been dead for 3 weeks. ever since this has happened me and my fiance havent been the same since. We don't talk anymore and i find myself crying for no reason. We have been together for a year and a half and i don't want to lose him. Can things ever be the same between us or is there too much of a damaged past?
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reader, Escalaya  +, writes (31 August 2007):
 As far as I can see, nothing's damaged. It just seems you're both in shock/pain over losing the child. Was he happy to keep it? If so, he might just be sad that he lost his child.
Talk to him, ask him why he doesn't talk to you.
As for the random outbursts of crying; it's natural that a mother who lost her child would go through something of that nature.
Take care, and all the best. Best of luck.
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reader, XXpussycatXX  +, writes (31 August 2007):
hya hun
well the reason you are finding it so hard is because you have gone through a lt at the moment....the best thing is for you to speak to you partner otherwise you are not going to mend yourself..if you open up then your partner will to and then things will mnd themselves gradually.you wil find that your relationship will go to another level.........and that you can both get through your heartache..
hope this helps.
good luck for the future
xxx
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