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Three is a crowd: Help and advice

He's tried to do the right thing but doesn't want her to be hurt more than necessary

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4160 days ago

31 July 2013 (F) - 4 years ago when I was 18 I met this guy when we started working together, he was 26 at the time. Our job requires us to work away from home; so we spent quite a lot of time together and became close straight away even though he was in a ...

Found out that my ex lives near the home my wife rented. Have made it complicated for myself? What should I do now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4160 days ago

31 July 2013 (M) - Dear Cupid, I arrived in US three weeks ago. I'm Indian Muslim . I'm 28. My wife is also 28 Recently, I bumped into my Ex”L” while jogging and she lives just one mile away from my wife house. She was also American and dumped me four years ago. ...

I don't know if I could ever trust again and build the relationship up, which seems like double standards based on my past behavior.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4160 days ago

31 July 2013 (M) - I'm not quite sure where to start with all of this, so here goes; I've been in a relationship with my partner for 13 years now, and I love her very much, we have three young kids together. About four years ago I discovered that my partner had t...

Does my ex have feelings for me, or is he just messing with my head?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4162 days ago

30 July 2013 (F) - So this question is about my ex. We dated about 2 years ago for a very short period of time. We went to the same school for 4 years and remained friends after dating. He didn't seem that into me and we were both young. We would still text and flir...

My boyfriend was looking at dozens of pics of his "ex" while sleeping in my room, in my parents house, after we got engaged!!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4159 days ago

30 July 2013 (F) - My bf and I got engaged a few days ago. We have what I thought was a ‘perfect’ relationship, we’ve known each other for many years, started dating sometime back, we clicked, we were absolutely made for each other…or so I liked to think and from what ...

How can I have a relationship when she is still in his life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4163 days ago

29 July 2013 (F) - Hello everyone. Thank you for taking the time to read this. I'm going through a situation and I'm trying to get some opinions. My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 2 months now. My problem is that he's still friends with his ex, ...

I told my girlfriend's friend she was hot, and now there is friction between them

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4163 days ago

28 July 2013 (M) - Dear cupid, Just eight days ago , I said to my girlfriend's close friend , in front of her, that "Oh my God, you are one hell of a hot girl." . Her friend just smiled whereas my girlfriend said "Enough" . Ever since that happened, my girlfrie...

What do I say or do to make my ex realize he has to chose between his ex girlfriend and me? I need to move on!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4164 days ago

28 July 2013 (F) - Hi I broke up with my ex bf about 3 years ago I still have strong feeling for him but I no nothing with happen again. He now has a new gf and I have started slowly but finally moving on but lately I have been getting messages from him ...

Update on alcoholic partner who can't choose between me and his ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4164 days ago

27 July 2013 (F) - Mod's note: this is the original post http://www.dearcupid.org/question/im-with-an-alcoholic-who-goes-back-and.html This is the person who has the alcoholic mate who goes back and forth between me and his ex. All the answers were very helpful...

My boyfriend was meeting his ex behind my back and I'm finding it very hard to trust him again

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4165 days ago

27 July 2013 (F) - I really want to work things out with my boyfriend but I don't know if I can trust him. We've been together two years, we met when I was finishing with someone else and he waited almost a year to actually be with me, during which time he had plen...

Dirty talk and sexy photos with another man - should I tell my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4163 days ago

27 July 2013 (F) - I have a bf for past 4 yrs. its a long distance relationship. I also had a good friend with whom I could share all my probs and all my opinions..but never loved him any near to my bf. Recently he broke up with his gf. Just to comfort him I said.i....

If I say yes to his marriage proposal will he later change his mind about me having girlfriends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4165 days ago

27 July 2013 (F) - Hi I'm hoping I can get some real life experience answers here. The situation is I'm bisexual. I've been dating a Guy for 2 years and I love him deeply. He's none since the day we met that I'm bi and he's never had a problem with me dating a woman ...

I ruined my boyfriend's friendship without meaning to, how can I fix the situation?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4164 days ago

27 July 2013 (F) - Hello all. As background:My boyfriend has always been concerned of whom I talk to. To the point where he feels my male friends or males that try to talk to me are all trying to get me into bed according to him. This triggered me drawing myself f...

I'm with an alcoholic who goes back and forth between his ex and me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4164 days ago

26 July 2013 (F) - I have been in a relationship with a man who is an alcoholic and drinks liquor and beer everyday.He has for 5yrs. now been going back and forth between his ex-girl friend and me.He'll be at my house one month,then at her house the next month.He ...

Is he rebounding or is he just crazy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4165 days ago

26 July 2013 (F) - So, my boyfriend of two years and I have recently broke up. It's been a rocky relationship for quite a while but we love(d) each other very much and were one day planning to marry and have kids etc. We could not be without each other. Since we'...

My best male friend has cut me out of his life after his wife got jealous

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4170 days ago

22 July 2013 (F) - My male friend and I have been best friends ever since High School. We are both grown around our 30's now and we've been talking on the phone and emailing each other past years, I'am married with 2 kids and he just got married last year and a ...

