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*oyie
writes:My bf and i have been dating for three months,he has a friend he talks about most times,a girl who is his neighbour,the girl usually calls her,recently we met and he said he will miss me since we will be vacating soon,he said he cant wait for the girl to come back form school and he wants to tell her about me,i told him there is no need for that cos i kinda get jealous when he talks of the girl,i think the girl loves him,are they just friends or what?
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reader, Joyie +, writes (15 July 2013):
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2013): Don't start out your new relationship being jealous of his friends. He had a life before he met you. You don't own him.
If he wants to tell a friend about you, you should be flattered, not jealous. That is a bad sign. If you get jealous of all the girls he knew before you, you will be his "ex" before you know it. So what, if she is in love with him?
He already has a girlfriend.
He has no obligation to constantly prove and reassure you that you're the one he cares for. He knows other girls.
I'll tell you, as I've advised many others.
Insecurity kills relationships fast. Jealousy is a deal-breaker, and if you find a girlfriend or boyfriend who spends most of their time being jealous and insecure; you're better off without them. They're miserable people to be around. Clingy and possessive is not attractive.
Learn to trust and appreciate him. He is very proud of you, and wants to let her know she has to move on; because there is a new girl in his life. Let's see if you're worth the trouble.
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