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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Well I seem to have got myself into an interesting situation to say the least. Last year I met a guy at work,I'll call him Sam, well we became friends chatting to each other at work but no contact outside if it, he flirted often with me and one day admitted that he found me distracting. During this time though he knew I had a boyfriend and I knew he had a wife but we continued to flirt(my bf is fine with it) However suddenly he left work without so much as a goodbye and left pleanty of gossip behind. After about a month a friend at work told me Sam had got in touch and wanted me to email him, so I took down his phone number and email and sent him a message. He replied saying he was making jewellery and he wanted me to see it. We then messages each other on Facebook on and off an have been doing so since march sometimes we flirt but nothing major. Well two nights ago he messages me inviting me to his leaving do(he's moving abroad) I said yes and we started to chat after about ten minutes the conversation had turned and things went quite far. Thing is I think this guy might be in an own relationship as his wife knew what he was doing. Me and my partner woul love to get involved but I feel like a complete novice as I have only ever slept with my current partner.Could it be that he wants something to happen between us all? He kept asking if I minded the conversation we were having? Also do I tell him how inexperienced I am?Has anyone else been in this situation?Any info would be great as I'm not sure what the next step is? Thanks for reading
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reader, DV1  +, writes (11 July 2013):
 I would go out to a public place, and bring your partner in tow.
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reader, Atsweet1 +, writes (10 July 2013):
 I would invite him on a meet and greet type hang out date dinner possible location a sports bar or a decent weekend showtime venue. You and your bf get to mingle and get to know each other and go from there. Thats how I do my invites. After the ground work we do what grown folks do which is eat drink and be merry. Its all in good fun. The inexperience is minor I will put it like this I can talk you or walk you through all the steps not a problem. I imagine thats how they feel with that issue which isnt a issue unless you are allowing it to become one. Its just being nervous they are just as nervous too I would suppose too. If its attraction and chemistry there let nature take its course it will work its self out the rest of the way.
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