I'm in love with my ex's friend, so where do I stand with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4171 days ago

21 July 2013 (F) - I'm going to make this as short as I possibly can!! About 4 years ago I had a boyfriend. MY boyfriend had a friend who Was really cool. Long story short, after me and my boyfriend had broken up me and his friend became close. We were only best...

Amazing passion with my sexy neighbour, then the ex pops up again

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4170 days ago

19 July 2013 (F) - Hi I desperately need some advice as in a real mess ! I dated Jon three years ago for about a year. I totally fell in love with him but became frustrated that he seemed to lack interest in me and the relationship seemed very one sided. He broke up ...

Need to choose between two guys

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4173 days ago

19 July 2013 (F) - A few months ago I was becoming quite lonely with few friends and was dying to be in a relationship with someone who cares about me and who I can care about. I guess my confidence got better and now I have more friends and ,now, I have fallen for ...

He broke up with my friend, I fell for him, and now he's talking to her again

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4177 days ago

15 July 2013 (F) - One of my friends broke up with her boyfriend... and her bf talked to me a lot and we used to text each other.... i really liked him and thought that now since my friend is out of the picture... it may happen that we two end up together... it may ...

Best friend and boyfriend .... what do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4177 days ago

14 July 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and my best friend have been sleeping together for at least 5 months but I can't find the courage to leave him. We share a 18 week old daughter, and we have just got our first mortgage in the past year. I'm in two minds about whether to ...

Does he want to hook up or date?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4178 days ago

14 July 2013 (F) - So I've been casually talking to this guy for a few years that has consistently asked to meet me and not just webcam and phonecall. I have a boyfriend that I've been thinking about breaking up with for quite a while now, so I asked him for advice ...

Are they just friends, or what?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4177 days ago

13 July 2013 (F) - My bf and i have been dating for three months,he has a friend he talks about most times,a girl who is his neighbour,the girl usually calls her,recently we met and he said he will miss me since we will be vacating soon,he said he cant wait for the ...

Does guy from work want something to happen between us all?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4181 days ago

10 July 2013 (F) - Well I seem to have got myself into an interesting situation to say the least. Last year I met a guy at work,I'll call him Sam, well we became friends chatting to each other at work but no contact outside if it, he flirted often with me and one day ...

In love with two different guys

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4183 days ago

9 July 2013 (F) - First of all, this is going to be pretty long, so I just want to thank anyone who actually takes the time to read this and give advice. Let's do each other a favor and try to keep negative comments to a minimum. Basically, I'm in love with two di...

Swinging gone terribly wrong, am I stupid for staying?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4182 days ago

9 July 2013 (F) - I am a 41 year old married woman for 16 years. I got my husband into swinging then I began an longtime affair for over 10 years. I do not want to swing anymore. I just recently stopped my affair within the last year, my husband is still a swinger ...

Should I believe he doesn't really want to be with her? Or should I accept that he lied to my face and move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4184 days ago

9 July 2013 (F) - My last year in college I met this guy who is only a year younger than me but 2 years behind me academically because of where his birthday falls. He and I got along well and were always friendly when we saw each other but didn't hang out. I ju...

My girl on the side stopped contacting me. Do I discuss this with my wife? She knows about this girl already

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4184 days ago

8 July 2013 (M) - My wife and I have a fairly open relationship. Recently I met a girl at a party and we got on well. We eventually slept together a couple of times, my wife being aware and okay with it. The three of us spent a few evenings and days hanging out. ...

My girlfriend exchanged nude photos with another guy

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4184 days ago

8 July 2013 (M) - Well, me and my girlfriend met at college and I can honestly say that I adore her and fell in love with her. I would find myself doing ANYTHING and EVERYTHING that I could for this girl. She has been through some tough times and has had a messed up ...

I have strong feelings for two women, not sure which way to turn

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4182 days ago

5 July 2013 (M) - I've been with a girl (Lisa) since Uni, for just over 7 years. She's really a great girl who I have semi moved in with. She's a country girl who's quite shy but made the first move on me back when we started, and from that point on things were gre...

How handle a married co-worker who has a crush on me? And should I tell my husband? Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4187 days ago

5 July 2013 (F) - I am married and working with a married guy who shows some interests in me and I strongly believe that even worse than that he should be a player. I guess I gave him the wrong impression with being friendly. I do not want to have anything with this ...

I'm in love with my married bestfriend and I don't want to lose her friendship. Please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4187 days ago

5 July 2013 (M) - Since my divorce. I have not dated anyone. It seemed that everyone else had love and I was alone. I met someone that became my best friend. Her and I spend every second together. I fell in love with this girl so hard it made me sick. Here is ...

Do I go on a date with the brother?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4189 days ago

3 July 2013 (F) - So i have a bit of a sticky situation and have no idea how to deal with it. I've just started to hang out with a few guys from my college recently, who i've know for a very long time now. I had a sort of 'thing' with one of the guys in the group a ...

I messed up my relationship by going back to the past. How can I fix this? Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4191 days ago

1 July 2013 (F) - hello! I am 23 years old woman and I come from a traditional family background. Four years back i was dating a guy who was sweet and really loved me lots ,well I too started to like him and we dated for two and half years.I was totally committed to ...